The well-known host Ji Xueping lost her daughter and revealed that she was "born to die", which attracted a lot of scolding

Have you ever wondered what kind of stories and changes are hidden behind those glamorous stars? Today, I want to tell not only the history of a female star's fame, but also how a mother stood up from a huge blow and redefined her life with love.

She is the goddess who makes us feel the breath of youth in "Sixteen-year-old Flower Season", and the host who conquers countless audiences with wit and humor in programs such as "Family Studio" and "Entertainment Star World". On stage, she shines brightly, but in life, she was also a "very selfish" person, as she herself said, "so selfish that if you don't pay the appearance fee to my account in advance, I won't go on stage." ”

But fate sometimes plays tricks on people. When her life seemed to be smooth sailing, she married into a wealthy family and became the mother of four children, a sudden change made her world collapse in an instant - her daughter died.

Can you imagine the pain? A mother, watching her child leave, the feeling of a knife in her heart, I am afraid that only those who have experienced it can truly understand. This blow completely shattered her arrogance and made her re-examine her life.

She is no longer the star who only cares about the appearance fee and only cares about the stage light, but an affectionate mother, a woman who wants to use her love and strength to warm more people. She began to study Xi psychology deeply, from master's to doctorate, hoping to help others who had experienced pain like her.

The shining road from "white snow" to the screen

In those days, a new star was rising on the Shanghai Tang scene. Ji Xueping, this name may not be unfamiliar today, but when she was born in 1975, who could have foreseen what kind of waves this girl from an ordinary family would make in the entertainment industry in the future?

Since childhood, Ji Xueping has formed an indissoluble bond with literature and art. Ten years of dance training not only shaped her elegant temperament, but also made her feel at home on the stage. Whenever the school holds an event, she is always the most dazzling host, conquering every audience with her charm and talent.

Time jumped to 1989, and a TV series called "Sixteen-year-old Flower Season" was cast in major schools. Ji Xueping, who is in the flowering season, stands out from thousands of competitors with her outstanding appearance and inner talent. The Bai Xue she plays in the play is confident and brave, and has a striking resemblance to her in life. As soon as this drama was broadcast, it became popular all over the country, and Ji Xueping became a little red star at that time. With advertising income far exceeding her parents' salaries, she began to taste the sweetness of fame.

However, Ji Xueping did not rest on her laurels. At the age of 17, she was invited to become the host of the program "Chinese". This is a large-scale program jointly produced by Dragon TV and Japan's NHK TV, which is undoubtedly a huge challenge for the young Ji Xueping. But with her extraordinary talent and hard work, she successfully supported this show with Yan Ni and other excellent hosts.

In Ji Xueping's acting career, she has always maintained her love and pursuit of art. Whether it's dancing, hosting, or acting, she does her best to do her best. Her success is not accidental, but the inevitable result of her talent and hard work.

A gorgeous turn from the screen to behind the scenes

At the age of 17, the same age as a flower, Ji Xueping has already stood on the stage of the "Chinese" program, hosting side by side with Yan Ni. This joint work between Dragon TV and Japan's NHK TV opened up a wider world for her. At that time, she was young and talented, attracting the attention of countless audiences.

However, just when her career was booming, Ji Xueping made an unexpected decision - to enter university. She knows that fame is only temporary, and knowledge is eternal. As a result, with her own efforts and accumulated fame, she won the favor of many schools.

In the end, she chose to play close to home. When choosing a major, she was faced with a choice: continue to study acting, or try a new field? After some thought, she decided to challenge herself and chose the major of TV directing. What she wants is not only the light on the stage, but also the sense of control behind the scenes.

Ji Xueping's life is like a hanging, and it is so smooth that people are enviable. When she was still a sophomore, she got the opportunity to host "Five Star Award Arena". The planner of this show is Jiang Jixiong, a famous Taiwanese producer, who brought a novel competition format and innovative content to make the show an instant hit. Ji Xueping also received more attention because of this, and her name began to spread in the entertainment industry.

And more importantly, because of Jiang Jixiong, Ji Xueping got acquainted with Hai Lide. This is the beginning of another journey in her life and an integral part of her future life. Since then, her life has become more colorful, and her career and love have achieved fruitful results.

The legendary fate of Ji Xueping and the young master of the Hei family

Ji Xueping, a well-known figure in the entertainment industry. And when the name was associated with Khaled, it made waves. Khaled, a rich kid who has always been low-key and mysterious, his family background is like a mystery, which makes people curious and unpredictable.

It is rumored that Khalide's father, Hei Youming, was once Taiwan's largest arms dealer, and this news caused a stir on the Internet, but the truth is still a matter of opinion. However, there is one thing that everyone recognizes, that is, the black family is rich, and very rich.

At the beginning, in 2009, when the black family spent 14 million US dollars to win the promotion and marketing rights of China's professional basketball, it surprised many people. And that's not all, they even signed a 50-year cooperation agreement with the Chinese Baseball Association to build a professional baseball league. Although the cooperation ended up for various reasons, the financial strength and courage of the black family can be seen.

In such a family background, Khalid is naturally extraordinary. And his relationship with Ji Xueping is rumored to be a good story. The two are in love in a low-key manner, although they rarely appear in public, but every time they are in the same frame, people feel the sweetness and tacit understanding between them.

Ji Xueping herself is also talented, not only outstanding in appearance, but also with her own efforts to break through in the entertainment industry. When he was in college, he was recommended by Jiang Jixiong, a big name, to host "Zhengda Variety Show" on CCTV, which is not a treatment that ordinary people can have. Jiang Jixiong is the founder of "Zhengda Variety Show" and the vice president of Zhengda Group, and his recommendation undoubtedly opened a new door for Ji Xueping's career.

After graduating from university in 1999, Ji Xueping officially joined CCTV and began her hosting career. And her love life has always been in the spotlight. Although the relationship with Khalid was low-key but very stable, the two finally entered the palace of marriage. This marriage not only allowed Ji Xueping to reach a higher level in her career, but also allowed her to find a home emotionally. Looking back now, their meeting, acquaintance and love seem to be fate.

On October 2, 2004, in the banquet hall of Shanghai Jin Mao Hotel, a high-profile wedding banquet was held here with bright lights and a romantic atmosphere. The protagonists of this wedding were Ji Xueping, a leader in the entertainment industry at the time, and her mysterious boyfriend Hai Lide.

Ji Xueping and Khalide's relationship has always been very low-key, and few people know their love story. However, at this grand wedding, their love was finally witnessed and blessed by the public.

The exposure of the wedding made Ji Xueping instantly the focus of everyone's attention. There was a lot of speculation about Khaled's family background, and rumors about his father were endless. However, Ji Xueping and Hallid did not respond much to these rumors, and they chose to live their lives in their own way.

A few years later, Ji Xueping once again became the focus of the entertainment industry. This time, not because of her acting career, but because of her personal assets. She was once known as a "star shareholder", and her name can be seen in the list of the top ten shareholders of Haiyin and Haibo.

Ji Xueping's success is not accidental, she has put in a lot of hard work and sweat along the way. She has not only made remarkable achievements in her acting career, but also shown outstanding vision and wisdom in the field of investment. Her fame and status were earned by her own efforts.

However, fate did not favor her all the time. On the road of life, she has also experienced many setbacks and difficulties. However, she did not give up and chose to face everything bravely. Her story teaches us that no matter what difficulties we encounter, with courage and determination, we will be able to overcome them.

In that moment of joy and anticipation in 2008, Ji Xueping's daughter came to the world like a little angel. The little guy's facial features are exquisite, as if Ji Xueping was a copy of her childhood, so cute that it makes people's hearts melt. Ji Xueping and her husband doted on their daughter with a nickname - "Black Pearl", which means that she is the most precious treasure in the family.

However, fate doesn't seem to set out to make it smooth sailing for this small family. From the moment she was born, "Black Pearl" was shrouded in the haze of congenital hypopulmonary function, and repeatedly suffered from aspiration pneumonia, which made Ji Xueping's heart always hang in her throat. She took her daughter to seek medical advice everywhere and visited major hospitals, but she was never able to find a cure.

In order to fight for a glimmer of life for her daughter, Ji Xueping spared no expense, and even improved her English level by leaps and bounds in a short period of time, just to be able to communicate smoothly with foreign experts and seek better treatment options for her daughter. In the past 11 years, Ji Xueping's life seems to have become a never-ending cycle: taking her daughter to get injections, see a doctor, get another injection, and see a doctor again......

The birth of her daughter not only allowed Ji Xueping to experience the joy and responsibility of being a mother, but also stimulated her strong interest in education and psychology.

As early as 2002, she and her husband Khalid co-founded the Montessori Kindergarten, which is committed to providing a high-quality educational environment for children. However, before the birth of her daughter, Ji Xueping never imagined that she would delve into the field of education so deeply. Her daughter's illness made her realize that education is not just a science, but also a life-saving art.

With the passage of time, "black pearl" has become the whole meaning of Ji Xueping's life. Every time she sees her daughter's little face distorted by illness, her heart seems to be torn apart. She once sighed in despair: "I feel that life is like a dark tunnel with no end, no matter how hard I run, I can't see a trace of light." ”

One day in 2019, the sun was particularly dazzling, but it couldn't take away the cold atmosphere in the hospital. "Black Pearl" was once again lying on the hospital bed, waiting for another round of injections. Ji Xueping thought that this time would be like countless times in the past, as long as she survived this hurdle, her daughter would be able to return to that home full of laughter and laughter again.

She arranged for a nanny to stay with her daughter, while she hurried to her place of work. However, a phone call in the evening completely destroyed her world: "Come on! Your daughter is dead and needs to be rescued!" The doctor on the other end of the phone spoke in a hurried and solemn tone.

Ji Xueping's brain went blank, and she threw down everything she had at hand and rushed to the hospital frantically. However, fate was so cruel that she was deprived of the last chance to see her daughter. When she stumbled outside the rescue room, she only had time to hear a heart-rending cry: "Mom!" that was the last voice left to her by "Black Pearl".

The 30 minutes of waiting for my daughter to be cremated at the funeral home seemed longer than a lifetime. Ji Xueping sat there blankly, staring blankly ahead, as if the whole world was still, only the pain in her heart reminded her that it was all true. She didn't know how she got out of the funeral home and how she faced the rest of her life. All she knew was that the little angel who had brought her endless laughter and tears had left her and would never return.

At that moment, the ashes were lightly held in her hand, and Ji Xueping seemed to feel the rebirth of life. The epiphany in her heart was like lightning piercing the night sky, illuminating the way forward. She understands that from now on, she will carry the lives of two people to move forward, and she will leave footprints in the world that her daughter has never walked.

The grief of losing her daughter made Ji Xueping re-examine her past life. She found that she was so small and ridiculous, always bound by money and fame. However, now she has broken free from those shackles and has begun to pursue her true desires.

Ji Xueping resolutely embarked on the road of studying Xi psychology, from a master's degree to a doctorate. She hopes that through in-depth research on education and psychology, she can help more people get out of the predicament and find their own light.

She shares her insights and insights on the short video platform, writing the pain of life and death in words, hoping that these experiences can become the strength for others to move forward.

However, this world is always full of incomprehension and malice. Ji Xueping's book has attracted countless abuses and accusations, as if a storm of words has swept in. But she wasn't knocked down because she knew that these attacks were only because people didn't understand her heart and experience.

In fact, Ji Xueping has never lacked money and fame. All she seeks is inner peace and contentment. Venus once commented on her "pride", but this "pride" is not arrogance and disregard for others, but firmness and confidence in her own heart. She knew what she was going to do and where she was headed. This firmness and self-confidence allow her to move forward with her head held high in the wind and rain.