1 was cleaning and his phone rang. It's an unfamiliar number. Thinking that it might be a courier, I took it.
It was my husband calling. He went out half an hour ago, saying that he was inviting a former colleague to dinner, but he forgot to bring his mobile phone. That's when I saw his two phones stacked on top of each other on the sideboard. I asked: You don't have two mobile phones, how can you pay?
Him: I brought cash. When I called, I was told that if someone called him, I would answer it on my behalf. Usually, I won't answer when his phone rings, so I made a special call to tell me. As I continued to clean, I thought, "It's a good thing he still has cash on him." Otherwise, what's the matter if you invite someone to dinner without bringing your mobile phone or money? Either I drive him to send my mobile phone, or find an errand to give him the mobile phone, or ask the front desk of the restaurant to add my WeChat, and I will pay the bill...... Or, just say to a former colleague: I'm sorry, I forgot to bring my phone. There are at least three solutions to everything. Choose the last one, maybe it's really middle-aged dementia. Later, I asked him whose mobile phone he used to call me, and he said it was the front desk of the hotel. When asked how he had cash on him, he said he had put a few hundred dollars in cash in the car just in case. I haven't used it for years, but it finally came in handy. One morning last week, he said he was going to the dentist. I said that the hospital is not good for parking, you can take a taxi. From my house to the entrance of the community, getting off the elevator, it takes at least five minutes to walk. He often started taking taxis at home, and I often disliked him and told him to get to the gate of the community and take a taxi again. Otherwise, if someone Didi takes an order, others haven't arrived yet, they will make them wait. On this day, I don't know if he placed an order at home and went out, or when he went to the gate of the community before he started taking a taxi. After a while, he should have been at the hospital sooner, but he came back. said that no one took the order after waiting for more than ten minutes. Go home and get the keys and drive to the hospital. I took the key and went downstairs, and after a long time, I heard the door knock again, and I asked, "What's the matter?" His car was in Qingdao. He hadn't driven my car for a long time, and I changed it to a cartoon key tag, did he forget what my car keys looked like? Bike keys, electric car keys, car keys, downstairs storage room keys, spare keys to my mom's house...... Maybe hang the key up for easy access and see it at a glance. But, it's certainly ugly. My husband has a job in the current company, and he told me that you should not hang the key on your belt. He found the car keys and went downstairs, and after a while, he heard the sound of the combination lock ticking to unlock...... I asked: What did you forget? He: Didn't wear a mask...... When he finally went out, I was relieved. Later, Xiaoxi said: I didn't fall asleep until three o'clock in the morning...... You wake up in the morning, that movement...... I'm really convinced. I said, "Blame your dad." He went in and out five times today before he went out...... Did you notice? Your dad always had to turn back once when he went out. Your dad, probably, is middle-aged dementia. 2 Actually, I am fifty steps and a hundred steps of laughter. I've been depressed in the last few days, and it's possible that I'm allergic, not only to my skin, but also to my nerves. I don't know what other people's middle-aged experiences and perceptions are. More and more, I found myself presenting a lot of midlife dementia moments. I returned to Qingdao last night, and after changing the sheets and quilt covers, I washed and scrubbed them. Lying on the bed, I felt itching at the base of my ears and the back of my neck, and I suddenly remembered that I forgot to bring a spray medicine that was refrigerated on the upper layer of the refrigerator. Living in Qingdao and Linyi, two families, every time you leave, you need to pack up everything in detail. If you think you have thought everything through, you will inevitably have omissions. Once, while driving on the road, I remembered that a bag of garbage was placed at the door of my house, and when the elevator came, I went straight downstairs and forgot to take it to the garbage station. Later, I called my dad to take out the garbage. Another time, I couldn't find the key to the storage room at Linyi's house, and after thinking about it, it may be that I went to the storage room to get something before leaving, and the key was inserted in the door lock and forgot to pull it out. I also called my dad to take a look. Luckily, it was close to my parents' house. The distance of a bowl of soup. A few days ago, didn't I have a red face and red ears, and I deeply realized what it is like to "slap a swollen face and become fat", a swollen face is really unsightly. After seeing an otolaryngologist, I went to the dermatology department the next day. In fact, I went to the dermatology department, but when I arrived at the hospital, I hung up my ear, nose and throat, which is a manifestation of dementia. The dermatologist didn't diagnose the problem, and prescribed a bunch of medicines, eating, applying, cold compresses, and spraying. The spray, the ear, nose and throat doctor first opened a bottle, because it had to be kept in the refrigerator at a constant temperature, and it was inconvenient for me to carry, so I took a photo and showed it to the dermatologist. The dermatologist prescribed two more bottles. Three bottles, all on the side door of the refrigerator. When I returned to Qingdao, I cleaned up the refrigerator and even packed half a bottle of tempeh, but forgot the medicine. The full name of the drug is "bovine alkaline fibroblast growth factor topical solution".
It's too long, can it be abbreviated as "bovine"? When people reach middle age, I can't remember the name of the medicine for such a long time. Probably, this is also a manifestation of midlife dementia. Back then, there were some phone numbers, mobile phone numbers, celebrity quotes, good words and sentences...... I have never forgotten it. Now, I can't even remember Xiaoxi's mobile phone number, and I have to go through my phone's address book every time. I only remember the tail number, because I occasionally have to pick up the courier for her. It can't be said that dermatologists don't see why. I went for a food allergen test and the milk had a "ten" and the doctor said not to drink milk recently. But a few days before I was allergic, I hadn't touched milk at all. Maybe it's because there is milk in other foods, and my body happens to have poor resistance in those days, which gives the allergen a chance to take advantage of? There is only one "ten", which can be alternated or avoided, but if there are two or three "+" signs, it should be avoided.
I wanted to know "why" and "how" allergies? I asked: Could it be because of eating mushroom soup hot pot? What kind of mushroom allergy? That night in Kunming, we went to eat mushroom soup hot pot. There are six varieties of mushrooms on a plate, there is a timer on the table, and it must be boiled for 25 minutes, and the service staff can only eat it after serving a small sample and sealing it. It's scary to watch, and it's a bit of a "risking death to eat mushrooms" feeling. However, if it is toxic or allergic, it may have a reaction on the same day. It can't take several days to have allergies, right? The doctor also said: If you eat mushrooms, you can't have allergies to your ears and face. I asked, "Could it be a crab allergy?" I also ate hairy crabs on the day I crossed the Chinese New Year's Eve...... The doctor shook his head and said: contact allergies are not ruled out either. You haven't just moved to a new house, have you? Your home hasn't been renovated, are you? What do you think is the reason for this? I said, "I suspect it's a demonic wind...... That day, I went for a walk by the river. When I left the hospital that day and walked on the road, I remembered that I forgot to ask the doctor: Can I wash my face? Can I wash my face with facial cleanser? Can I take a shower? Why didn't I think to ask the doctor when I was in the consultation room just now? Is it really middle-aged dementia? I went to the doctor for a follow-up visit for the second time, and I didn't even remember the name of the person. I ran to the triage desk and asked the nurse: Who was the doctor in the No. 1 clinic last Friday?Ah, is it really dementia?3 Regarding whether I can wash my face and take a bath, I asked Xia Du Niang. I found that the top of the list were all business ads. Either it is a dermatology hospital, or a drug advertisement, or a doctor's Q&A to the platform. People on the Internet scolded Sina Weibo as a "scum wave", and Baidu was a "scum girl". It's better to go to Douyin and Xiaohongshu to read a few more people's popular science. To this day, I can't be sure of the cause of this allergy. Maybe it's milk, maybe it's something else. However, perhaps it was my body that reminded me: don't eat nonsense. Teacher Yu Juan, who died of cancer at Fudan University, wrote a book, "This Life Is Unfinished", and the only thing I remember is that she reflected on her good appetite and dared to eat anything. When people reach middle age, they must be restrained in their diet. If it is not controlled, it is also a manifestation of dementia. On the day my husband invited his ex-colleague to dinner, Xiaoxi and I didn't plan to have dinner. It was almost eight o'clock in the evening, and he found a bowl of leftover rice in the refrigerator and made his own egg fried rice. Sit across from me and eat. When you don't eat, it's easy for others to get angry in front of you: I asked, "Is your bowl of rice in the refrigerator?" I asked: Did you not brush it and continue to use it? Yes. Me: Why don't you get a new bowl? This bowl has been refrigerated in the refrigerator, and you can use it without brushing it? And said: You can fry half of this bowl of rice and add half of the greens. There are carrots in the refrigerator, there are cabbages, you add them to the rice and fry them together, you can eat half of the rice. Him: It's too much work. I:...... What you didn't say was: How did you get fat? How did you have a fat belly? Don't you have a number? If a person doesn't pay attention to his diet, others are really powerless. I stayed in a hotel with him, and every time I looked at the food on his breakfast plate, I knew how he "couldn't lose weight". In addition to the staple food of steamed dumplings, he also likes to grab a cake or dessert. I told him not to eat that, "high sugar, high oil, high calorie". Him: Just one, it doesn't matter. I said, "It doesn't matter if you eat one egg a day, too often?" Don't eat four buns at once. If I eat at home every day, I can reduce his intake of carbohydrate staples. But often traveling, eating out, and not paying attention to yourself, others really can't do anything. In the past two days, I have fallen into the thinking of "middle-aged dementia", and I also thought of one point: all middle-aged people who are not self-disciplined and uncontrolled in diet belong to the dementia series. Obsessed with food and staple food, with a dumbfounded face. In the past two years, I have accepted a health credo that is: when you are healthy, you should be as thin as possible. Eat more meat and eat more high-quality protein. Eat less staple foods and don't drink porridge. I heard many middle-aged and elderly people say: I try to drink porridge (porridge) comfortably, three porridges a day, and I can't do without porridge. In fact, drinking porridge and eating staple foods is more of an addiction and a habit. When people reach middle age, as long as they are obese, they are a high-risk group. My sister has high blood lipids, she pays attention to adjusting her diet according to the doctor's instructions, lives with low oil and low salt, and loses eight pounds in a month. Friend L Eleven said that her mother-in-law was a "winner in life". The last time we had dinner together, I learned that her mother-in-law didn't have any underlying diseases. The so-called underlying diseases are hypertension, heart disease, coronary heart disease, diabetes, etc., a 95-year-old man without any underlying diseases, is not a winner in life?