In "Big River 3", the tough Wei Chunhong and Lei Dongbao are together again. Lei Dongbao and Feng Xinxin divorced, asked for custody of their son, and then found Wei Chunhong.
"In the future, you will raise it, give me a good raiser, don't treat my son badly. ”
At this point, Wei Chunhong "won", Lei Dongbao came back, divorced Feng Xinxin, and the two had a son with a husband's blood, her mother-in-law recognized herself, her business was doing well, and she also had her own children. It looks like everything is going well. You see, in reality, a marriage that looks happy and happy, there will always be more or less sand underneath, which looks glamorous on the outside, but there are always inevitably some lice inside, itching from time to time, not fatal, but also not very pleasant!
What is unsatisfactory is that Wei Chunhong's appearance is the appearance of most people in marriage, and Wei Chunhong's marriage is what ordinary marriages are original.
1. Wei Chunhong is smart and has her own career
As a widow, Wei Chunhong ran her own restaurant, and in that era, she had the consciousness of doing business, and the more she got bigger, she must have a few brushes. And in Lei Dongbao's career, Wei Chunhong played a very important role. For example, Lei Dongbao's fund-raising link is inseparable from Wei Chunhong's matchmaking. Financial independence is a woman's confidence in marriage. Wei Chunhong is undoubtedly confident. Later, Lei Dongbao was expelled from Xiao Lei's house, and relying on Wei Chunhong's investment and hotel, the two of them were able to maintain a good life.
Second, Wei Chunhong is sober and has her own supporters
Wei Chunhong was sober and knew what she wanted. When Lei Dongbao wanted to divorce, he asked for money, and after divorcing Lei Dongbao, he not only continued to do the business of the Xiaolei family, but also helped Lei Dongbao manage money. Lei Dongbao asked for money to buy a house, and when the house was bought, the money was borrowed. This strategy, one step and three steps, is wonderful. Wei Chunhong is deeply liked by her mother-in-law, Lei Dongbao's mother recognizes her very much, and the brothers of the Xiaolei family also recognize her, which is also an indispensable aspect. is very open in Lei Dongbao's circle, and compared with Feng Xinxin, Lei Dongbao can't do without her to a certain extent.
Third, Wei Chunhong has love and likes Lei Dongbao
Does Wei Chunhong have any love for Lei Dongbao? The answer is yes. It is precisely because of this love that he raised the children born to other women for him and treated his mother-in-law well. Does Wei Chunhong love Lei Dongbao very much? Not at all. It's just that Lei Dongbao is relatively cost-effective for Wei Chunhong. Lei Dongbao is helpful to her career, has a conscience, is capable of doing things, and can be used as her support. Under this premise, Wei Chunhong can tolerate Lei Dongbao's derailment, and even help Lei Dongbao raise children.
Compared with love, marriage is a very complex thing, there are interests, emotional entanglements, love, mutual support and dependence, the need for reproduction, and the physical fit. It is to get along with common ground while reserving differences, and it is also a business that turns big things into small things. Don't find faults, don't make a big fuss, in order to live well. After all, when the water is clear, there are no fish, and there is corresponding beauty when you see flowers in the fog.
From this point of view, Wei Chunhong is undoubtedly wise. Wei Chunhong and Lei Dongbao's marriage is also what most people's marriages look like, there is not much love, there are not shallow bonds (children, economy), and there is a decent other half, which is not bad but very obvious imperfections, but do you have a good life, it's almost there, right?
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