The old people often say: many sons and many blessings, when people are old, they like to have a big family and a big business, and the children and grandchildren are full of children, watching the children and grandchildren take joy and knees, and they are happy, and the old people will feel particularly happy.
This is what people say: the old have support, the old have fun!
Since the country liberalized the three-child policy, more and more young couples have joined the fertility army, and children have become pairs and families are happy, which is a beautiful dream that many people dream of.
However, it is easy to have a baby and difficult to raise a baby, and now it takes too much money and energy to raise a child, so many young people have withdrawn from this.
Recently, some netizens shared a short family video, the woman said that her mother-in-law urged her and her husband to have three children quickly, the woman said casually, no money, can't afford to raise, but I didn't expect that the next day the mother-in-law directly took a large stack of money and put it on the bed, and the woman's reaction suddenly lit up.
Coordinates somewhere in Anhui, at night, the woman sat at the head of the bed, was swiping her mobile phone with her husband, the little couple snuggled together, watched with relish, laughed from time to time, it can be seen that their husband and wife have a good relationship.
At this time, the mother-in-law quietly walked into the bedroom, holding a thick wad of money in her hand, she walked to the bedside and put the money directly in front of her daughter-in-law.
The daughter-in-law was stunned for a moment, not knowing what her mother-in-law was going to do, and the mother-in-law said, you two are young and hurry up to have three children, I am in good health, and I can help you raise the child.
The daughter-in-law suddenly understood, it turned out that the mother-in-law chatted with her the day before, urging them to have another child, and the daughter-in-law casually said that she had no money and couldn't afford to raise it, so she prevaricated.
She thought it would be fine, but she didn't expect her mother-in-law to keep it in mind, thinking that her daughter-in-law really had no money and was worried that she wouldn't be able to raise a child, so she took out her savings and gave her daughter-in-law, this money can afford to raise a child.
The thick pile of money, visually there were 100,000 yuan, the mother-in-law put down the money, pointed at her daughter-in-law and said, "You said that you have no money to raise a baby, no, if you have money, you can give birth, right?"
The implication is that you can no longer use lack of money as an excuse to refuse to have three children.
The daughter-in-law and the son looked at each other, and didn't know what to say for a while, the mother-in-law turned around to leave, and the daughter-in-law threw all the money over, and the money was scattered all over the bed.
But the mother-in-law turned around and left, and the daughter-in-law couldn't help but sigh: Do you have to have three children?
It seems that her mother-in-law is also a very strong woman, and she is used to saying everything at home on weekdays, and she is unwilling to contribute money and efforts to let her daughter-in-law have children, which is a bit too much, right?
watched the farce between the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and netizens couldn't help but talk about it. Some netizens bluntly said: If my mother-in-law gave me so much money, I would have been born forever, and I also like children anyway.
Some netizens said that the elderly like people to be prosperous, especially the wealthy, so that the honor and wealth of the family can be passed on from generation to generation.
If there is a throne to be inherited in a family like this, then give birth to a few more, so as not to worry about not being able to afford it.
But some netizens reminded women: Don't be a fertility machine, whether you have children or not, it's not about money, and there will be many problems such as education in the future, it's too tiring.
More netizens dislike women for not being satisfied, how good this mother-in-law is, much stronger than those mothers-in-law who draw big cakes.
It seems that this mother-in-law has enough financial strength to support her daughter-in-law to have three children, so she is so confident in speaking and doing things.
The author's opinion: Nowadays, the country advocates childbearing, if the family economic conditions are good, there is money and leisure, you can really have a few more children, for the family to spread the branches, people are prosperous, but also to contribute to the country.
Whether to have a second child or a third child is a matter for the younger couple, and the mother-in-law, as an elder, cannot interfere.
If your own economic conditions are not good, and it is very difficult to raise one or two children, then you should dispel the idea of having three children, and it is better to spend your energy and financial resources on cultivating your current children and providing better living conditions for your children.
If the first two children are girls, the mother-in-law has to give birth to a boy, then, the mother-in-law's approach is even more undesirable, what age is it now, you can't favor sons over daughters, daughters are the same as descendants, cultivate and educate well, and when you grow up, you can support your parents and even become the pillars of the country!