Text丨 Weisheng Xiaoyun
Editor丨Weisheng Xiaoyun
Preface
Wu Yongwei, who participated in Miss Asia in 1989 and won the title of "Miss Most Photogenic", married into a wealthy family at the age of 21, but became a widow 13 days after marriage and became a "broom star" in the mouth of the world.
Not only that, many years later, she also confidently claimed on the show that she had dated thirty boyfriends, and after remarrying, she even blamed herself in the face of her husband's cheating several times, saying that everything was her fault and apologizing to the media.
What happened to her when she was 21 years old, and why did she fall so willingly that she was willing to shield her cheating husband?
Died early at the age of twenty
Wu Yongwei's dramatic first half of life began with the early death of her husband, and when she was a girl, Wu Yongwei met her first husband, Weng Jiangpei, who was more than 30 years older than her.
Weng Jiangpei was attracted by her young beauty, and Wu Yongwei didn't care about his many marriage histories, and fell into this mature and wealthy man.
With the support of Weng Jiangpei, Wu Yongwei participated in the hot "Miss Asia" selection at that time and won the title of "Miss Most Photogenic", and her road to the entertainment industry began from there.
Later, more and more people got to know this slender woman, and there was an endless stream of people pursuing her, and at this time, Weng Jiangpei also proposed to 21-year-old Wu Yongwei, and they entered the palace of marriage with joy.
But the good times were too short, and the death of Weng Jiangpei 13 days after marriage gave Wu Yongwei a heavy blow, and overnight, the negative labels of "broom star", "Kefu" and "sugar daddy" were tightly attached to Wu Yongwei's body.
Major media rushed to report that her "broken dreams provoked ridicule", and even her mother-in-law ruthlessly kicked her out of the house, and even threatened that Wu Yongwei's marriage killed her son, and refused to give her any financial compensation.
This period of time is the downturn of Wu Yongwei's life, a woman who lost her husband at a young age not only did not receive due spiritual and material compensation, but was pointed out by the media, her in-laws, and thousands of husbands, which is really sad and difficult.
For a long time in the future, Wu Yongwei has been fighting lawsuits with her in-laws, and she wants to fight for the inheritance left by her husband after her death from her mother-in-law, which should be her legitimate rights and interests as Weng Jiangpei's legal wife.
The in-laws' attitude is tough, and Wu Yongwei is not far behind, and this battle for inheritance ended with Wu Yongwei receiving 9 million compensation ten years later.
Ten years, a person's life can have several decades, and Wu Yongwei used these ten years to fight a "protracted battle" for her reputation and rights.
During the romantic period, "angry" talked about 30 boyfriends
In an interview, Wu Yongwei talked about having talked about 30 boyfriends in the lonely stage of her life, which is a staggering number!
After the death of her first husband Weng Jiangpei, Wu Yongwei made a comeback in her career, and the broadcast of "Silver Fox" in 1993 made the public know the role of "Yan Ruyu" in it, and also paid more attention to Wu Yongwei who created Yan Ruyu.
Since then, Wu Yongwei's career has been clear, she has acted in popular dramas, appeared in variety shows, and sang hot songs, becoming a charming and moving generation of goddesses.
But in everyone's eyes, such a goddess of all kinds of styles, actually said frankly in the variety show, "During this time, I have about 30 boyfriends", which is really shocking, which is very different from Wu Yongwei in everyone's impression.
But why? What makes an actress so obsessed with love? Is it a temptation in the entertainment industry? Obviously not.
That must have something to do with her experience, with the early death of her early husband.
Wu Yongwei, who has been smooth on the road of acting, has actually been trapped in the shadow of reality, she is acting and fighting lawsuits at the same time, and she has never bypassed the haze around her in her heart.
In this seemingly beautiful but actually gloomy day, Wu Yongwei once fell into decadence.
She thought about suicide, felt that life was meaningless, she lost hope in love, she began to indulge her feelings, and in just a few years, she talked about 30 boyfriends, and the richness of this emotional experience is incomparable to most people.
Not only that, Wu Yongwei even let herself be someone else's mistress, and she did it for four years, she didn't seem to know what courtesy, righteousness and shame were, and she didn't care about the feelings of others, and she couldn't escape from loneliness.
People always have to look forward, and with the increase of age and experience, Wu Yongwei still went through this absurd and depressed time and started life again.
indifferently faced her husband's cheating
After going through so many things, Wu Yongwei never thought of remarrying until her current husband Lian Haitang appeared.
Lian Haitang, a successful person with rich knowledge and a successful career, fell in love with her at first sight after seeing the charming and moving Wu Yongwei, and launched a strong offensive.
Perhaps because of the emptiness of inner emotions and the maturity of age and experience, Wu Yongwei accepted Lian Haitang's pursuit, and the two entered into marriage hand in hand after eight months of love.
Just when everyone thought that Wu Yongwei was living a happy married life, her husband Lian Haitang was photographed by the media many times dating hot beauties.
The media took this opportunity to throw the question to Wu Yongwei, "Do you believe the rumors of her husband's cheating", Wu Yongwei generously gave a positive answer, and apologized to the public on behalf of her husband.
In the interview, Wu Yongwei also generously said: "There are a lot of little fresh meat like me, and I can't control it." It can be seen that she understands her husband.
After Wu Yongwei's remarks were published, Lian Haitang may have been moved by his wife's behavior to defend herself, he restrained himself, and no longer had cheating news in public.
The two of them have lived a low-key life again, and every time they have a major occasion, they see Wu Yongwei holding her husband's arm to attend, just like a good wife and a good husband, perhaps, this is the happy life that Wu Yongwei yearns for.
epilogue
Not long ago, Wu Yongwei, who ushered in her 55th birthday, posted her news on social platforms, she shared a photo of herself holding a birthday bag and sticking out her tongue excitedly, with a text thanking everyone who was with her.
It can be seen that Wu Yongwei is in a very good state today, living a happy life, and her lover is beside her, there is nothing more important than this.
We don't make an evaluation of Wu Yongwei's married life, after all, everyone has their own choices, others have no right to interfere, and what she lives now is what she thinks is beautiful and happy.
Looking back, the first half of Wu Yongwei's life was high and lost, she sank in the suffering, and also awakened from it, which is very worthy of everyone's praise and learning, and I wish her to continue to be happy and live a wonderful life in the future!