Hide happiness, and happiness will become bigger and bigger
If you get too much happiness, it will shrink. On the contrary, if it is hidden, it will be nourished.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Cao Cao once asked Sima Yi: Why are your feet whiter than your face?
Sima Yi thought for a long time and didn't know how to answer.
Cao Cao looked at Sima Yi, who was frowning, stroked his beard, and said: Because the feet will hide.
Sima Yi suddenly realized, knelt on the ground and thanked him, and for the rest of his life, he used a Tibetan character to the wonderful.
"Things are done in secret, and words are defeated. The same goes for happiness.
The Chinese New Year is coming soon, and all kinds of gatherings are indispensable, remember to remind yourself: hide your happiness and let others show off. Deal with things calmly and enjoy yourself when you have nothing to do, this is the real master of life.
Only by not being evaluated in the unexpected world can you become a real powerhouse
All our lives, we want to get rid of the evaluation of others and be our true selves.
In fact, whether you are yourself or not, there are people who hate you, but if you are brave enough to be yourself, at least there is one more person who likes you, and that is yourself.
It's a pity that most of us live in the evaluation of others, and our joys, sorrows, and even decisions are influenced by the outside world.
A sentence of evaluation can even crush a person, such as Zhuge Liang's sentence "Zhou Lang's clever plan to calm the world, but he lost his wife and broke his army", which made Zhou Yu vomit blood.
Zhuge Liang is a master of using evaluation to attack the heart, but he can't do anything about Sima Yi.
During the period of the Three Kingdoms, Sima Yi knew that the front was not as tough as Zhuge Liang, so he held high the card of exemption from war, preparing to use time to drag Zhuge Liang down.
Seeing this, Zhuge Liang had a plan and sent someone to send a woman's clothes to Sima Yi, laughing at him for being as timid as a woman.
After Sima Yi received the gift, his face did not change, regardless of the opposition of the soldiers, he directly put on his clothes, and swaggered to the front of the battle, so that Zhuge Liang's people could enjoy his latest catwalk.
In the end, Sima Yi won, because he is a resilient and strong man, and the outside world's evaluation is a floating cloud for him, which cannot shake him.
Don't be in a hurry, everything has its own rules
When others seem to be running fast, remember, keep your own pace.
In the face of the hustle and bustle of the world, you are as steady as Mount Tai, when the opportunity comes knocking on the door, don't be in a hurry, do more things and read more, always believe, not in a hurry, in order to see the truth of things, grasp the law of things, and when it is just right, wait for the opportunity to move.
Only those who are not in a hurry can slow down and taste the taste of life.
Do you have any tips that have been kept in your heart for years?
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