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Since the suspension of "Happy Camp", Xie Na has rarely appeared. In a variety show, Xie Na confessed that she had given birth to her second child and was diagnosed with depression.
During that time, Xie Na was not interested in doing anything, and she was in a low mood, she was surprised why such a happy person could suffer from this disease.
This made her more and more depressed, and she would cry excitedly because of small things. So, in order to overcome depression, Xie Na reduced her work and adjusted for a year.
Until one day, Zhang Jie was injured in Suzhou, and Xie Na suddenly found that she had to be strong and couldn't let Zhang Jie bear the pressure of the family alone. So, with Zhang Jie's company and encouragement, Xie Na gradually walked out of the haze of depression.
But the public's controversy over Xie Na is far from over.
Recently, some people have compared Xie Na and Wu Xin together. Today's Wu Xin is glamorous and fashionable, in contrast, Xie Na's tired face arouses the audience's curiosity: life is so happy, why is she still aging so fast?
Especially after Xie Na and Ruby Lin's slow variety show "Our Beautiful Life" was broadcast, the audience was amazed by Xie Na's vicissitudes and sighed #How old Xie Na is. But some sharp-eyed netizens pointed out: In addition to the age gap between Xie Na and Wu Xin, the most important thing is that Xie Na gave birth to three children. It's a hit on the head!
A team of researchers from George Mason University in Virginia, USA, analyzed the DNA data of about 2,000 women aged 20 to 44 and found that women aged about 11 years at the cellular level after giving birth compared to women of the same age who did not have children.
Cliff-like aging after giving birth is not alarmist, and there are many hardships suffered during childbirth, in addition to reproductive aging.
While everyone is singing about the greatness of maternal love, few people explain in detail to the families of pregnant women the accidents they need to face during childbirth and the pain they endure.
Even though having a baby is something that most women have to go through, the accidents they face from pregnancy to childbirth, especially when giving birth, are very different.
The first is pregnancy reactions during pregnancy.
After getting through it, it was the pain of childbirth.
How painful are labor pains during childbirth?
A doctor once classified human pain into 10 grades, and the pain during childbirth was 9.7 grades, second only to the pain of burns and scalds.
Imagine squeezing a large watermelon out of your nostrils, isn't that an exaggeration, but childbirth is nothing more than that.
A man who once participated in the "Labor Pain Experience" said: The pain of childbirth is like being kicked more than a hundred times.
In the moment before giving birth, the pain and fear of the mother are far greater than the joy of being a mother.
The persistence of labor pains is accompanied by the rupture of the amniotic fluid, severe pain in the opening of the fingers.
The lucky mother can open ten fingers in an hour and give birth smoothly.
There are also some mothers, in the process of natural delivery, need to do painless to cesarean section, the general hospital will open the three fingers after painless, the baby will be cut off.
The most painful thing is that it only takes two fingers to open in one day, and some mothers only open two fingers after 56 hours of pain.
At this time, the most important thing is to get a painless injection. Through anesthesia, the anesthesiologist temporarily loses the function of the nerves below the waist or reduces their sensitivity, which can reduce the pain of the mother and relieve the pain of the mother to the greatest extent.
Generally, after the painless injection, the pain of the mother will be reduced from 10 to less than 3-4 points, and some women can reduce it to 0.
In the documentary "The First Time in Life", the mother Wu Lihui had difficulty opening her fingers, she had already lost patience due to the pain, and tears couldn't help but flow down.
Pregnancy is a long wait, and childbirth is a gamble. Bet with God on tomorrow, and on your husband's love for you.
During the production process, you will understand what it means to completely lose control of your own life. You have to put away all your ego emotions and get ready for childbirth.
You are no longer a human being, but a pregnant woman who bears another little life. You are like a soldier in the trenches, hot and stuffy, restricted at every turn.
More than a dozen hours passed, and the pain continued to increase as time passed, but you had to endure it, you never realized that you were so strong.
You long for this little thing in your belly to feel your pain and come out quickly, and you even hope that the child can grow up quickly, and you can forget that the pain of childbirth is so difficult at this time.
You don't want to wait any longer, but every minute is as long as a year.
Chen Danyan once described the mother, saying: "You know that you were more like an animal at that time, and you didn't have the dignity of a woman's cleanliness. ”
Men never imagined how apprehensive a woman would be when she lay naked on the operating table, entrusting her life to the doctor and her loved ones outside the door.
The delivery room is the place where you can see humanity clearly. Who is married, at the moment of production, can be seen clearly.
If it is not a person, all the sweet words at this time will be self-defeating.
There were once three mothers who uploaded a video that was instantly swiped.
The name of this video is "This information, no one told me before I had a baby!"
Several mothers bluntly said that from pregnancy to childbirth, as well as after the end of pregnancy, some physical injuries were bringed.
From pregnancy to the years after childbirth, physical pain is constantly manifested.
At the beginning of pregnancy, the body begins to become bloated, but what makes mothers more anxious is every prenatal check-up.
Unsure whether the result was a surprise or a fright, he was so nervous that even the doctor would ponder every serious expression, and then make up for many surprises in just a few minutes.
Because pregnancy is actually a "venture capital".
Ectopic pregnancy, hypertensive disorders of pregnancy (preeclampsia and eclampsia), pregnancy with heart disease, pregnancy with pneumonia, pregnancy with diabetes, amniotic fluid embolism, pulmonary embolism, uterine rupture, placental abruption, major bleeding (mostly postpartum hemorrhage), infection (usually after childbirth), dystocia......
Many celebrities have given birth to children and appear in front of the public with slender figures. This makes many girls mistakenly think that after giving birth, they can dress up and go shopping.
But the real situation is that during pregnancy, because the uterus is elongated, pregnancy and childbirth cause diastasis rectus abdominis, and as the fetus grows, the belly is stretched.
After giving birth, the abdomen is full of stretch marks and loose, even if you lose weight, the belly is no longer the original belly, just like a ball being blown up and deflated.
Also, the woman who gave birth to a baby, the most deformed is the breast, Ma Yili was ridiculed for serious sagging breasts when filming "Bei Shangguang Don't Believe in Tears" during postpartum lactation.
Therefore, every woman will have some negative effects more or less after giving birth, such as a distorted belly, scary stretch marks, and sagging breasts......
However, after the production is completed, everything is just beginning.
Even after giving birth, the body is still very heavy, and if the child is very large, there will be vaginal tears and strains during the normal delivery process.
The pain of the private parts is unspeakable, the recovery is slow, and even doing the basic pouns is very painful.
The pain of engorgement, even Zhang Ziyi, described it as "human torture" with deep feelings.
After that, there is hair loss and soaring weight.
After becoming a mother, the physical and psychological changes are huge, to put it simply, pregnancy can make a woman age ten years in an instant.
Obviously a few months ago, I was a girl with a flat belly, but overnight, every cell and every inch of your skin will remind you that you are no longer you.
We always sing the praises of the greatness of mother's love, and always like to say that "a woman is weak, but a mother is strong", but we often ignore that mother is also a person, she also has her fragility and helplessness, her weakness and fear.
Many people don't know that after giving birth, the damage caused to a woman's body is irreversible.
Zhang Xinyi once called on Weibo to be kind to lactating mothers.
Zhu Dan recalled the time of pregnancy and shouted "unspeakably miserable": suddenly there will be a hard lump, that is, it will be very hard, it will be very painful, and the breasts will be red and hot. Because it hurt so much, I kept crying.
Ella has also unveiled the secrets of women's most painful postpartum pain - postpartum urinary incontinence.
Even small movements such as sneezing, jumping, and running will cause urine leakage.
There are also some women who suffer from postpartum depression due to widowed parenting.
Writing here, it is not to advise everyone not to have children, but to remind everyone that childbirth is a thing that requires all preparations.
These preparations include the mentality of expectant mothers, the planning of the workplace, and the thoughts of the future;
Fathers-to-be have to take responsibility, not only to make money to support the family, but how to be a good husband and not lack a place in the family;
The government should vigorously popularize science and improve the people's knowledge of sexuality and childbirth. To change ignorant and ignorant ideas, we must start with tireless popularization of science, especially in towns and villages.
Also, improve the treatment of anesthesiologists, let more people enter the industry, and create a full reserve army.
Finally, painless delivery will be included in medical insurance, so that mothers and their families no longer have to worry about the future.
As the old saying goes, it's true that mom and child are friends in life and death. People who have not experienced childbirth cannot experience such pain.
Everyone's situation is different, and the problems that occur during production are also very different. Don't think:
"Just bear with it"
"That's how women come here"
The pain and fear of the mother is not hypocritical.
The 2005 World Health Report says: "Every mother and child is valued." ”
And this slogan is always worth reading again and again.