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Text|Yahara Yanagi
When my daughter was confined, one sentence completely chilled my heart.
"Mom, my mother-in-law gave me 50,000, you can give me 50,000 too. ”
Since my daughter was pregnant, I came from my hometown to take care of her wholeheartedly.
But I never thought that everything I paid was not worth the 50,000 yuan her mother-in-law gave her!
01
I'm a housewife with little skills, and I haven't even stepped into the workforce for years.
After I got married, I devoted all my energy to my small family.
Especially after the birth of my daughter, I can't wait to give her the best things in the world.
Parents want their children to have a better life, but life is not happy.
When the daughter was still young, her husband caused the family's financial difficulties because of business matters.
At this time, looking at my daughter's face waiting to be fed, I could only reduce some of my living expenses.
In this way, the daughter's living environment is much worse than before.
Even when she was in school, the things that her daughter's classmates had could only make her sad.
I can't bear to see my daughter's lonely affection, no matter how difficult life is, I try my best to give him the best.
And my daughter was also very sensible when she was young, she didn't ask too much, and even often encouraged and comforted me.
But this situation has changed with the increase in the age of her daughter.
When my daughter grows up, she no longer has any understanding of me, and has even learned to compare.
Many relatives and friends have told me that this is just my daughter's adolescence, and it will be better after a while.
When I heard this, I couldn't help but get worried, and as the days went by, the arguments between me and my daughter became more and more intense.
Even later, he became a stranger under the roof for a while.
The situation did not get better at all, and my daughter's cold attitude pierced my heart all the time.
But no matter how anxious I was, it still didn't help, and someone comforted me and said that my daughter is funny now, I don't know the bitterness of being a mother, maybe after getting married and having children, my daughter will understand my good intentions.
Once again, I chose to listen to my relatives and friends and wait for the day when my daughter returned.
And such days did not last long, and my daughter's grades in junior high school were not satisfactory after Xi school.
Even if I was forced to study Xi in the end, I was just admitted to an ordinary high school.
Even in the final college entrance examination time, my daughter still didn't take her academic Xi to heart, and still squandered her own pleasures.
The final result was not surprising, my daughter didn't even get into college, and I couldn't help but feel sad when I looked at her like this.
But her daughter didn't care at all, and even threatened to go out to work!
When I heard this, I was stunned for a moment, part-time job?
My daughter has never suffered much since she was a child, and I can't even afford to wash the dishes.
But the daughter swore that she ran away from the house, and there was no news for several days.
It wasn't until a few days later, when a text message asking for money reached my phone, that I found out where my daughter was.
My daughter's part-time job is not smooth, and she has even changed several jobs one after another.
But I just silently thought in my heart that I might have to endure some hardships when I first entered society.
But I never thought that my daughter had already secretly obtained the certificate with others!
02
When I learned the news, my eyes were dark, and I wanted to rush over to the spot and ask what was going on.
But my daughter is still out of town, and she doesn't make it clear on the phone, so I am left alone in a hurry.
Within a few days, the daughter returned home with a strange man.
When I saw the man, I kind of understood what was going on.
Therefore, I didn't put on a good face, and I didn't even pay attention to my daughter's soft tone.
What my daughter didn't know was that I had already accumulated a lot of anger in my heart, and now I was just a fuse.
The next thing is to recognize the person, my daughter put the two marriage certificates in front of me, I quickly looked worried, and found that the man opposite was ten years older than my daughter!
Seeing this, I immediately couldn't suppress my anger and shouted:
"You know I'm your mother!"
This sentence also completely uncovered the bad relationship between me and my daughter, and my daughter also exploded into her anger.
The meeting ended with an argument between me and my daughter, who unilaterally announced to me that the wedding ceremony would take place soon.
I froze on the spot, wondering how a child who was once well-behaved and cute could become like this.
At that time, I was in great pain, and the final result of this invisible dispute between mother and daughter was just me taking a step back.
I no longer object to my daughter's marriage, I don't want to be absent on my daughter's most important day, so I can only force myself to accept it.
And my daughter's attitude has also eased, she no longer quarrels with me, and chooses to reconcile.
It seems that at this moment, the relationship between us is only warm, and the former disputes have disappeared.
By the time my daughter got into the wedding car, I had tears all over my face.
Recalling the bits and pieces of the past, although there are complaints, but more are still reluctant.
And my daughter also kept saying "Mom", and what my relatives and friends said once again came to my ears: "My daughter will understand my feelings after she gets married."
But I began to be reluctant to marry my daughter, and I had to stay at home at the most beautiful age.
After that unhappy parting, I already knew what my son-in-law was like.
I am over 30 years old and have not yet started a family, and my family has a little money, but I can't sit back and relax.
In particular, this son-in-law used to be my daughter's boss when she was working, and I couldn't help but worry about this relationship again.
But looking at the daughter wearing a wedding dress at the wedding ceremony, no amount of worry is to avail.
I can only choose to let go of my daughter, but although it is said to let go, I have always been ruthless.
Especially after a month of marriage, I learned that my daughter was pregnant.
03
After my daughter got married, she followed her son-in-law to a larger city, while I stayed in my hometown.
It is said that "a married daughter is like water spilled", and I scoffed at this.
My daughter is like a piece of meat in my heart, and I can't let go of it no matter what.
So when I found out that my daughter was pregnant, my heart couldn't help but lift.
After all, pregnancy is a top priority, and I was worried that my daughter would have no one to take care of me, so I offered to take care of it myself.
My daughter only discussed my proposal with her mother-in-law, and even agreed.
I simply packed my bags and rushed straight to my daughter's city.
When I saw my daughter for the first time, I couldn't help but redden, my daughter no longer looked like a young and ignorant student who had just come out of society, and her dress became obviously mature.
Although my daughter often bragged on the phone that she was living a good life, those tired eyes still couldn't hide from me.
After careful inquiry, I realized that my son-in-law often did not return home at night because of his unsatisfactory work.
Even housework, which I couldn't touch before, is now starting to learn decently.
For this change, my daughter's immaturity has gradually been worn away, and when she sees me, she is no longer a crossbow.
In the following days, we were like a mother and daughter of an ordinary family, living normally, without big or small disputes.
When my daughter is pregnant, she often has some physical discomfort.
Seeing my daughter being tortured, I could only be secretly anxious, and even tried my best to make some nutritional supplements for my daughter.
During the time she was pregnant, I could say that she was guarding every inch.
As soon as my daughter has something uncomfortable, I immediately take my daughter to the hospital.
As a person who has given birth, I naturally understand how harmful pregnancy and childbirth are for a woman.
What's more, during the period of taking care of my daughter's birth, I gradually understood that my daughter's marriage had already existed in name only.
And the child in the womb is the daughter's only support in this relationship, and the child's in-laws also value it very much, and even came to visit a few times halfway.
I have always been dissatisfied with my son-in-law's family, first because of the age gap, and now this situation is still happening.
But seeing my daughter's willingness, I could only silently comfort myself that my daughter was older and had her own ideas.
But what I never expected was that my daughter didn't care about my efforts at all, and in her eyes, all this was as it should be!
On the day my daughter gave birth, I was anxiously fixed outside the door, but fortunately the mother and child were safe.
And after that, my daughter's confinement and need to be taken care of naturally fell on my head.
But that was my daughter's words, which completely chilled my heart!
"My mother-in-law gave me 50,000 yuan, how much do you give me?"
Looking at my daughter's expression of course, I instantly felt my eyes darken, and I couldn't believe it.
I have been taking care of my daughter since she was pregnant, and I have been doing my best to take care of the daily life of Concubine Hua.
Her good mother-in-law didn't show her face a few times at all, and even when she was confined, she didn't say that she wanted to come to help.
just used 50,000 yuan to capture his daughter in an instant.
At this time, I was not in the mood to continue to stay by my daughter's side, and it was this sentence that completely woke me up!
It turns out that my daughter has never changed, but I don't want to believe it.
My daughter is not my appendage, she has her own path to follow, and she may not have to worry about it at all.
Thinking about this, I transferred 50,000 yuan directly to my daughter from the card, and then went back to the house to pack my luggage.
Seeing me like this, my daughter also panicked and hurriedly asked me what was wrong.
I just said lightly: "I've been taking care of you for so long, and the money has been transferred to you, and now I'm going to live my own life." ”
When I said this, I turned and left, and I didn't pay much attention to my daughter's yelling in the back.
I also completely understand that I am not so important in my daughter's heart, and I am not the only daughter in my life.
For the rest of my life, I should focus on myself.
As for the daughter, her mother-in-law is so important in her heart that she may be able to let her mother-in-law take care of it.