Recently, the Supreme People's Court issued new regulations prohibiting the solicitation of property in the name of marriage, clarifying the difference between the bride price and the general gift during the relationship.
With the introduction of the new regulations, the "AA marriage" model has quietly entered people's field of vision, becoming a hot topic after dinner, and causing people's anxiety and controversy about marriage.
What is an "AA marriage"?
In the traditional concept of marriage, marriage must have a bride price and dowry, after marriage is the "trinity", each other becomes the closest people, each other's parents are their own parents, each other's brothers and sisters are their own brothers and sisters.
The "AA marriage" model is completely different from the traditional marriage model, AA refers to each person being responsible for his or her own part, and "AA marriage" means the same as "AA" in a broad sense, each party only needs to bear their own part, and the spouse does not need to bear a part of it, including parents.
For example, when getting married, the man does not pay the bride price, the woman does not pay the dowry, and there is no wedding banquet, but simply a marriage certificate.
When buying a car and buying a house, both parties contribute half, including giving birth to two children, one with the man's surname, one with the woman's surname, and all kinds of expenses in daily life "AA system", the husband and wife do not live with either of their parents, and return to their original families during the New Year's holidays, and accompany their respective parents.
The so-called "AA marriage" means that the husband and wife are legal husband and wife in the legal sense, but in daily life, they are like the most familiar strangers, obviously very close, but far away......
"AA marriage" caused marital anxiety, and netizens complained that "Dink" was acceptable
The emergence of "AA marriage" is a challenge to the traditional concept of marriage and love, no bride price, no dowry, half of buying a car and a house, and even children are half to half, this marriage model has triggered the anxiety of contemporary young people about marriage.
Some netizens are very speechless about this marriage model, thinking that this so-called "AA system" is unfair to women, women are a vulnerable group in society, and finding a job, including salary, is not as good as men.
There are also people who think that this kind of "AA marriage" seems to be very fair, but in fact it is not fair at all, not to mention anything else, if the man has to say "AA", please first conceive in October and also "AA", otherwise it is unfair.
Some people also believe that this kind of "AA" is actually not bad, but the premise is that it must be "Dink", otherwise there is no way to talk about fairness.
A considerable number of netizens believe that if it is "Dink", this kind of "AA marriage" is completely acceptable.
As for the "AA marriage", the author believes that it completely deviates from the original intention of marriage.
Forming a family is not simply a marriage certificate and living together is marriage, but involves all aspects and bits and pieces.
What families need is common dedication and effort, mutual tolerance and mutual understanding, rather than blindly calculating and calculating, and not everything must be evenly distributed.
The "AA marriage" seems to solve the post-marital conflict and avoid unnecessary financial entanglements, but this marriage model is in the excessive pursuit of the division of interests, thus diluting the blood kinship, and even the parents' affection and children's blood relatives have done a good job in the division of interests.
Let's imagine for a moment, if there is only interests left in the marriage and no family affection, is this kind of marriage still marriage? Is this kind of love still love?
At that time, the "AA marriage" will become "a son without a son, a father without a father, a wife without a wife, and a husband without a husband", and there will be no family affection at all except interests.
Everyone plays a different role in marriage, everyone pays differently in marriage, marriage is a big family, no one can do it, the emergence of "AA marriage" is not only challenging the traditional concept of marriage and love, but also challenging the most basic bottom line of human ethics, if even parents, wives and children have made a detailed division, so marriage, is there still the meaning of existence? Such a "mercenary" marriage, is it still called marriage? Is there still family affection?
The author thinks that the "AA marriage" should be put to rest!