After graduating from the theater in 1996, Yu Hewei's acting career was not smooth, he was anxious and depressed at that time, and even had the idea of quitting the showbiz.
During this period, it was his girlfriend Song Linjing who guarded him with love and companionship.
Before that, Song Linjing had also contributed money and efforts to help him study and take care of his family, so it can be said that she has paid too much for Yu Hewei......
1. Warm love in the dark
After he first entered the play, Yu Hewei could not get much salary every month, but he was concerned about his mother and brothers and sisters, who were thousands of miles away, so he still took part of his meager salary and sent it back to his hometown regularly.
And his girlfriend Song Linjing understands his situation and is worried that he will suffer in the big city, so after getting the money, she will often send it back to him as it is, and then take out more than half of it from her pocket and give it to Yu Hewei's family.
At that time, Song Linjing usually only kept 30 yuan of pocket money a month, and gave the rest to her parents, and after falling in love with Yu Hewei, she would only keep 10 yuan a month to meet daily expenses, and 20 yuan to Yu's family.
- She can give everything so passionately for love.
In 1994, Song Linjing, who suffered from lovesickness for two years, passed the exam and entered the acting director training class in order to stay with Yu Hewei, and two years later, graduated with Yu Hewei, who was an undergraduate.
In 1996, the two were recruited to the Frontline Repertory Troupe of the Nanjing Military Region together.
However, after entering the Frontline Repertory Troupe, Song Linjing's acting career was smooth sailing, and she got countless scripts, but Yu Hewei unfortunately fell into a situation of playing tricks.
In the period before graduating from the play, most of the characters played by Yu Hewei were already the protagonists in the play, and the salary also reached 1,500 yuan per episode.
But after graduating, he was found for a role with a salary of only 200 yuan, and finally encountered an important scene, and the salary given by the other party was only 1,000 yuan for five episodes.
This made him quite angry.
So, at that time, Song Linjing, who had become his wife, not only had to bear the financial burden of the family, but also had to bear her husband's bad emotions repeatedly.
But Song Linjing did not show any impatience.
When Yu Hewei was born, his mother was 45 years old, his father died when he was three years old, and in the following days, his mother, who was more than half a hundred years old, raised him by selling sweet potatoes.
At the same time, the eight brothers and sisters in the family also love him, and they always think of him first when they have good food and drink.
Therefore, Yu Hewei cares about his family very much, and even when he is most poor, he wants to support his family.
And this wish of his, Song Linjing saw it in his eyes.
So in those extremely gloomy days for He Wei, Song Linjing encouraged him and comforted him, while doing her best to help him take care of his huge family and take care of all aspects for him.
Later, Yu Hewei recalled this time, he said that it was his wife's simple and warm love that allowed him to get out of the trough and welcome a new life.
He thought that he would be grateful to his wife, but also to the courage he had once ......
2. Silent love in splendor
Yu Hewei met Song Linjing in his hometown Fushun City Repertory Theatre, and at that time he was still a little-known young man.
When he saw the beautiful girl through the window in his room in the repertory theatre dormitory building, he made up his mind to pursue it.
And that girl is Song Linjing of the Fushun City Dance Troupe.
At first, Yu Hewei always ran to the stop sign of Song Linjing's bus after work, waited for her to arrive, and then got on the bus with her.
On the way, he deliberately attracted the attention of the other party, but unfortunately did not win the favor of the beautiful woman.
After a period of time, the juniors in Song Linjing's family wanted to enter the Children's Palace and needed to find a tutor, so Yu Hewei seized the opportunity to recommend himself and successfully got more time together.
During the counseling period, Yu Hewei tried his best to let Song Linjing see his shining points, and this time it worked.
In 1991, Yu Hewei and Song Linjing began to fall in love.
But soon after falling in love, Yu Hewei, who had great ambitions, did not want to spend his life in this small troupe, so he signed up for the Shanghai Theater Academy, and the two lived a life of gathering less and leaving more.
Fortunately, this state of affairs only lasted for two years before it ended.
After a long period of gloomy period, around 2008, Yu Hewei starred in film and television dramas such as "Drunk Gold Fans" and "Three Kingdoms" one after another, and his acting career entered a peak period of development.
But Song Linjing chose to silently retreat behind the scenes and became Yu Hewei's "woman behind the scenes".
During this period, Song Linjing still played the role of "filial son" for her busy husband, not only taking care of her mother-in-law meticulously, but also helping her in-laws' brothers and sisters to buy real estate.
And, of course, their daughters.
In 2021, the tribute drama "Awakening Age" will be released, and Yu Hewei won the "Magnolia Award for Best Actor" for the role of "Chen Duxiu", becoming the long-awaited "actor".
And behind his success, Song Linjing's dedication should not be forgotten.
Resources:
Baidu Encyclopedia - Song Linjing
Sina Entertainment "Yu Hewei: Give up the iron rice bowl and be admitted to the play, and only earn 200 a day when he is down"
Netease Entertainment "Yu Hewei has been married for 18 years and has a daughter, and his wife has quarreled over male and female issues"