Preface
How did he become a popular figure in the TV industry?
"Fame, fortune and honor, is it all about success?" In the face of the endless spotlight, he chose to return to the ordinary.
All that was left for the public was that indifferent smile.
This is Xiao Dongpo, a unique legend in the Chinese TV circle.
Shandong boy, because of a dream to break into the north
In 1969, in an ordinary family in Jinan, Shandong, a boy was born, and he was Xiao Dongpo.
Both parents work, and the family is ordinary.
When he was a child, Xiao Dongpo was lively and active, and his temper was straightforward.
Parents pampered but strict discipline this perverse son.
After entering primary school, Xiao Dongpo's personality became more and more apparent.
Average learner but good at physical activities, often express his opinions in class to cause discussion.
His classmates said he was upright and assertive.
The parents also found that this son was different from themselves and always had his own ideas.
In 1978, in order to realize the dream of developing north, Xiao's father and mother decided to move their family to Harbin, an old industrial base in the far northeast.
In a foreign land, life is not easy.
The family of three depends on each other, and life is poor but fulfilling.
Xiao Dongpo also cultivated a simple and persistent personality in this cold land.
Diligent and studious, but bold and fighting for his dreams
After graduating from high school, Xiao Dongpo saved his family's savings and applied for the transportation major of Xi'an Highway College.
This is the transportation industry he has longed for, and he hopes that he can make a big career on this road.
In college, Xiao Dongpo studied in a mediocre major, but he was full of curiosity about the outside world.
I often skip school and go to Gaoyi County to experience life and make local friends.
During the winter and summer vacations, I always like to carry large bags and small bags to the surrounding counties to see the various states of this society.
Despite his unsatisfactory studies, Xiao Dongpo still got his graduation certificate with his perseverance and sweat.
After graduating from university, he was assigned to work at Shandong Jiaotong Hospital and began an ordinary position as a medical assistant.
Repeating boring work from 9 to 5, Xiao Dongpo's inner ambition is still undiminished.
He aspires to become a media person and infect more people with his voice on TV.
So in his spare time, Xiao Dongpo actively participated in amateur broadcasting and hosting training.
He firmly believes that as long as he works hard, opportunities will come.
In 1997, the news of the recruitment of Shandong TV host reached Xiao Dongpo's ears.
"This is my chance!" Xiao Dongpo was so excited that he immediately signed up for the exam.
In the face of endless competitors, he stood out with his solid knowledge and leisurely and deep voice, and joined the host group of Shandong TV as he wished, hosting the literary and artistic program "Country Monsoon".
Love and marriage: the fate of missing is still difficult to find
The first success also made Xiao Dongpo feel vaguely lonely while being moved - a man needs responsibility and companionship.
"Country Monsoon" was a great success after it was broadcast, and Xiao Dongpo also met the host Li Hong in the crew.
Xiao Dongpo, who has a cheerful personality, quickly became familiar with Li Hong.
The work of two people who gather less and leave more makes them more eager for companionship.
Half a year later, Xiao Dongpo plucked up the courage to confess to Li Hong, and the two sides hit it off.
In 1997, Xiao Dongpo and Li Hong registered their marriage under the witness of relatives and friends.
At the beginning of the marriage, the two snuggled sweetly.
Xiao Dongpo focused on work, and Li Hong followed him silently at home.
Recently.
A year later, in order to catch up with the filming schedule, Xiao Dongpo often worked overtime late at night and could not go home in time.
Li Hong waited anxiously at home alone, complaining.
Once, the two had a big quarrel over trivial matters and drifted apart.
The original sweetness is gone, and the marriage is falling apart day by day in repeated quarrels.
Six years later, Xiao Dongpo and Li Hong signed a divorce agreement in a daze, ending the marriage due to work.
After the divorce, Xiao Dongpo fell into self-blame and depression.
He understands that the failure of the relationship has its own responsibility, and the workaholic personality makes him ignore his wife's feelings.
In the company of friends, Xiao Dongpo gradually stepped out of the shadows.
He realized that the relationship needs to be understood and supported by both parties.
Maybe the original choice was too hasty, and he was not mature enough for love.
Keep waiting, he believes that the bosom friend who really understands him will eventually appear on the road.
In 2003, an important opportunity came.
CCTV selects hosts from all over the country and joins in the production of the national variety show "Township Covenant".
Xiao Dongpo once again plucked up his courage and participated in the layers of screening.
In the end, with the solid strength and popularity honed from Shandong TV for several years, he successfully passed the selection to enter CCTV and began to have the opportunity to shine on the national platform.
The joy of remarriage: find a fiery soulmate
After joining CCTV, Xiao Dongpo met the editor-in-chief Zhu Yanxia during the recording of "Township Covenant".
Xiao Dongpo and Zhu Yanxia, who have straightforward personalities, hit it off at first sight.
The two joked with each other at work, and the atmosphere was harmonious.
Gradually, Xiao Dongpo found that Zhu Yanxia was very close to his way of thinking, and his work philosophy was also highly compatible.
A beautiful friendship sprouted between the two.
In 2005, Xiao Dongpo had lunch with the divorced Zhu Yanxia.
After the meal, Xiao Dongpo plucked up the courage to open his heart to Zhu Yanxia and told him about his growth, career, and marriage past.
Zhu Yanxia listened considerately, sometimes commenting and sometimes smiling.
This small talk made the two completely confirm that they have a heart-to-heart connection.
Half a year later, Xiao Dongpo and Zhu Yanxia's good deeds were discovered by the work group of "Township Covenant".
Everyone sent sincere blessings and praised the couple for finally becoming a family.
Under the gaze of his friends, Xiao Dongpo solemnly promised Zhu Yanxia that he would cherish his company for the rest of his life.
The back of the stage is warm, and he guards it with his heart
After marriage, Zhu Yanxia gave him the greatest understanding and support during Xiao Dongpo's career.
She would rather give up her career and focus all her mind on taking care of family chores and her husband.
Xiao Dongpo is no longer as focused on work and neglecting his family as before, he has learned to make time to spend with his wife in addition to his busy work.
In 2014, they welcomed their first daughter.
This is even more affected by Xiao Dongpo's nostalgia for home, and the warm little world outside the stage is the place he cares for with his heart.
Every time after the midnight play, Xiao Dongpo will also drive to pick up his daughter from school.
The two of them talked and laughed, which was secretly photographed by the staff and posted on the Internet, attracting the envy of countless netizens.
Get away from the hustle and bustle and choose ordinary happiness
After 2015, Xiao Dongpo, who is nearly middle-aged, gradually faded out of his frequent appearance as a host, leaving more time and energy for his family.
He has participated in the production of several niche shows and invested in a number of musical stage projects.
But most of the time, I spend most of my time with my wife, daughter, and mother.
Every holiday, a family of three goes out on an outing.
Xiao Dongpo drove an RV and took his wife and daughter to find the most beautiful scenery in the mountains.
Sometimes I would bring my old mother, who was almost old, to set up a tent in the field and barbecue and chat for a while.
The laughter of his wife and daughter, and the kind eyes of his old mother, constitute the most satisfying picture for him now.
Occasionally, on holidays, Xiao Dongpo would drive his old mother and his wife and daughter to distant villages.
The villagers passing by stepped forward to greet the "big name in the TV circle" and delivered the best specialties to Xiao Dongpo and their car.
Xiao Dongpo also did not hesitate to give back a smiling face, and he had a good relationship with the villagers.
His happy family life has surpassed the fame, fortune and success of the past.
epilogue
"I'm not rich in life, but I feel successful. Today's Xiao Dongpo will tell young people like this.
In his 50s, he looked back on the past and looked at the warm eyes of his family, and felt extremely satisfied.
He does not regret choosing to fade out of the peak of his career that year.
Compared with shining, these ordinary daily routines are the happiest part of his life.
A healthy body, a wise mind, and a harmonious family are the best successes in his mind.
Xiao Dongpo hopes that through his story, he will bring some inspiration to more young people chasing their dreams of stardom.
The most valuable wealth in the world still comes from the family, friendship and confidants around you.
When all the prosperity comes to an end, the only thing that can really warm you is their existence.
So, don't be fooled by appearances.
Live with your heart and enjoy the little things in life.
These seemingly ordinary days are the happiest part of life.