Preface
A couple with excellent academic qualifications gave birth to a lovely daughter as they wished.
The couple's knowledge reserve is far beyond ordinary people, and the daughter born is naturally very intelligent.
However, in 2002, during a children's mental health screening, the doctor told the couple that it was best to take the child for a mental check-up.
What happened to the prodigy daughter of the doctor's wife, and how did the matter finally solve?
Prodigy daughter
After Xia Yuefeng and Du Jialin fell in love, they completed a lifelong marriage in Hunan.
Xia Yuefeng is the father of the child and a Ph.D. from Beijing University of Posts and Telecommunications.
Beijing is a big city, and there will be more development opportunities than in their hometown, so Xia Yuefeng and her lover Du Jialin moved to Beijing.
Xia Yuefeng and Du Jialin, both husband and wife, started their careers seriously and managed a small family between the two.
The couple came to the metropolis without experiencing any big storms, both of them are high-level talents, and it is too late for many companies to welcome them.
After settling down, the two of them, who were not young, put their children on the agenda.
What made the couple extremely happy was that in 2000, Du Jialin's belly grew bigger.
Just when the two were ready to become parents, an accident happened.
There was an accident during pregnancy, and the embryo stopped in the mother's body at the age of three.
The absence of the child devastated the couple a lot, especially the expectant mother Du Jialin, who washed her face with tears every day.
After a year of baptism, the couple walked out of the initial haze and were ready to welcome a new life.
Mother Du Jialin was particularly worried because of what happened before, and prayed that the child could be born smoothly.
To the relief of the couple, the arrival of the second child went smoothly and smoothly, and the whole process was uneventful.
The arrival of my daughter's intimate little padded jacket has added a lot of joy to this small family.
Both of them are highly educated top talents, and naturally they spare no effort in cultivating their children, and they have begun to instill knowledge in their daughter Xuanxuan when she is very young.
Daughter Xuanxuan is worthy of being the child of the two, inheriting the excellent genes of the couple, and showing intelligence far beyond her peers at a very young age.
For example, if you are literate in reading, you can already know a lot of Chinese characters before you are two years old.
Xuanxuan's performance made the couple put their pride on their faces, and praised their children when they met people, which made the neighbors feel a little helpless.
couldn't stand Xuanxuan was really excellent and cute, so he sent blessings to the couple and made the couple happy.
With the good fortune of their family behind them, the couple developed a steady stream of strength in their careers and made progress soon.
The family is harmonious, the career is smooth, and a bright future is beckoning to this small family, but at this time, bad luck is coming to the door first.
Something went wrong
The first to notice that something was wrong was the child's mother.
Du Jialin found that her daughter was a little slow to respond to her surroundings, and no matter how outsiders tried to interact with her, she always looked like she didn't pay attention.
This made the mother take it to heart and observe her daughter's every move very carefully, but it turned out that her daughter not only had little interaction with the outside world, but also had a blank face on her face.
But Du Jialin's specialty is not on this, and he can't come up with a more detailed and accurate conclusion, and he is a little anxious and overwhelmed.
At this time, the precinct caught up with children's mental health screenings.
The examination of mental health is different from academic exams, and it is more about whether it is normal when dealing with people.
Xuanxuan, who is proud of his knowledge, is at a loss for communication with doctors, and he can't answer any of the doctor's questions.
The doctor then gave Xuanxuan's parents pertinent advice and went to the hospital to check if there was any mental problem.
In 2002, Xuanxuan's parents came to the psychiatric department of a regular hospital with the luck of whether it was misdiagnosed by a doctor.
Here, the formal diagnosis made his mother Du Jialin almost faint, and Xuan Xuan was diagnosed with autism tendencies.
Du Jialin and Xia Yuefeng and his wife were really flustered and asked the doctor if there was any way to cure it.
The doctor's answer was even more desperate, the disease could only be cared for, and there was no way to change it with medication or surgery.
In 2004, Xuan Xuan's disease worsened and he suffered from autism, which was incomprehensible and unacceptable from tendencies to official diagnosis.
In order to be able to take care of Xuanxuan, the couple made the same choice, decisively gave up their high-paying and lucrative jobs, and devoted themselves to Xuanxuan's rehabilitation training.
What can overcome autism is not superb medical skills, but more likely the love of family members.
Positive recovery
His father, Xia Yuefeng, began to buy books from bookstores and magazines to understand what autism is, what kind of changes it will bring to his children, and how to cope with these changes.
I learned that there are various causes of autism, such as genetics and environment, which can lead to problems in children, children with problems are unable to communicate well with the outside world, and will act stereologically and repetitively.
The words of incurable and possible regression irritate the hearts of already fragile couples, but they do not take a step back.
The only thing that can be called good news is that Xuan Xuan is still young and has a chance to improve.
The sapling can also correct the direction, which makes it difficult for a towering tree to turn around.
Among them, the problem of "motivation" is the main problem of autism, and children with autism often do things without "motivation", like a car without an engine, and they can't run fast or far.
This needs to be trained, and it needs to be specially guided.
After Xia Yuefeng and Du Jialin reflected on their mistakes, they were determined to make a change.
After accompanying Xuan Xuan to complete the homework that needs to be completed on weekdays, Du Jialin will also start to play games with the children.
The name of this game is emoji cards, and the mother and daughter each hold some cards with joys and sorrows drawn from each other's hands.
The person who draws the card should make the same expression as the card, so as to increase the perception of the outside world and the richness of expressions.
Xuan Xuan's face, because of the long-term expressionlessness, pulling muscles or crying or laughing looks a little stiff, but Du Jialin has felt extremely satisfied.
When Xuan Xuan took the initiative to do something at home, the parents did not hesitate to give praise, their children are really amazing, so that Xuan Xuan will be more proactive when he encounters a similar situation next time.
As long as you continue to persevere, Xuan Xuan will pick up the child's sincere smile little by little.
In the process of Xuanxuan's growth, he encountered some more dangerous moments.
Xuan Xuan had just been promoted from elementary school to junior high school, and when he looked at his unfamiliar classmates and teachers, he returned to his original state almost overnight in an unfamiliar environment, making years of hard work come to naught.
Mother Du Jialin looked at the child who had poor sleep quality every day, and felt anxious and walked on thin ice.
The only thing Du Jialin can do is to train the child in his original way, and then secretly pray that the child will get better soon.
The previous education subtly made the child better, and slowly recovered after a month.
Xuanxuan's growth is inseparable from the help of the environment, and after Du Jialing and the teacher explain the situation, the teacher will often be more tolerant of the child and be more patient.
The classmates in Xuanxuan's class also treated her very well, and they would treat this girl very gently, when Xuanxuan graduated from elementary school, the classmates in the class voted for her.
At this time, there was good news, Du Jialin gave birth to another little girl at an advanced age, and gave birth to a younger sister to Xuanxuan, so that she could have someone to support each other in her future life.
Xuanxuan, who has autism, did not continue to be lonely, but moved forward academically with the company of his parents, and successfully entered the university campus like an ordinary child, reaching a new stage in his life.
Xuanxuan, who has gone to college, already knew that when Du Jialin returned home, he would take the initiative to take over his mother's clothes and purse, and bring out meals from the kitchen.
Although the road is still long, it is very gratifying for a mother to be able to see the light of day.
Du Jialin knows the pain that her family feels when her child suffers from autism, and she is willing to stretch out her warm palm to help more people after her daughter's experience.
Du Jialin took the initiative to establish an autism rehabilitation center to lead more children with autism to the right course.
Du Jialin and his wife, who had invested a lot of money in the process of Xuanxuan's rehabilitation, sold a house in order to open a rehabilitation center to fill the shortage of funds.
This road is destined to be bumpy and bumpy, and Du Jialin is willing to give the rest of his life to give more good children hope for a new life.
epilogue
Xuan Xuan was unfortunate and suffered from an incurable disease, but she was fortunate to have the love of her family, teachers and classmates, and grew up healthy and strong.
There are incurable diseases in this world, and there are also miracles called love!
In the process of children's growth and education, it is necessary to pay attention not only to the accumulation of knowledge, but also to mental health problems.
It is necessary to carefully protect the child in all directions and accompany the child to grow up healthy and happy.
Information sources:
Shandong Satellite TV: Parents of the world | Girl from the stars!