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During the seven-day vacation, I was ready for my trip early and ready to go. But just as I was about to go out, I found that my daughter-in-law had changed the lock on the door of the house. It's incredible! I can't figure out why she would do this when there was nothing going on.
"Daughter-in-law, did you change the lock?" I asked angrily.
"Mother-in-law, I'm sorry, there have been some burglaries in the community recently, and I only had to do it for the safety of my family. The daughter-in-law explained in a whisper.
"Well, you can't make a decision without my consent!, besides, I'm only going out for seven days, and even if there's any danger, you can go with me!" I said reluctantly.
My daughter-in-law looked at me and said softly, "Mother-in-law, you also know that I have been very busy with work recently, and I really don't have time to go out with you." Also, you're not a kid anymore, and it's hard to travel alone. ”
"Hmph, it's not hard for me to travel on my own! you just don't want to accompany me!" I became angrier the more I thought about it, and I stood up and strode out.
My daughter-in-law caught up, took my hand and said, "Mother-in-law, I know you're angry. But I really made this decision for your own good. Don't get too excited. ”
"Alright, alright, you can stay at home!" I said through gritted teeth, shaking off her hand.
I was angry and disappointed. In this family, apart from me and my daughter-in-law, only my son is left. However, because of his busy work, he had to go out almost every day, and he rarely could be with me. That's why I'm traveling alone. At this age, I feel like I still have a lot of places to see and feel. But now, my daughter-in-law has blocked my plans, and I am really disappointed.
I took my luggage and left the house in a rage. I decided that I wanted to go on this trip alone. I don't need anyone's company, let alone my daughter-in-law's care and attention. I'll prove to her that I can take care of myself!
During the whole trip, I did not receive a single message from my daughter-in-law. At first, I felt a little guilty, after all, she made that decision out of concern for me. But gradually, my guilt turned into a kind of helplessness, even a kind of helplessness. I don't understand why she can't understand me, why she can't support me. After all, we are a family, can't we stand together?
"Mother-in-law, are you back?" suddenly sounded from behind my daughter-in-law's voice.
I froze for a moment, then turned to look at her. She looked a little tired, but her eyes were full of concern and concern.
"yes, I'm back. I said softly.
"I'm sorry, but I may have done something wrong during this time. I shouldn't have changed things at home, and I shouldn't let you down. The daughter-in-law lowered her head and said.
"Perhaps, I shouldn't have gone my own way and didn't communicate with you properly. I said with some remorse.
We were silent for a moment, then laughed at the same time.
"Besides, I've always thought it was too dangerous for you to travel alone, that's why you did that. I hope you can forgive me. The daughter-in-law said.
"I know, in the future, we need to understand each other and respect each other. After all, we are all family. I took her hand and said with a smile.
"Yes, we are all family. My daughter-in-law held my hand tightly and smiled.
I'm not a particularly good person at expressing emotions, especially in front of my daughter-in-law. But at this moment, I suddenly realized that understanding and tolerance are the way to really bring us closer. I may no longer be a child, but I am willing to learn to better understand and tolerate the people around me at this age. This decision is perhaps more important than a ruthless decision.
As a result, I understood that in this world, no matter how small things are, they cannot be won by ruthlessness alone. Instead, it should be faced and resolved in a more understanding, tolerant, and harmonious way. This is perhaps the most important rule and principle between me and my daughter-in-law, as well as between the family.
"Mother-in-law, my son said you had a quarrel, should I say something?" my daughter-in-law looked at me and asked with a little concern.
I took a deep breath, "Maybe it's time to have a good talk." I said calmly.
When my son came back from work, my daughter-in-law and I prepared a sumptuous dinner. At the dinner table, I said to my son, "Son, mom is sorry, I didn't communicate well with my daughter-in-law, and I didn't understand her intentions. ”
The son was a little surprised, looked up at us, and was stunned for a moment, "Mom, how did you realize this?" The son asked with concern.
"Yes, son, I've been thinking about it these days. I realized that I needed to be more understanding and tolerant of her, and this trip taught me to face and solve it in a more understanding, tolerant, and harmonious way. I said frankly.
"Mother, I also want to apologize, I am usually too busy with work and rarely spend time with you and my wife, which led to these misunderstandings. In the future, I will care more about my family and spend more time with you. The son said with some remorse.
"Mother-in-law, what you said just now is right, after all, we are a family, and we will understand and respect each other more in the future. The daughter-in-law's eyes flashed with sincerity and kindness.
At this meal, we were honest with each other, releasing our deep apologies and feelings. It turns out that the true strength of the family does not come from ruthlessness, but from understanding and tolerance. From that moment on, the relationship between our family became more harmonious, and mutual understanding and tolerance became the driving force for us to live better for each other.
Home is the spiritual harbor of all people, and understanding and tolerance between family members are the cornerstone of family happiness and harmony. Perhaps, we can't change everything in reality, but we can choose to face it in a more understanding and tolerant way. In this process, we can also gain more love and warmth.
"I'm sorry, my daughter-in-law, I should open myself up and make it a little more accessible to you. Not just for your warmth, but for us all to be happier. I finally expressed my remorse.
"Mother-in-law, none of this is your fault, mutual understanding and mutual tolerance are the real important things. My daughter-in-law gently took my hand and said with a smile.
This night lasted a long time for our warm family dinner. Be honest with each other and understand each other. Perhaps it is precisely because of this misunderstanding that we all know how to care, understand and tolerate more, and make us a better family.
Looking back on this trip, although there were some twists and turns, it made me understand a lot of truths. Everyone in the family needs to be understanding and tolerant, and they all need to be warm to each other. Perhaps, if it weren't for this door-guarding experience, maybe I wouldn't have understood the true meaning of this. But now, I get it. On the road of mutual understanding and tolerance, I believe that our family will become more harmonious and warmer because of this experience.
As a septuagenarian, I have also learned a new acceptance. Perhaps every experience in life is a lesson, and only when we experience it with our hearts and feel it with our hearts, can we really get something out of it. I believe that this is not only my topic, but also the reality of every family. Yes, the affection in the family is worth treating with our hearts, and only in this way can our lives become better.
I replied with a smile: "Daughter-in-law, we are all growing up and learning Xi from each other, and from now on, we will work together and treat our family with our hearts." ”
"Thank you, son. Mutual understanding and care between family members is what we need most. There should also be more communication between mother and child, so that we can be more harmonious. My son and I spoke with deep emotion.
After dinner, we sat on the sofa together, and the warm atmosphere made me feel happy. At the suggestion of my daughter-in-law, we agreed to set a fixed day a week as a family dinner day, during which everyone did not arrange work and socialize, and seized the time to spend happy time together. This is our new family rule, and it is also a reflection of better understanding and tolerance of each other.
During this trip, we all had new experiences. I have learned to face and solve problems in a more understanding, tolerant and harmonious way. The daughter-in-law also learned that mutual understanding and tolerance are the cornerstones of family happiness and harmony. And the son also understands that everyone in the family needs to understand and tolerate each other, and the warmth between each other is the source of family happiness.
Looking back on these seven days of rich experience, I realized that family harmony is not something that can be created by ordinary life chores, but requires the careful management of every member. Our lives have become happier and better. Their changes have made me believe that understanding and tolerance among our families are the key to our happiness. In the days to come, we will be more determined to walk on the road of mutual understanding and tolerance, and strive for a warmer and more harmonious family.
Under the new family rules, we had a great time together. The surroundings are filled with the warmth of home, and everyone is treating each other with care.
During this trip, I discovered a change in my heart. I no longer complain about the rush of time, but cherish every minute of time with my family. I have learned to face life with a tolerant attitude, and my relationship with my family has become better, and there has been more laughter in my home.
One weekend a short time later, while we were having dinner together at home, I suddenly said, "I'm planning my next trip, let's go together this time." ”
My son was pleasantly surprised, "Really, that's great, Mom, my wife and I are looking forward to spending the holiday with you." ”
"Yes, mother-in-law, we will Xi learn from you well, choose a beautiful place, and enjoy the scenery with you. The daughter-in-law also said excitedly.
I looked at them with a smile and a lot of warmth in my heart. Perhaps, this is the real life, no longer because of misunderstanding and alienation, but because of understanding and tolerance and closer.
On that wonderful night, we completed an unforgettable family reunion, and we knew how to cherish each other more, and our hearts were more full because of this reunion.
This trip not only made me realize that I cherish the emotional exchanges between my family, but also allowed me to gain the affectionate eyes and the most sincere smiles of my family. Looking back, I am grateful for everything.
The quarrels and misunderstandings in the past have gone with the wind after this trip. With a new mutual understanding and tolerance, our family relationship has become more harmonious, and warmth is enveloped in every corner.
Perhaps, this is not a luxurious trip, but it is a sublimation of the heart, and it is also an emotional reshaping of each other. Perhaps, all of this is just beginning, and there are many more to come. The family will become more closely connected because of this trip, and this family relationship will also be deeper because of this trip. I look forward to every day in the future, and may our lives still be full of warmth and laughter.
A month later, we took time out of our busy work life as scheduled to embark on this family journey. The plane landed in the warm coastal city, and a fresh sea breeze blew in your face. I looked at my daughter-in-law and son, smiled and said, "I stayed, now let's start our trip to the island." ”
On this sunny morning, we strolled on the beach, stepping on the soft white sand and enjoying the good time of the waves crashing. The blue sea and blue sky in the distance seem to be laughing with us. Happy times are always fleeting, and the son said excitedly: "Mom, look, there's a yacht over there, let's go and experience it together." ”
"Well, that's a good idea, let's go on a vacation together and enjoy this beautiful moment. I said excitedly.
Boarding the yacht, the sea breeze blows gently, the light music plays, everything is so beautiful. In yachting, we imagine the future and look forward to each day to come.
Back at the hotel and after a delicious dinner, we had a simple bonfire on the beach. Around the campfire, we shared each other's life chores and visions, and the openness of family members brought us closer.
On the day of parting, we sat together in a cozy café and reminisced about this pleasant journey. I said affectionately: "Daughter-in-law, son, this trip has brought us closer to each other, not only enjoying the beautiful scenery, but also feeling the resonance of the heart." ”
"Mother-in-law, yes, this trip has brought us closer and made us cherish the warmth and happiness of this family even more. The daughter-in-law said.
"Yes, Mother, we got to know each other better on this trip, and we also knew more about mutual tolerance and understanding. It's been so nice to spend time together. The son also said with emotion.
After this trip, my family members have been more communicative and closer. I have learned that family affection is the most sincere emotion, and understanding and tolerance are the power to make family affection deeper. This family trip has become a spiritual practice for us, and our mutual understanding and tolerance will also become a better and warmer force for our family. May our families have more laughter tomorrow.