#看见人间百态#
Introduction:
As the post-90s generation has become the mainstream parenting group, their parenting style is very different from that of the older generation. Many post-90s couples regard their children as objects that can be "played", and "pit the baby" all day long, such as waking up the sleeping child in the early morning on the child's birthday and forcibly letting her celebrate her birthday. Their parenting style may seem fun, but it can actually have a bad impact on the child.
1. The parenting style of post-90s couples is different from that of the older generation
Nowadays, the post-90s generation has gradually become the mainstream parenting group. Compared with the older generation, they have very different parenting concepts and methods. The older generation of parents regard their children as their hearts and take care of them meticulously. The post-90s couples advocate paying attention to their own feelings first, believing that "it doesn't matter if the child is wronged".
They regard their children as objects that can be "played" at will, and they "trick" them at every turn. For example, a young couple born in the 90s in Henan, whose daughter is about to celebrate her birthday, came up with a "clever trick" - waking up their sleeping daughter in the early morning and forcibly letting her celebrate her birthday.
Second, the "tricky" process of the post-90s couple
This post-90s couple usually likes "pit babies" and has been loved by their families many times, but they still go their own way. In order to let their daughter "experience" the feeling of being woken up in the early morning, the couple coaxed their daughter to sleep early, but they played with their mobile phones on the side and did not sleep. When the hour came, the mother immediately took action, shook her sleeping daughter, and forcibly pulled her out of the bed.
The poor daughter was confused and didn't know why. Mom put on a birthday hat directly for her and sang birthday songs to her with Dad. My daughter's hair was messy and she couldn't open her eyes, so she could only try to hold on to the quilt to keep herself from falling. The mother blew out the candle instead of her, and smiled happily at the appearance of her daughter's "forced restart".
3. The problem of parenting methods of post-90s couples
This kind of "pit baby" parenting style may seem interesting, but it can actually have a negative impact on the child's mental and physical health. For example, prolonged sleep deprivation can impair a child's bodily functions, the startle caused by a sudden wake-up call can trigger anxiety, and excessive "tricking" can cause a child to have negative emotions about being mischievoked. In addition, this parenting style is also prone to cause family conflicts. For example, in this case, the daughter's grandparents and grandparents were very dissatisfied with the actions of the young couple and severely criticized them.
Fourth, the views of experts and netizens
Some experts pointed out that young parents born in the 90s should treat their children correctly and not treat their children as just playthings. Netizens also have a lot of opinions about this case. Some netizens said that the appearance of their daughter trying her best to pull the quilt was too funny; some netizens said that their daughter would tell her mother the next day, "I dreamed of a birthday", and some netizens said that their daughter's grandfather sent a 60-second voice criticism of the young couple. Most netizens believe that this kind of "pit baby" parenting style is inappropriate, and young parents need to take caution.
5. Suggestions for improvement
As a young parent born in the 90s, you can't "trick" your children without being big or small. You should learn to care about your child's feelings and treat them right. If your child does have a problem, take action instead of turning a blind eye. Finally, post-90s couples should also learn to listen to the opinions of their family members, especially the older generation, which is of great help to improve their parenting style.