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Huang Ling was at work, and her sister-in-law, who rarely contacted her, called her for the first time.
She doesn't really want to pick up, the so-called nothing does not go to the Three Treasures Palace, the sister-in-law must have something, and she will not call easily if she has nothing to do.
It's not good if you don't pick it up.
She walked over to the pantry and picked up the phone.
The other end remembered the capable voice of the sister-in-law: "Xiaoling, my mother is not feeling well, your brother and I can't take leave, you can take your mother to the hospital for a check-up!"
It's a command, not a request.
This made Huang Ling very unhappy.
"Sister-in-law, it's the end of the year, I'm too busy with work here and can't leave, you can figure it out yourself. ”
"If I can find a way myself, I won't look for you, Kong Shun said that you are relatively idle at work, and you can ask for leave. ”
Huang Ling secretly scolded her husband Kong Shun in her heart, this heartless thing!
"It's okay to ask for leave, I don't want much, 800 yuan a day for lost work, do you give it or your eldest brother?"
There was silence for two seconds.
"Huang Ling, that's also your mother-in-law, is it appropriate for you to ask me for money?"
Huang Ling pretended not to understand: "That's what I said, then I'll ask my eldest brother for it, and I'll ask for leave as soon as the money is in place." ”
"You ......" the sister-in-law was so angry that she couldn't speak.
"I'm busy here, so I won't call my eldest brother, you two can discuss it yourself, who will give the money, and I will ask for leave when the money arrives." ”
After that, he hung up the phone leisurely.
02
I don't have my share of good things, I think of myself when I have something, and I want to use her as a free laborer, don't even think about it!
Huang Ling has complaints about her mother-in-law and her eldest brother and sister-in-law's family.
Because the mother-in-law has a bowl of water, and the eldest brother and sister-in-law are used to occupying the mother-in-law.
She has been married to Kong Shun for seven years, and gave birth to her son Yangyang a year after marriage.
My mother-in-law didn't come to help for a day.
When Yangyang was born, the sister-in-law's son Mianmian was already three years old.
But the sister-in-law said that both of them had to go to work and had no time to send the children to and from school, so they asked their mother-in-law to pick them up.
As for Yangyang, what the sister-in-law said was: "Mom's health is not very good, Yangyang is still so young, she definitely can't take it." Mianmian has already gone to school, and it is not difficult for Mom to pick it up. ”
The mother-in-law also used the excuse of poor health to stay at the sister-in-law's house.
Of course, Huang Ling knew that they were singing and harmonizing.
What mother-in-law is not in good health, mother-in-law will be very tough!
03
The mother-in-law doesn't help take care of the children, so Huang Ling can only figure out her own way.
She asked Huang's mother to help take care of the child and gave her 2,000 yuan a month.
Huang's mother has low back pain, and it is difficult to take the child, so Huang Ling directly took the child back to her parents' house to live, and asked the parents to help her, so she barely survived the most difficult time.
In order to take care of the children, Huang Ling found an easy job near her mother's home, working six hours a day, with a low salary, and she could eat with a mouthful of food.
The 2,000 yuan per month is paid from Kong Shun's salary.
He also goes back to his parents' house every day after work to take care of the children together.
It's that people are more solid-eyed.
His brother and sister-in-law are whatever they say, and they don't feel much about their mother-in-law's eccentricity.
Fortunately, I still listened to Huang Ling's words.
Fortunately, he is this character, otherwise Huang Ling would be uncomfortable in her heart.
04
hung up the phone, and half an hour later, her sister-in-law transferred 800 yuan in red envelopes to Huang Ling and asked her to take her mother-in-law to the hospital for a check-up first.
Check the money out of the two families.
Huang Ling accepted the red envelope, but she looked down on her sister-in-law's approach in her heart.
My mother-in-law has been helping them take care of their children, but now when they are sick, they don't take them to the doctor, and they are reluctant to pay all the money for the doctor.
She asked for leave from the company, drove back to pick up her mother-in-law, and took her to the hospital for a check-up.
The money for the inspection was divided equally between the two families.
Because my mother-in-law injured her waist, the doctor hospitalized her for a week of observation.
The eldest brother and sister-in-law meant to let Huang Ling continue to take leave to take care of her, and as for the expenses incurred in hospitalization, they were willing to pay two-thirds.
Huang Ling quit.
She really can't get used to the way the eldest brother and sister-in-law look calculating.
Both of them work in large companies, serving in the middle level, with a monthly salary of 20,000 or 30,000 yuan, much more than Huang Ling and Kong Shun's salary, but they are so careful about money.
If the mother-in-law is helping Huang Ling take care of the children, the eldest brother and sister-in-law have to take care of it, and she has nothing to say.
The key is that the mother-in-law has been helping them with the children, so that they have more time to sprint in their careers.
Without the help of my mother-in-law, where would they be today?
05
Regarding her brother and sister-in-law's proposal, Huang Ling disagreed.
Why did she take time off to take care of her mother-in-law?
It's not impossible to ask her to take care of her mother-in-law, and she agrees to give her a salary of 800 per day.
The sister-in-law blew up: "We have paid two-thirds of the medical expenses, why are you embarrassed to ask for 800 wages, doesn't my mother have anything to do with you?"
"It's a little related, but it's not much, who asked your mother to help you take care of the children all the time, it's because you're tired of taking care of the children. In this way, I don't want you to pay two-thirds of the medical expenses, the brothers will divide it equally, and I will take care of my mother, and the salary is 800 a day. ”
Settle accounts, who wouldn't?
Mother-in-law's low back pain is not a big deal, except for the cost of the day of hospitalization, the follow-up is 200 per day, and a part of it can be reimbursed after discharge, which is much worse than 800 yuan a day.
I have to say that my sister-in-law's abacus is really fine.
Huang Ling's attitude is also very resolute, if she doesn't agree, she won't care about her mother-in-law, and she has no obligation anyway!
If you are not satisfied, let Kong Shun take care of it himself.
However, Kong Shun said that he can take care of it, but his mother-in-law must live with him after being discharged from the hospital, and it doesn't matter if he doesn't help take care of the children, he can't go to the eldest brother and sister-in-law's house anyway.
Huang Ling secretly gave a thumbs up.
孺子可教也!
How could the eldest brother and sister-in-law be willing to let her mother-in-law live in Huang Ling's house, then her son would have no one to help!
Moreover, her mother-in-law is also used to living at the eldest brother and sister-in-law's house, and she is reluctant to come to Huang Ling's house.
Huang Ling and Kong Shun refused to give in, so they could only give in to the eldest brother and sister-in-law.
In the end, Huang Ling took care of her mother-in-law in the hospital for a week.
After my mother-in-law recovered from her illness, she went back to my brother-in-law's house.
Although her mother-in-law has no obligation to help take care of her grandchildren, it doesn't mean that she won't rely on anyone if she lives for a lifetime, Huang Ling feels that people are more about helping each other.
And not should or shouldn't.
You have helped me, and I will help you in your time of trouble.
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Extended reading:
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