In reality, there are always women who are not interested in makeup and dressing up. Moreover, they don't like to get together and gossip about others.
In the eyes of outsiders, they may be "weirdos", or they may provoke others to talk:
"If a woman doesn't wear makeup, is she still called a woman? Isn't that unattractive?"
"Isn't it boring for a woman to not gossip?
In reality, most of the women who don't like makeup and dress up and don't like to get together live in these 3 types.
01 Their inner world is often quieter
When a woman reaches a certain age, she tends to "luxury" to get some quiet. I want to have my own time and take a moment of quietness.
Because life is so noisy, people are overwhelmed and can't breathe.
If her husband goes out with the kids on a weekend, she must be very comfortable.
How nice it would be to not have to deal with the family and take care of the children?!
In fact, women who don't like makeup and don't like to get together are also for a quiet place.
For example, some women hide away when they see others gossiping. When someone told her, she didn't answer.
Then she doesn't have so many worries in her heart. It's very peaceful. You see, right?
For another example, some women don't like to wear makeup, so they don't care about their appearance, whether they are good-looking, or gorgeous.
They don't care much about other people's opinions and evaluations.
The heart is also very peaceful.
When a person reaches a certain age, his inner tranquility is a very advanced state.
Women who don't like to wear makeup and don't like to get together are more likely to get quiet. This is good.
02 Their spare time can be used to recharge
A person's time is often limited. Especially adults.
If you use it for makeup and gossip, you will have less time for other things.
And some women, the reason why they don't love these is to make time to recharge.
For example, read two books to cultivate your temperament and increase your knowledge.
A person, if he reduces the waste of time and reads books for an hour a day, then he can accumulate more than ten or twenty books in a year. The harvest is huge.
Or, isn't it good to spend time at the gym and lose fat on your body?
In reality, women who don't like makeup and don't like to get together are just making a time trade-off.
They value their time more and are willing to spend it on things that are better for them.
This is the root cause.
03 Their lives may be more interesting
In reality, some women don't focus on makeup and gossip.
Instead, I put my time on developing my interests in life and experiencing new ways of life.
Their lives are also interesting.
For example, developing a new way to make money, or using a few years of vacation time to travel around the country.
Or maybe it's learning a musical instrument and feeling the beauty of art. Or do a degree, or so on.
Their time is spent on all these kinds of things. Life is often full and interesting.
More and more women don't like makeup and dressing, and they don't like to get together. It's not weird. It's about having a different plan for your life.
There's no need for us to label them "weirdos." Do you agree?