A person's life is like a white horse passing through a gap. When we look back at the past, we have gone through several stages of adolescence, youth and middle age. When we get through the midlife crisis and enter old age, it actually means that the end of our life is gradually approaching. Sometimes, seemingly small things can have a profound impact on our fate. Therefore, we need to be vigilant at all times, pay attention to the environment and changes around us, and detect potential risks and crises in time.
At this time, if there are some special signs, it is even more indicative that our life path may have come to an end.
Signal 1: Bad luck
After middle age, we gradually move towards the margins of society. Jobs may be adjusted, and social status may be declining. At this time, if we encounter huge financial losses, such as bank account fraud, evaporation of deposits, or business failure, and huge debts, it is obviously a sign that our financial fortune has fallen to the bottom, and it is also a sign that our life is nearing the end.
Living in a material society, without an economic foundation, it will be difficult to continue to survive in the city. At this time, you might as well return to your hometown and live a life of farming, raising chickens, and growing vegetables. Money comes and goes fast. What matters is contentment and happiness in the present moment.
Signal 2: Suffering from a serious illness
This signal is more straightforward. In middle-aged and elderly years, there are many chronic diseases and stubborn diseases. High blood pressure, diabetes, heart disease, etc. may start from middle and young age. If it is not taken seriously and actively treated, the condition will deteriorate in old age, and it will sweep like a storm.
Cancer is especially scary. It often happens quietly and suddenly at one point and catches people off guard. After middle-aged and elderly people get cancer, even if the treatment is temporarily improved, the disease will wait for the opportunity to come back.
Serious illness can be devastating both physically and mentally. Fate has sounded the last alarm bell for us, suggesting that this aging and dying body has not been supported for a long time. It's time to stop, reorganize and wait.
Signal 3: Breakdown of social relations
This is perhaps the signal that makes us feel most lonely and helpless. When we are middle-aged and old, our social network should be expanded, surrounded by children and younger generations. It was the peak of life.
However, once there are problems such as family breakdown, emotional derailment, etc., our social relations will burst like a bubble. Fewer friends, no one, and an empty life. We will linger in great loss and pain.
At this point, trying to rebuild relationships is no longer easy. Because time is running out and I am physically and mentally exhausted, I often can't withstand a second blow. This is undoubtedly providential, conveying to us the message that "it's time to go".
On the road of life, we will always encounter various setbacks and difficulties. However, as long as we stay vigilant, take every detail of life seriously, and identify and respond to potential risks in a timely manner, I believe we will be able to overcome the difficulties and move towards a better future. In the process, we will also continue to grow and improve, becoming stronger and more mature.
So, when these three signals appear, let's face them bravely together and use wisdom and courage to create our own life legend. At the same time, we must also learn to cherish every day of our lives and feel the beauty and miracle of life with love and gratitude. Let's work together to create a happier and better life for ourselves and our families!