Actor Wu Yongwei: Her husband died after 13 days of marriage, and she became a widow at the age of 21
In the bustling city of Hong Kong, there is a woman whose life is like a movie full of ups and downs, full of unexpected twists. She is Wu Yongwei, a legendary woman who once mixed in the gang, but later rose to prominence with her alluring appearance and became "Miss Asia".
From a rebellious girl to a pillar: Wu Yongwei's transformation path
In 1969, Ng Wing-wai was born like a bright star in Hong Kong, China, where the bustle and hustle and bustle are intertwined. However, the star did not land in a palatial palace, but in a family of extreme simplicity.
My father, the dedicated accountant, worked with the numbers in the factory every day, while my mother, a diligent cleaner, used her hands to sweep away the dust for the family.
Wu Yongwei is the little princess of the family, and her two brothers are like guardian saints, sheltering her from the wind and rain. Despite the simplicity of life, the home is always full of laughter.
Wu Yongwei's personality is like the summer sun, bright and warm, and her straightforwardness and boyishness make her unique in the crowd.
However, when she was in junior high school, Wu Yongwei's life suffered a huge turning point. Her beauty and wisdom, like the brightest stars in the night sky, attracted the envy and exclusion of those around her.
The bad students were like dark clouds, trying to block out her light. The bullying again and again filled Wu Yongwei's heart with doubts and fears: why did her excellence become the target of others?
Until that time, she bravely stood up and resisted, but was suppressed even more violently. Besieged by fourteen or fifteen bad students, she was like a wounded fawn, helpless and confused. At that moment, she understood that only when she became strong could she protect her light.
So, Wu Yongwei began her transformation. She cut off her long hair, changed into men's clothes, and even joined a gang to get to know the big brother in society. She became what others called "Miss Wu" and embarked on the road of rebellion. However, this did not allow her to truly find her belonging, but instead plunged her into a deeper confusion and struggle.
Weng Jiangpei's test and Wu Yongwei's counterattack
In those days, her hands were sharpened roughly, and her heart, after being tired again and again, gradually understood the importance of reading. So, she resolutely returned to school and paved a road to college with sweat and perseverance.
After graduating, Ng Wing-wai stepped into the door of a magazine and became a clerk.
She is hard-working and has a sunny personality, like a warm beam of sunshine, illuminating every corner of the office and winning the love of her colleagues. If she continues on this trajectory, she may live a plain and stable life.
However, fate arranged an unexpected encounter for her at a business banquet in 1988.
Weng Jiangpei's marriage process is like a transnational version of the "encyclopedia of failed marriages". But when he saw Wu Yongwei, the fire in his heart was ignited again. He began to pursue the young girl passionately, and Wu Yongwei, under Weng Jiangpei's romantic offensive, gradually fell in love.
But Weng Jiangpei is not a man who gives his heart easily. He was worried that Wu Yongwei was just greedy for his wealth, so he set one test after another.
When they first met, he deliberately drove a cheap Japanese car to pick her up. Wu Yongwei was unaware of this, and her happiness and happiness satisfied Weng Jiangpei - she was not a material girl.
However, the bigger test is yet to come. Weng Jiangpei suggested that Wu Yongwei participate in the "Miss Asia" contest. This is a temptation for him: if Wu Yongwei can maintain her original intention in the big dye vat of the entertainment industry, then she is worthy of his deep love.
Ng accepted the challenge, she signed up for the competition, and proved her love for Weng Jiangpei with her actions.
From beauty pageant star to controversial widow: Ng Wing-wei's ups and downs
After becoming popular, Wu Yongwei had a smooth star journey, and soon participated in the TV series "Driver Boss", stepping into the prosperous world of the entertainment industry. At this time, she was surrounded by many admirers, but her heart was always the same and never wavered.
And Weng Jiangpei, a man 31 years older than Wu Yongwei, witnessed her love and righteousness, and was deeply attracted by her charm.
He made up his mind to marry her and give her a happy home. In 1990, the two walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand, and the wedding was extremely romantic, as if the prince and princess in the fairy tale had finally come together.
Wu Yongwei thought that she was married to love and became the happiest woman in the world.
However, fate played a cruel joke on her. During her honeymoon with Weng Jiangpei, Weng Jiangpei suddenly died of a heart attack, leaving her alone to face this sudden change.
At that time, she had just been married to Weng Jiangpei for 13 days, and she fell from the peak of joy into the abyss of grief.
Weng Jiangpei's death plunged Wu Yongwei into huge controversy and grievances. At only 21 years old, she not only became a widow, but was also labeled as a "Kefu girl" and a "money worshipper". These groundless accusations and misunderstandings made her feel bitter and helpless.
What made her even more sad and indignant was that Weng Jiangpei left a legacy of hundreds of millions, but as the legal heir, she was rejected by her mother-in-law.
In order to protect her rights and dignity, Wu Yongwei decided to start a lawsuit with Weng Jiangpei's mother. The lawsuit was long and difficult, lasting 10 years.
In the past 10 years, she has experienced countless torments and struggles before finally winning an inheritance of 9 million. Although this victory was not easy to come by, it could not make up for the deep pain and regret in her heart.
From the Abyss of Despair to the Other Shore of Love: Ng Wing-wei's journey of rebirth
Weng Jiangpei's death, for Wu Yongwei, is not only a loss of love, but also a collapse of the soul. At that moment, it was as if she had fallen from heaven to hell, and grief came like a tidal wave that drowned her. The controversy and abuse from the outside world were like salt sprinkled on the wound, which made her feel painful.
In order to numb herself, Wu Yongwei chose to drink heavily. The anesthesia of alcohol made her forget the pain for a while, but it also made her start to indulge herself. She falls in love frequently, trying to fill the emptiness in her heart with new feelings.
However, this indulgence did not allow her to find true happiness, but instead plunged her deeper into confusion and pain.
Later, Wu Yongwei met Lian Haitang, the man who made her regain her love. Although Lian Haitang had scruples about her at first, Wu Yongwei did not give up. She impressed Lian Haitang with her sincerity and enthusiasm, and the two finally came together and entered the palace of marriage.
After moving away from a depraved life, Ng Wing-wai began to focus on her acting career. She has achieved good results in the entertainment industry with her talent and hard work, and her life has slowly changed for the better.
When the reporter asked her about being a "third party" back then, she faced it calmly, generously admitted her mistakes, and had the courage to bear the consequences.
Ng Wing-wei's Marriage Defense: The Triumph of Tolerance and Wisdom
In 2010, Lian Haitang was caught on camera sharing a romantic moment of a candlelit dinner with a young woman. This news was like a bombshell, which instantly caused an uproar in the entertainment industry.
Netizens were indignant and accused Lian Haitang of "cheating in marriage" and complained about Wu Yongwei.
However, in this turmoil, Wu Yongwei showed unexpected calmness and wisdom. She did not choose to accuse angrily, but sided with her husband and defended him: "After 11 years of marriage, he was photographed for the first time, just having dinner with friends." ”
Time flies, and it's 2016 in a blink of an eye. Lian Haitang was once again exposed to the scandal of a tryst with a young woman, and this time, everyone thought that Wu Yongwei would leave angrily. Once again, however, she chose tolerance and understanding.
She even took the fault on herself, and humorously said to the media: "Go home and play two hundred boards!" This kind of self-deprecation and humor not only resolved the embarrassment, but also showed her generosity and wisdom.
Perhaps moved by Wu Yongwei's generosity and tolerance, Lian Haitang has never had any scandals since then. He and Wu Yongwei love each other in a low-key manner, and jointly guard this hard-won happiness.
In response to the doubts and speculations of the outside world, they chose to respond with practical actions.
Today, 54-year-old Wu Yongwei is still active in front of the screen, and her mood has long become indifferent and detached. The troubles of the past are no longer important to her.
She used her own experience to tell us that on the road of life, sometimes choosing tolerance and understanding can reap true happiness and tranquility.