Dong Yuhui: Your child is reading there, and you come in and deliver a cup of milk and a plate of this fruit in a while, and you cut it clean and stick a toothpick in it! You are not his nanny, you are his parent.
You read a book with him, you don't walk around the room with your hands behind your back for a while, and then go out again, no! Those are all wrong, two people read together, look and talk, so that you will find the rhythm that they both like, and you can slowly focus!
Everyone probably knows Feynman's learning method, right, the passive topic is actually not mastered much, but the person who talks is the one who has mastered the most, so who is the real beneficiary? The teacher is always the most beneficiary, so he will find that many really successful people have a short career as a teacher in the early days! Because in this process, he has to explain him clearly, he has to think clearly, he has to explain clearly, he has to learn clearly!
Let the child tell you, you tell your child, this is the most efficient method, than doing questions, watching videos, summarizing and sharing.
For the child, as long as he can sit down at first, sitting for half an hour is successful. For many children who don't have the habit of reading books, let him sit down at first, and then calm down! At first, you can start reading books when he likes them, and some people think that the amount of knowledge about reading novels is too low, so you let him read them, and he can gradually see other things by looking at them!
When he reads novels, he thinks that he is right, and he slowly reads biographies, and when he reads biographers, he thinks, why would he make such a stupid decision? Why did he, such a clever strategist, or such a clever king, make such a low-level mistake? He looked at history again, and found that hey, it turned out that no one could escape! It turned out that history was like this? Finally, he found that dynasties had laws and could never escape? Finally, he looked at it more and more, and the more he looked at it, the more he looked at it, the more he looked at it, the more he looked Slowly, I studied philosophy.
Second, don't just sit there when you read a book, don't just feel it, just move your eyes, no!
Third, let him speak to you and encourage him to give his opinion. Then write different details! Children like to tell stories, what do you see the characteristics of children talking in general? Children talk is: Then, then how, because then there is a chronological order, he is telling the process of a thing, that is, if he says something unpleasant, he keeps a running account, he is talking about the process of things!
But adults are reasonable, and reasoning is logic, so you look at what adults say, about holiday safety, I will talk about three points, the first point is personal safety, the second point is food safety, and the third point is electricity safety. When an adult speaks: I will talk about a few points, what is 123, and what a child is talking about at the beginning and then again! One is the chronological order, and the other is the logical order. You have to train it, train it deliberately, and its ability to explain will improve, and you will be able to read the book in your heart!
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