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thought that a "Wolf Warrior" could preserve the glory and wealth of Wu Jing in the second half of his life.
But he never thought that he could stand up to the "patriotic character", but he was ruined on the "beloved wife and personality".
Is it netizens chasing the wind or Wu Jingzang is too good?
Recently, a new Internet vocabulary has appeared - Wu Jing-style man.
I thought it was to praise his manhood.
But I never thought it was a criticism of his bad attitude in marriage.
There are even many netizens after reading the explanation of "Wu Jing-style man".
shouted to Xie Nan to divorce and save his life.
What did netizens pick up on Wu Jing?
This online crusade against Wu Jing originated from a husband and wife reality show.
Maybe it's because of the reversal of the reputation of Zhou Yiwei and Zhu Dan.
Netizens began to conduct "archaeology" on other model celebrity couples.
Wu Jing and Xie Nan bore the brunt of the research of netizens.
It doesn't matter if you don't research.
A study found that Wu Jing had such a "terrible" side in marriage.
In a show that the two recorded together.
Wu Jing and Xie Nan need to shoot the meal at home.
At the beginning, Wu Jing cooked, and Xie Nan provided recording materials for the program team on the side.
The husband and wife are all right.
But as Wu Jing cooked the meal, he began to eat by himself.
The style of painting began to go wrong.
Xie Nan looked at her husband who was dining alone, and her face was already displeased.
But because of the presence of the camera.
Still asked in a good voice: "You are ready to eat?"
The implication was to ask Wu Jing why he didn't ask him to eat together.
Unexpectedly, Wu Jing did not respond to his wife's words.
Instead, he continued to bury his head in cooking.
Xie Nan's face visibly deteriorated.
He stood on the side for a long time before waiting for Wu Jing to open his mouth and ask if he wanted to taste it.
Xie Nan said: "I definitely want to eat." It directly ignited Wu Jing's temper.
Wu Jing didn't get off the donkey and serve food to his wife.
Instead, he drilled the horns of Xie Nan's words.
"I didn't say you wouldn't eat it, I asked if you wanted to taste it first. ”
At this time, the conversation between the two was already full of gunpowder.
Seeing this, Xie Nan directly expressed the discomfort in his heart:
"You should call me when you're cooking. ”
turned out to be exchanged for Wu Jing's rhetorical question: "Didn't you see it?"
Xie Nan told him truthfully: "You had already eaten it when I saw it." ”
Unexpectedly, Wu Jing lost his temper and asked, "Are you complaining about me?"
The problem that could be solved by a bowl of rice was escalated to a conflict between husband and wife by Wu Jing.
I saw that I was going to quarrel in front of the camera in the next second.
Both chose to leave the table.
But Wu Jing ran to the bathroom and beat the towel to vent his anger after leaving.
After calming down, the two returned to the dining room again.
It was Xie Nan who spoke first to ease the atmosphere.
Xie Nan first explained that he didn't mean to complain.
Then patiently explained that it was because Wu Jing did not respond to his words at that time.
As a result, the atmosphere happened to be awkward there.
Compare Xie Nan's behavior in trying to resolve the contradiction.
Wu Jing's reaction once again made netizens angry.
Wu Jing still bit Xie Nan's tone.
said that if Xie Nan's tone was more relaxed, the dispute just now would not have happened.
But at first, it was indeed because Wu Jing didn't take care of his wife when he ate.
went around in a big circle, but it became a problem of Xie Nan's bad tone.
Netizens hit the nail on the head and pointed out that Wu Jing has a very serious machismo.
It's obvious that his own behavior is wrong, but he loses his temper first to divert the conflict.
And such situations are not uncommon in their daily interactions.
A few years ago, the two also recorded a husband and wife show together.
There is a link in the show that couples need to play "you play and I guess" together.
After Wu Jing didn't guess the title of his wife's performance several times.
Xie Nan said a little anxiously: "You are too slow to react." ”
Just such a sentence ignited Wu Jing's temper again.
Wu Jing directly blackened his face in front of the other two groups of couples.
Maybe it's because he understands her husband's temper.
Xie Nan hurriedly proposed that the two swap places, hoping to divert Wu Jing's emotions.
However, Wu Jing not only can't guess, but also can't act.
The delay in getting points made his machismo show again.
Just let it go and stop playing.
Other couples have played round scenes for the normal progress of the program process.
almost coaxed Wu Jing to continue the game session.
But Wu Jing not only does not give face to his wife, but also does not give face to outsiders.
No matter how much everyone helped, he waved his hand to show that he had given up the game.
And when he quits the game as he wishes.
Wu Jing still seems to remember what he was accused of by his wife.
began to stand aside and counted Xie Nan.
A few words made Xie Nan cry in public.
The grievances visible to the naked eye almost overflow the screen.
Seeing this scene, netizens were even more angry and aggrieved for Xie Nan.
is still so faceless in front of the camera.
It's not going to be much better behind the camera.
In today's society, women's thinking is rising more and more.
Wu Jing's conveyance of machismo is equated with dross culture.
Plus he is a public figure.
Every move will be infinitely amplified by netizens.
Even if Xie Nan is willing to endure it, netizens are not willing to endure it.
A nameless network smoke was ignited.
So is Wu Jing wronged?
To put it bluntly, it is still a problem between husband and wife.
The opinions of netizens are nothing more than the opinions of outsiders.
For Xie Nan and Wu Jing, they have long formed their own mode of getting along.
Netizens only saw Xie Nan's grievances.
ignored Xie Nan's composure when facing Wu Jing.
After all, netizens who are bystanders are already angry.
But Xie Nan can always rationalize with Wu Jing calmly.
Although he didn't have the upper hand, he didn't act as a stuffy gourd.
This has something to do with the fact that Xie Nan himself is also a rational person.
She herself has said that both of them tend to deal with things rationally.
Therefore, many times the other person's emotional problems are not taken into account.
Even in the sight of other couples simply singing a song.
Xie Nan would shed tears with emotion.
It can be seen that there are few warm moments between her and Wu Jing.
Couples like the two of them are not uncommon in today's society.
The reason why netizens criticized Wu Jing so much.
is also because I see too much in daily life, and Wu Jing happens to be a typical public figure.
Excessive empathy can lead to emotional intensification.
I also hope that netizens will criticize rationally.
After all, aside from the star filter, they are just a group of ordinary people.
Epilogue:
After all, marriage is still a private matter for the parties.
If a person drinks water, he knows whether he is warm or cold.
As spectators, we should choose to respect and bless.