Learn to develop your child's self-confidence in daily life and give your child a sense of competence. So that children can bravely face difficulties and meet various challenges on the road of future growth.
胜任感让弱者逆袭，让强者愈强
When my son first learned English, he often cried because he couldn't read the words, and he didn't understand the texts. Later, I only asked him to read along with the recording, not to memorize it. After about two months, he basically knew all the words in the text, and my son said, "It turns out that English is not difficult!" This gave him a lot of confidence in learning Xi English. The child has a sense of competence, no longer worries about learning English, and Xi homework is done well.
When the child encounters difficulties, give methods and suggestions, so that he can learn to overcome difficulties, and accumulate more and more successful experience, and slowly cultivate the child's sense of competence.
Use the right approach to help your child gain a sense of competency
Each child's own conditions and problems are different, and it is necessary to find the appropriate method according to the child's situation.
Add a little bit of difficulty (what your child can do) to the appropriate method, and once the challenge is complete, it will motivate your child to keep going.
Don't put too much pressure on your child and go into battle easily, so that you can better complete the challenge.
Broken thoughts: Parents should be a guide, not a destroyer, and need to accompany their children's growth with their hearts.