The pull of fate is a magical marriage story
Ms. Lao Chunyan, located in Shaoxing, Zhejiang, a water town in the south of the Yangtze River, has shown outstanding talent and wisdom since she was a child. Her father is a passionate journalist, and he still uses his personal experience to depict the bright and vibrant world in front of the camera to his daughter in his busy schedule, which deeply stirs the heart of the little Lao Chunyan and generates endless love and desire for this ideal career.
Under the earnest guidance of her father, Lao Chunyan gradually determined and strengthened her life development trajectory.
In that wonderful high school years, Lao Chunyan stood out from many outstanding students and won the admission letter of the Department of Journalism of Fudan University with excellent results.
During the four years of college, she devoted herself to the ocean of knowledge day and night.
With her outstanding academic performance and outstanding talent, Lao Chunyan was selected by the school as the host of the campus radio station by an exception, which undoubtedly laid a solid foundation for her future hosting career.
After graduation, Lao Chunyan finally realized her dream and successfully joined the news department of Shanghai TV Station and began her career.
With solid professionalism and a diligent and pragmatic work attitude, she quickly rose to prominence, took on important hosting tasks, and independently hosted news programs.
This young and promising woman has made steady progress on the road of her career and has received countless praises and honors.
However, fate brought an unexpected gift to Lao Chunyan at this time. At a class reunion, she met Mr. Qiu Zhengyi, the top student in the Zhejiang Provincial College Entrance Examination who was eight years older than herself.
From the sympathy of the two when they first met, to their later like-mindedness, they also have an amazing tacit understanding in terms of outlook on life and values.
Qiu Zhengyi was attracted by Lao Chunyan's dedication and dedication to his career, and Lao Chunyan was overwhelmed by Qiu Zhengyi's indifferent fame and fortune and perseverance.
Thus, the red thread of fate connects these two talented young people closely. In the day after day together, their appreciation and love for each other deepened, and finally bravely took a crucial step and walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand.
The road to the north challenges and opportunities coexist
Soon after getting married, Lao Chunyan seized a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity - CCTV was openly recruiting hosts. For every local journalist, being fortunate enough to join CCTV is undoubtedly the highest pursuit and ultimate dream in life.
However, this decision meant that she needed to leave her familiar hometown of Shanghai and go to Beijing alone to start a new life and work.
When faced with such a major choice, Lao Chunyan fell into an extremely tangled situation. On the one hand, she is deeply aware of the scarcity and preciousness of this opportunity;
On the other hand, it is difficult for her to let go of the warm little home that has just entered the marriage hall, and it is undoubtedly a worrying thing to live in two cities with her beloved husband.
After a long and difficult struggle, her husband Qiu Zhengyi supported her in pursuing her career ambitions with his unexpectedly determined attitude, and strengthened her determination to choose to go to the north. Qiu Zhengyi knows that this wife's opportunity is not easy to come by, and as a partner, he should go all out to support him.
He was deeply touched when he saw the unwavering sparkle in his wife's eyes. They are all people who pursue career success, and they should encourage and support each other.
After in-depth thinking, Lao Chunyan finally made up her mind to leave the familiar Shanghai alone and embark on the strange and challenging road to the north.
At first, she had to live in a cramped rented house, waking up early in the morning to catch the bus to work, and reciting the day's press releases to make sure nothing went wrong.
Despite the sudden hardship of living conditions, Lao Chunyan never lost confidence. With extraordinary perseverance and perseverance, she stood out from many excellent job seekers and finally successfully joined CCTV News Channel and became an excellent host.
Standing in the spotlight, wearing professional attire, even though she was soaked with sweat, she still maintained her confidence and calmness, showing her endless love and pursuit of her career.
Family ties
While his career is steadily rising, his family life is gradually facing severe tests. Due to work needs, Lao Chunyan had to live separately from her husband Qiu Zhengyi for a long time, and the two could only maintain their relationship through video calls.
In 2009, the good news of pregnancy was like a thunderbolt in the clear sky, ruthlessly extinguishing their short-term joy. As an elderly pregnant woman, Lao Chunyan's pregnancy is full of difficulties.
However, in the face of strong opposition from her family, she resolutely chose to stay in Beijing and continue to stick to her job.
Deep down, Lao Chunyan knows that once the host leaves her post for a long time, countless people may take the opportunity to take her place and take away her position. Therefore, she could not take risks lightly.
So, every day she had to muster up the courage to go to CCTV to work with her pregnant belly. Seeing this scene, the leaders had to arrange some easier program recording tasks for her.
In 2010, full of joy and expectation, Lao Chunyan ushered in the crystallization of his love - the birth of his son Bao, but what followed was deep pain and helplessness. In order to take better care of the children, she resolutely sent her son to distant Shanghai and entrusted it to her husband.
As a mother, she couldn't contain her endless thoughts about her child, and every time a short video call with her child ended, tears involuntarily slipped down.
However, as a professional woman who is committed to her career, she has no other choice but to pour all her feelings into her work and temporarily let go of her responsibilities as a mother.
Whenever she sees other hosts being able to share the joy of family with their children, the self-blame and shame in Lao Chunyan's heart come like a tide, however, she knows that this is a decision she once made, and now she can only go on firmly.
All the efforts are to pursue the beloved career and realize the dreams in my heart. Fourth, questioning and struggling
With her outstanding talent and unremitting efforts, Lao Chunyan quickly made a name for herself on CCTV, hosting many high-profile news programs, such as the authoritative in-depth report "China Legal Report" and the large-scale talk show "Focus Interview", etc., and her reputation and popularity have also risen.
In 2013, she won the "Golden Microphone Award" - the highest honor in the hosting industry, and it is also the best affirmation and highest praise for her past efforts. However, what is unexpected is that as Lao Chunyan's popularity continues to increase, abuse and doubts on the Internet have also begun to breed quietly.
Some people maliciously speculate that a female host can achieve such brilliant achievements in a short period of time, it must be with the help of some unknown means, or there is some kind of "improper" relationship with the high-level.
These gossips were like sharp poisoned arrows, making Lao Chunyan feel extremely helpless and angry. In front of the camera, she has always maintained an elegant and calm posture, but behind the camera, she silently endured many unspeakable grievances and tears.
She has repeatedly defended herself in public, calling on people to stop spreading unfounded rumors and to deny women's career achievements from the moral high ground.
"As an independent and self-reliant woman, I would never trade my body to achieve success, and I would not be easily knocked down by such rumors. Lao Chunyan's words expressed the voices of countless women in the workplace.
She candidly said that once women achieve something, they are often labeled as "relying on men for the top", which is undoubtedly a great neglect of their hard work.
Lao Chunyan's profound and touching words aroused enthusiastic responses and wide recognition from all walks of life. Countless netizens spontaneously stood up to redress her grievances, and many seniors in the industry also expressed their support, fully affirming that Lao Chunyan can develop steadily on CCTV, a platform with strict requirements for talents and fierce competition, and must have her extraordinary talent and unique talent.
It is undeniable that there are still some people with impure motives who bite and chatter, which brings unprecedented pressure and distress to Lao Chunyan and puts her in a dilemma.
In the face of sudden condemnation and accusations, Lao Chunyan did not flinch, always adhered to the main reporting post he loved, and interpreted himself with a firm attitude and outstanding strength.
She may have tried to persuade others in a more rational way, or she may choose to remain silent, but either way, she has not been able to let those negative emotions interfere with her work rhythm and daily life.
From Lao Chunyan, we see a spirit of neither humility nor arrogance, and she used her tenacity and tolerance to successfully resolve this continuous storm of public opinion.
Lao Chunyan, who is now 51 years old, has struggled in the hosting field for nearly 30 years, and her career can be called brilliant. However, on another path in life, she was full of deep regrets.
Since the birth of her son Po, Lao Chunyan has not been able to be by his side all the time and witness his every step of growth. In the past 17 years, she and her husband Qiu Zhengyi have been separated from each other for a long time, and the good times of family reunion are numbered.
Whenever she sees the scene of other hosts sharing family fun with their children, Lao Chunyan will feel endless guilt and shame in her heart.
As a mother, she misses her son indescribably, and every time she has a video call with Po, tears always slide unconsciously. Recalling that soon after the birth of her son, she had to send him to Shanghai to be raised by her husband, and the pain and guilt in her heart came like a tide.
However, as a working woman, she had no choice but to devote herself to her work and temporarily let go of her responsibilities and obligations as a mother.
Looking back on the past years, Lao Chunyan is deeply fortunate to be able to go through a long journey of life hand in hand with Qiu Zhengyi. Their marriage is not as simple as that of ordinary couples, but more like a "partner" relationship, where the two seek a balance between family and career, support each other, and finally realize their respective life values.
Qiu Zhengyi not only fully supported his wife in pursuing her career dream, but also took the initiative to take care of her son at a critical moment, becoming Lao Chunyan's strongest backing.
However, with her unremitting efforts and outstanding achievements, Lao Chunyan made her husband deeply proud and had no regrets. The couple planned their life path as wise men, not bound by the red tape of the outside world, and lived a unique and shining chapter of life!
So far, although the years have left a mark on Lao Chunyan, she is no longer as flamboyant as she was young, but it has given her a more mature and gorgeous charm. In the face of many doubts and slanders, she has always maintained herself, persevered, calmly dealt with and resolved them one by one with her professionalism and profound skills.
Looking back on the ups and downs of life, she has no complaints, but the biggest regret in her heart is that she can't always be by her son's side. However, she firmly believes that if her son can thrive and become an outstanding talent, then all the hard work she has put in will become invaluable and full of meaning.