#记忆里的年味#
Recently, the news that a woman invited her classmates to marry but was ignored has received widespread attention on the Internet. According to reports, the woman sent a wedding invitation to her classmates before getting married, only to receive a cold response. As a retaliation, she domineeringly recovered the 500 yuan money sent by her classmates!
This matter has caused a lively discussion. Should we teach our classmates a lesson about "going out with a red face"? Or is this woman's approach a bit excessive?
Let's take a look at the ins and outs of this matter. The woman sent invitations to her classmates before getting married, hoping that they would be able to attend her wedding and share the happy moment with her. However, she did not receive a positive response from her classmates. Instead, she received cold replies such as "I can't come because of something" and "I don't like to go to the wedding." This made her feel very disappointed and sad.
The woman did not choose to be silent, she chose to act. She decided to recover the 500 yuan given by her classmates as a way to express her dissatisfaction and anger. This practice has caused a lot of controversy, with some seeing it as a very domineering action and others as excessive revenge.
What are we to make of this? From my point of view, this woman is actually very sensible. Because the behavior of her classmates was just too unbearable. Not only are they cold and ruthless towards their friends, but they also don't care about their feelings. This kind of behavior is intolerable. Therefore, the woman's recovery of 500 yuan is actually a voice: we should respect each other's feelings and respect each other's friendship.
Some might say that this approach is a bit too radical. However, if we think about it, we will find that everyone has their own bottom line. When others cross this line, we will choose to act. Although this woman's approach is a bit out of line, she is just fighting for her bottom line, which is commendable.
What I'm trying to say is that this incident tells us that friendship is a two-way street. If we want our friends to treat us genuinely and kindly, then we should treat them as well. As a human being, we should have a kind and tolerant heart, respect each other's feelings, and cherish each other's friendship, so that we can establish true friendship and make our lives more fulfilling and happy.