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Luo Xiuchun was born in a privileged family, both parents have stable jobs, and the family is in good financial condition. Since she was a child, she has been pampered by her family, dressing up to go to school every day, and visiting many places of interest in Beijing with her father on weekends.
Luo Xiuchun performed well when she grew up, and after entering the art troupe, her outstanding temperament soon made her a group flower. Many suitors tried to approach her, but she refused.
One day, Zhang Guoli came to Luo Xiuchun's art troupe. Zhang Guoli is handsome, gentle and polite, and Luo Xiuchun suddenly had a good impression at first sight. In the work of the art troupe, the two were in constant contact and gradually became familiar.
Zhang Guoli took the initiative to chat with Luo Xiuchun, making her feel very comfortable with him, and then Luo Xiuchun had a good impression of Zhang Guoli, and the two established a relationship soon after.
However, Luo Xiuchun's parents resolutely opposed the marriage. The reason is that Zhang Guoli was just a young actor at that time, and his family conditions were not superior. They hope that their daughter can find a good family to marry.
Luo Xiuchun quarreled fiercely with her parents and strongly stated that she would be with Zhang Guoli no matter what. In the end, Luo Xiuchun's parents had no choice but to agree and agree to this family affair.
Zhang Guoli and Luo Xiuchun finally entered the marriage hall and had a son after marriage, named Zhang Mo.
After marriage, Zhang Guoli gradually emerged in the art troupe, and there were more and more performance opportunities. In order to further help Zhang Guoli develop on the road of acting, Luo Xiuchun's parents took the initiative to contact a neighbor at home, who happened to be the stylist of the TV crew.
Thanks to their recommendation, Zhang Guoli was able to play the leading role in the TV series "Crooked Stone Path".
Luo Xiuchun hopes that he can become Zhang Guoli's strong backing, so that he has no worries and can devote himself wholeheartedly to his acting career. During the day, she takes care of her son, and at night, as soon as Zhang Guoli comes home, she listens to his work and helps him relax.
Luo Xiuchun has always been a staunch supporter of Zhang Guoli, and she is convinced that as long as the two work together, they will one day live a happy life.
In 1984, Zhang Guoli met Deng Jie while filming the TV series "The Password Is Not Leaked". At that time, Deng Jie was in the process of going through the divorce, and she was an actress who came back after divorce, and her state was not very good.
Zhang Guoli found Deng Jie secretly wiping her tears in the corner alone, and his heart was full of pity, so he took the initiative to hand over a handkerchief and talk to her.
Although the two did not act more intimately, Zhang Guoli was very concerned about Deng Jie's emotions. After returning home, Zhang Guoli always unconsciously remembered Deng Jie's fragility, and compared with his tired wife Luo Xiuchun, a trace of disgust emerged in his heart.
However, whenever Zhang Guoli thought of everything Luo Xiuchun had done for himself, he could quickly wake up to himself and try to suppress the impulses in his heart.
The drama "Dead Water Breeze" became an opportunity for the two to reunite, the two had a lot of rivalry, and Zhang Guoli's feelings for Deng Jie became increasingly warm and difficult to control. One day, after the two played, Zhang Guoli plucked up the courage to confess to Deng Jie, and Deng Jie also accepted the man who was going through the divorce.
They began to meet on private and secret dates.
This forbidden relationship soon reached Luo Xiuchun's ears. At first, Luo Xiuchun was unsettled and depressed, but then she woke up like a dream and decided to leave in style and no longer struggle.
In 1988, after Luo Xiuchun filed for divorce, Zhang Guoli chose to leave Sichuan with Deng Jie and went to Beijing to work hard. At that time, their son Zhang Mo was only 6 years old, and Zhang Guoli decided to abandon the family for love and career.
Zhang Mo is a smart child, but in this environment, his personality gradually becomes withdrawn and perverse. After going to school, Zhang Mo often fought with his classmates, and he didn't care about the teacher's criticism and teaching.
Luo Xiuchun hired a psychiatrist for Zhang Mo, but Zhang Mo still went his own way, which led to a huge gap between Luo Xiuchun and him when he graduated from junior high school.
Zhang Guoli, who was thriving at the time, took his son to Beijing and then enrolled him in the Central Academy of Drama to study acting, hoping that this would provide his son with a life-changing opportunity.
However, due to his busy work, he could not always be by Zhang Mo's side. At school, Zhang Mo met a girl, and the relationship between the two became closer and closer, but Zhang Mo was beaten by mistake and seriously injured.
This incident caused an uproar, and as a result, Zhang Mo was expelled from school.
Luo Xiuchun and Zhang Guoli are worried about Zhang Mo's chaotic life, but despite this, they still defend their son, hoping to give him a chance to mend his ways.
This time, Zhang Guoli relied on his network resources to let his son Zhang Mo star in several online dramas. Zhang Mo's acting skills are actually not bad, and he slowly began to receive some praise. However, just as his career began to improve, he fell into a trough because of another drug use.
Time flies, Luo Xiuchun and Zhang Guoli have been divorced for 35 years. Over the years, Luo Xiuchun has remained single and takes care of her son wholeheartedly.
Luo Xiuchun's son is an adult, but due to various reasons, he is not able to live alone, and she is worried about her son's life alone. She longs to see her son finally settle down and have a stable job and life so she can put her mind at ease.
Whenever negative news such as Zhang Mo's drug involvement and brawls come into focus again, Zhang Guoli will be under tremendous pressure. He needs to face public skepticism and pressure from public opinion, which may even affect his career in the entertainment industry.
This made him worry about both his son's future and his status in the film and television industry. Every late at night, Zhang Guoli would lie in bed alone, secretly regretting the harm that the divorce had caused to his son.
In contrast, although Luo Xiuchun's life is simple, her heart is very calm. She has seen through a lot and is no longer angry with Zhang Guoli's behavior.
Occasionally, someone suggested that Luo Xiuchun could use his relationship with Zhang Guoli to fight again, but Luo Xiuchun always firmly refused.
The breakdown of Zhang Guoli and Luo Xiuchun's marriage has brought great trauma to the child, which is irreparable. This incident tells us that the divorce of parents and the breakdown of the family can bring great harm to the physical and mental health of children.
Many children from better backgrounds end up choosing the wrong path because they can't bear the blow of their parents' divorce.
At the same time, it also reminds us not to be overly engaged in work and neglect the family and children. Children's growth needs the security of material life, but also needs companionship, love and spiritual sustenance, which are indispensable elements of their growth.
In order to pursue career development, Zhang Guoli repeatedly ignored his son Zhang Mo's feelings, which undoubtedly led to the distortion and lack of Zhang Mo's outlook on life.
In today's entertainment industry, relationships are changing rapidly, and the divorce rate remains high. Many artists treat marriage like child's play, frequently changing boyfriend and girlfriend, which also has a certain impact on the healthy growth of their children.
We should not just criticize others, but reflect on our own actions. In the process of pursuing career and family, we should maintain rationality and ethics, and do not harm others, which is the basic value we should have.
I hope that the story of Zhang Guoli and Luo Xiuchun can give everyone a warning. At the crossroads of life, you must be rational and do not change the fate of your family because of impulse.
Only by facing the complexity of life with wisdom and responsibility can we illuminate the way forward together.