In reality, we often admire people who are really capable.
I think people make money by their own skills, which is amazing and very good!!
But for those "fake handles", we are very disgusted.
Obviously, he is also an ordinary person, and even his life has long been full of holes, why do you brag? Aren't you tired?
In fact, to judge whether a person is bragging, or really capable, it is very accurate to see three things! It is easy to debunk some people!
01 Is it empty talk, or is there actual results?
In reality, people who don't have the ability often like empty talk.
It is precisely because they can't do some things in reality, so they like to pin their hopes on fantasy. And it's empty talk, and there is no cost.
If a person is always talking to you about his ideas and plans, but has been lacking in practical action.
Years or even more than ten years have passed, and he is still the same.
Most of them are people who have no ability and only have "one mouth".
For example, we often see such people among relatives and acquaintances.
On weekdays, he likes to talk eloquently, and he wants to teach us a few words and correct us a few words.
But if you look closely, he doesn't have any track record of his own.
His "ability" is nothing more than lip service.
It's boring.
In reality, whether it is the workplace or the business field, if you want to have the ability, you must implement it in action.
People who lack action and are always dreaming are nothing more than lip service and have no real skills.
02 Does he have a title that he can hold?
In reality, whether a person has a title that he can hold is the most practical criterion for judging.
If he blows for a long time, but he can't come up with a title to prove it.
That shows that he himself doesn't have any great skills.
Of course, there are also people who have empty titles, but still have no ability. There are such people. We have to judge from all sides.
For example, some people brag about how much money they spent to buy this and that. How good the husband is to himself, how good is his car.
But you ask him for the title, and he has nothing.
There is no title in the workplace, there is no title in the business field. Then he himself probably has no ability.
In reality, judging whether a person has real ability directly depends on the other party's social "muscles".
This is the most direct way to measure people in social networking.
If a person spends a lot of money, but lacks a title, he is mostly dependent on his family, or something else.
03 Strong personality traits
In reality, people who are really capable are often really competitive.
They have suffered a lot of setbacks in the past. These things change their personalities.
Their personalities are often very hard-working, ruthless, persistent, and willing to try new things.
These personality traits will stay with them for a long time, and they can be seen at a glance.
Among the friends I know, those with relatively high incomes are very courageous and have seized some development opportunities.
Then it developed rapidly, and in half a year and a year, it made the achievements of others for several years. There is ruthlessness.
And they are never satisfied, always trying new opportunities.
These character traits are impossible to hide.
In reality, don't listen to someone, brag that he knows a lot of people and has great skills.
Looking at his actual performance, looking at his personality traits, you can judge more accurately.
Don't rush to believe in people who don't have the ability to do it, and then mistakenly invest time and energy.
That's not worth it.