At the end of the year, you must pay attention to helping others introduce objects, especially if the matchmaker introduces, you must make it clear in advance, otherwise, you will suffer, and it may be a dumb loss. My friend Sister Hong has experienced such a thing, but I regret it!
My friend Sister Hong's nephew Xiaoliang is 26 years old this year, he came back from demobilization in the army last year, the young man looks very energetic, in addition to not having a stable job, he has money, a house and a car, it should not be difficult to find a partner, but there is still no suitable one after introducing a lot, but Sister Hong's sister-in-law is in a hurry.
No, Sister Hong was also heartbroken for her nephew Xiaoliang's marriage, mobilized relatives and friends, and told her if there was a suitable girl.
Sister Hong said that last week, her husband's cousin said that there was a nice girl who wanted to introduce Xiaoliang.
Sister Hong said very enthusiastically, of course it's good, when will you come, arrange for your nephew to meet the girl.
His cousin said that they had come down from the countryside and were estimated to be in the city until noon.
Sister Hong told her sister-in-law that they would only arrive at noon, and when it was time for dinner, we would invite them to a meal!
Sister Hong's sister-in-law said, it's okay, it doesn't matter if you don't succeed, you should eat, and let your brother pay when the time comes.
Sister Hong asked her husband to take two bottles of wine from home, but she didn't expect that it was almost noon, and his cousin brought not a girl, but a man in his 50s, this man turned out to be a matchmaker who specialized in eating this meal, Sister Hong was a little surprised at this time, it turned out that it was not the object introduced by her cousin, but through a matchmaker.
I didn't eat, and the matchmaker said that according to the rules, the man had to go to the girl's house first.
Sister Hong looked at each other, and when they met for the first time, they went to see the girl, and it was not good to be empty-handed!
They went to the store again to buy a few gifts, spent more than 400, and went to the girl's house together.
Then, we went to the restaurant to eat together.
During the meal, the boy and girl exchanged contact information.
Sister Hong thought that this was the end of it, let the young people communicate on their own!
Unexpectedly, his cousin proposed another thing that surprised them even more, that is, no matter whether it was successful or not, they had to give the matchmaker 200 yuan.
Sister Hong felt that this matter was too unexpected, and she had never heard of such a thing anywhere, after they came, she temporarily said that she went to the girl's house and bought a few gifts before she explained it to her sister-in-law, and now she wants 200 yuan, and she really can't open her mouth, so she didn't dare to let the eldest brother know, and took out 200 yuan from her pocket and gave it to the matchmaker.
After Sister Hong returned home, she complained to her husband that she was not the object of her cousin's introduction? I thought that it would be okay for the two young people to meet, and at most invite the girl to a meal, who knew that he brought a matchmaker, and those who didn't know thought that he was cheating on food, drinking, and money?
It's good now, I haven't skimmed the eight characters yet, and I went to the girl's house to buy things, and I gave the matchmaker 200 yuan.
Fortunately, the eldest brother is honest and doesn't like to talk, otherwise, the eldest brother will inevitably complain when he comes home.
Her husband said that he didn't know what the result would be, and he would never help others in the future, and he spent seven or eight hundred inside and out, and he didn't end up well.
And Sister Hong's eldest brother spent more than 700 on dinner that day, and more than 400 on gifts, a total of more than 1,000.
Listening to Sister Hong, the two young people haven't talked much since they added WeChat that day, and they probably didn't like each other.
There's nothing to say about how much money is spent!
The Spring Festival is approaching, friends must pay attention, it is a good thing to help others lead a line to introduce the object, but what rules must be explained to them in advance, otherwise it will indeed cause some misunderstandings.
Be careful that good intentions do bad things.
Friends, do you say that the matchmaker helps introduce the object, whether it is successful or not, it is reasonable to charge 200 yuan?
Also, why is it not better to see a girl going to the woman's house, to a café and a small park? It is not appropriate for the man to go to the woman's house empty-handed, and if it doesn't work out, isn't it a pity to buy a gift?