Xie Nan's response to the small composition was absolutely amazing, and he didn't want to deduct a penny
She's the light she used to be!
Wu Jing and Xie Nan's early marriage and love variety show clips have been "blackened" for a while, and friends who often watch short videos must have cherished those "suffocating clips". Seeing that the onlookers lamented that the sugar they had eaten in the early years had deteriorated, and then looked at the various details of getting along and analyzed it clearly, I felt that this was a bit "perverse" to never leave.
Then, at this juncture, Ms. Xie Nan, one of the parties involved, spoke out on Weibo.
In response to the recent uproar of "the whole network persuades divorce", she issued a statement, which is not long, but concise and concise, and the words are effective, whether it is the smooth logic or the accuracy of the words, it is completely worthy of the host's old profession.
This beginning is very interesting, saying "Mr. Wu is nervous, afraid that I will not have sex with him".
knew that the focus of public opinion was "the man bullying the woman, ignoring the woman's emotions, and all kinds of PUA", so she released Wu Jing's low profile at the beginning, saying that he was nervous and worried that his wife had run away, first, to show that the facts did not match the rumors - "Actually, my husband cherishes me very much", and secondly, he admitted that the appearance was conducive to reducing the intensity of the artillery fire - "He's lying there, are you embarrassed to punch again?"
Looking at the whole, the full text vividly interprets four words - neither humble nor arrogant.
Not inferior:
"I don't like to prove my innocence", but to what extent Wu Jing was innocently dragged away, then I have to break my principles and come out and say a few words.
On the one hand, it shows that my sister is a person with a stable core, and she will not be pushed by other people's remarks casually, and what you say cannot easily sway my emotions; ”
made it clear that he wanted to "go against the grain", but he was not impatient, and he didn't put himself in the position of a complete victim, but instead revealed a bit of a heroine's temperament.
Not hyperactive:
The first is to be "not overbearing" to her husband, at the beginning, she had already brought out a humble husband who was "worried that his wife would be told to leave by the public", as if he was quite high, but then Ms. Xie Nan changed her words and slipped down from the high position smoothly.
She said: Actually, when the show first aired, it was all about criticizing me, acting, calculating, and paying too much attention to details.
On the one hand, this can certainly save my husband's face to a certain extent -- "Hey, he is not the only one who has been criticized"; on the other hand, it also shows the vagaries and unreliability of public opinion.
Next is a series of clear "not overbearing" to netizens-
"I understand all the incomprehension of him, and I understand all the criticism of me. "Accepting, accommodating, not jumping on your feet.
"We are only such a small individual among many couples, but we are fortunate to be seen by you because of our profession. "Actually, we are very ordinary, just seen and magnified, which is a kind of luck.
"Thank you for loving us, I hope we are good, criticism is also love, you are a mirror, a better future. "Look at it, it's not stingy at all.
Not only did she not speculate maliciously, but the sentence "You are the mirror" reflected that she should not just be saying beautiful things, but really learning something and reflecting on something through this public opinion turmoil, and taking the so-called criticism as an opportunity to grow. In this way, the thanks to all the onlookers are particularly sincere, and people are convinced after reading it, and they will not feel that it is just a soft rhetoric of "please shut up".
What is this? It's not just a matter of saying it nicely.
Of course, this is a very good public relations article after all, there will not be too clear and sharp point of view output, and a rough reading will indeed make people feel a little "said is equal to not said", but I have to say that some of the sentences have the potential of golden sentences, which are very substantial, and it is enough to show that the author is by no means empty-headed. Such as:
"No one can detach themselves from themselves to understand others, and they are all substituting their own experience. ”
"In the practice of life, everyone is a trainee, and they may make mistakes, but they still want to get a high score. ”
She did not criticize who was right and who was wrong, but was trying to understand the whole incident with her own understanding of life, and try her best to reveal some truth, so she saw her husband, netizens, and herself, objectively and calmly.
What is this? Mind and self-cultivation!
At this point, the discussion about Wu Jing and Xie Nan's marriage can probably stop for a while, because the focus has begun to shift, Xie Nan not only expressed his position on the "persuasion of divorce" incident with a small composition, providing a weighty perspective of the parties, but also let people see Xie Nan again other than "Wu Jing's wife" - smart, wise, ink, heritage, and pattern.
Reading this, some students will definitely question: "Is it a bit exaggerated?"
Me: It's not all about your peers!
Not to mention far away, let's look at the recent Wu Xuanyi, because of helping Yu Zhenghe to cry to fans and causing controversy, and then posted a small essay with the level of a Lehua artist to prove his innocence. As a result, not only did he have a lot of typos and language problems, but he also pointed the finger at the marketing account of Pinyin without accident, as if he had found a so-called root of all evil and carried the pot, and he could continue to be an innocent and innocent little white flower with peace of mind.
It can be said that he is stupid, chicken thief and narrow-minded, and in contrast, it is really superior.
So, under the backdrop of desperate illiteracy everywhere, Xie Nan's small body is not tall and majestic!
So here, I want to express a good expectation, I hope that Xie Nan, as the host, can take a good show to more fully release his charm, don't let the bad money drive out the good money, and don't just come out to show your skills when you "go black" to your husband, what a waste.
In addition, although balance and restraint are very good, let's just say, when we quarrel with Wu Jing in the future, can we not be too sensible and don't take the overall situation too seriously?
Teacher Wu Jing should also re-realize how happy he is, don't believe it, you look at the next door, the wife recruits black, and the whitewashing depends on herself, isn't this good husband also happy?