The best state is when you are alone
Every adult has to run for life. The years are quiet, and it is a state after life is good. A person must first solve the problems of life, and then he can have spiritual enjoyment.
In the crowd, most people are unconscious, who only know how to go with the flow and drift with the wind, and when they see what others have, they want it themselves, but they don't ask themselves why they want these things.
"Whether you want it" and "whether you can" are two categories of questions, in fact, in life, people are more concerned about whether they can get it, regardless of whether they want it or not. Some people are very capable, and the things they get through hard work cannot meet their needs, so they sigh that they have worked hard all their lives, but they have never made themselves happy.
In today's society, there are many people who blindly pursue. For example, when you see someone else having a house, you pursue a house, when you see someone else have a luxury car, you pursue a luxury car, and when you see someone else having a plane, you start to pursue an airplane again...... In fact, these people do not have the wisdom to live a good life, because they live for others to see, not for themselves.
Nowadays, I only do subtraction, and the more I live, the easier it becomes. In a simple life, I feel more relaxed and happy, and it also allows me to calm down and think. What was once very important, with the improvement of the realm, you will find that material wealth is really just something outside the body, only physical and mental health and family happiness can make a person sincerely feel the beauty of life.
The best state is when you are alone. Here, I hope you know what you want and try to get what you really want. People live not blindly comparing, but living their own lives. It is a kind of happiness to live according to your own desires and live the life you want most.
Relying on yourself is the most reliable
The years are like flowing water, and they are gone forever. The true feelings that cannot be forgotten, life has to go on. Prosperity and glitz are just a wisp of smoke. The lover is lonely, the beauty is twilight, and the lingering chaos is just a dream in the best years.
Life is like a play, but also like a dream. The heart must be given to those who understand, and it is worth it. No matter how sad the years are, there are people who will cherish you, which is a kind of happiness. No matter how far you go, it is a joy to have someone who cares about you. Enthusiasm is not three points of heat, but a lifetime together.
When people are tired, they have a good rest, and when their hearts are tired, they learn to be indifferent. Only by seeing through the truth of the world can we move towards maturity. Give yourself a smile when you're sad. Many times, don't expect others to save you. Learning to rely on yourself is the most reliable.
A person is prone to grief because the memory is too good. In the grief of the past, it is impossible to let go. People are alive, and it is rare to be confused. We must know how to ignore the pain in life and learn to let go, so that we can pick up our faith and set sail again.
The most difficult thing for people is to think about others. Because everyone is selfish and only thinks from their own point of view. When you know how to empathize, you will become a warm person and be more likely to be respected by others. To be yourself is not only yourself, but to embrace the whole world and do your best at the same time.
If it's not easy to live at this stage, you have to learn to restart. In life, we must have a pattern and a mind in order to open up a new world of our own. Don't be honest with others, because it's not worth it. Just go your own way and let go of the past in order to embrace the future.