Xi Mengyao and He Youjun, the pair of frequent guests in Lian Zong, once again appeared on the reality show.
When he was in love, he starred in "The Jet Lag of Love", and after marriage, he recorded "Happiness Trio".
This time, they participated in "Love's Study Trip", showing the audience a real "pure love of a wealthy family".
can get each other's laughter, will unconsciously do similar actions, and even when asked about the other person's related things, they can also say the answer accurately......
In terms of intimacy, the same frame in the show is sugar. He Youjun can't hide his "physiological liking" for Xi Mengyao.
His eyes will unconsciously follow his wife's figure, like to play with her, intimacy, and ask for kisses and hugs anytime and anywhere.
In the past, everyone scoffed at the couple: the man was famous, the woman was wealthy, and each had a ghost in his heart.
Now, seeing that they have all become star-eyed: idol dramas have become reality, they are true love!
In stark contrast, it is Guo Biting, who also married into a wealthy family.
Recently, Xiang Zuo has shown his love through social media many times, and has frequently appeared on hot searches.
But whether it's posting a daughter or shouting at a wife, the atmosphere of the comments below is not friendly, "Finally found out that returning to the family is the traffic password?
As figures in the entertainment industry, their respective wealthy marriages have attracted much attention, why does Xi Mengyao's marriage seem much happier than Guo Biting?
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When Xi Mengyao and He Youjun's relationship was first exposed, there were rumors on the Internet that Xi Mengyao hung a golden beetle son-in-law.
Because He Youjun came from a prominent background, this relationship was questioned whether other factors were involved.
Xi Mengyao was interviewed after getting married and said that she was married to love, and the Internet was full of mocking her fake remarks.
If you want to trace the reason for the decline of the two people's reputation, you have to mention their extremely embarrassing marriage proposal ceremony.
At that time, the scene was filled with cheap balloons and pink roses, giving it a rustic feel.
The location was chosen in the newly opened shopping mall of Sitai, and there is a great posture of free traffic without rubbing.
It was later confirmed that Xi Mengyao was pregnant at the time of the marriage proposal - first pregnant and then proposed, and it was difficult for the public not to label this relationship as "interest".
The attitude of the fourth wife and He Youjun's "Ma Bao" deepened the public's prejudice against this relationship.
When Xi Mengyao and He Youjun were still in an ambiguous relationship, someone asked the fourth wife what she thought of Xi Mengyao, and got a faint response: "Oh, the model who fell down on the catwalk." "
Subsequently, after Xi Mengyao married into a wealthy family, the fourth wife publicly urged her to have children.
The outside world has the impression of them: Xi Mengyao is a supermodel, in the eyes of the wealthy, she is not a child-giving machine.
When He Youjun gave birth to a son in Xi Mengyao, he excitedly published a small composition, which attracted a lot of complaints from everyone about the "father of the eldest grandson".
When it comes to having a child, he and Xi Mengyao have reached a consensus and plan to have a second child in three years.
However, due to the urging of the fourth wife, the two had to quickly give birth to two children within three years, further consolidating the infamy of "Ma Bao".
Xi Mengyao also became a stalk for netizens to ridicule "The Legend of Zhen Huan", ridiculing that "Xi Guifei's two children can be regarded as ensuring the glory and wealth of her life".
"Xi Mengyao, the daughter-in-law of a wealthy family, is not easy to do" has almost become a public consensus, until the broadcast of "Love's Study Trip".
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In the show, He Youjun mentioned that he learned a sentence from his father that "listening to his wife will develop".
At first, everyone only thought that what he said was really ironic: The four wives of the gambling king, who are you listening to?
But gradually, it became clear that the lad actually really believed this sentence.
No matter what Xi Mengyao said, he never refuted it, and always did it immediately.
The funniest scene is that when he was asked "Are you afraid of your wife", before he could answer, as soon as he heard Xi Mengyao whispering to remind him to "stand up", he reflexively stood up.
Needless to say, the body's reaction is already the best answer.
At the height of the Crescent Spring Desert, He Youjun immediately panicked when he saw Xi Mengyao crying, and changed from leaning on her to hugging her tightly in his arms, and said guiltily:
"It's hard work, my life is so complicated, and my family is so complicated. "
It can be easily found that Xi Mengyao does not have the obvious sense of inferiority and grievance brought by a typical daughter-in-law of a wealthy family, on the contrary, she is accepted and valued by a wealthy family.
The reason why Xi Mengyao was able to gain such respect is due to Xi Mengyao's high emotional intelligence in interpersonal relationships, especially in upward communication.
Faced with the sharp question raised by the variety show team: "What are the shortcomings of the other party?".
Xi Mengyao coped with it easily and replied: "You have a lot of shortcomings, and the shortcomings I want you to get rid of the most are that the temperature of the air conditioner should not be turned down too low." "
The clever answers show her ability to "speak hard and softly", while also highlighting her emotional value.
Aside from the "sweetness" shown on variety shows, this marriage is obviously taken care of by Xi Mengyao.
The gambling king's family is huge, and if he wants to gain a foothold in the fourth room, it is not enough to rely on her husband's approval, Xi Mengyao also needs to be able to handle the relationship with the fourth wife.
In the face of the fourth wife, Xi Mengyao showed the greatest respect and obedience.
He Youjun revealed on the show that the fourth wife regarded his predecessor as a transparent person (ignored).
(Fourth wife) deliberately made a background adjustment before seeing Xi Mengyao, and played mahjong all night when they met for the first time (very in line with the style of the gambling king), and then deduced that Xi Mengyao is patient, has high emotional intelligence, and understands communication.
Dealing with people without leakage is not a day's work.
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He Youjun and Xi Mengyao have ushered in an improvement in public opinion in the past two years, and there is another big reason for their peers.
is also married to a wealthy family, and Xiang Tai next door frequently expresses his love for his daughter-in-law Guo Biting, and seems to hold her as a pearl in the palm of his hand.
But actually?
The husband has been rumored to have had an affair, he gave up his career and became a housewife with a baby at home, no longer as beautiful and moving as before, and even his dressing and hairstyle were restricted by his mother-in-law and lost his freedom.
Searching for her on social media, the associated words are no longer beauty, goddess, and sister flower, but have become second child, birth, and Xiang Tai......
From a goddess who used to be in the limelight, to a housewife who can only stay at home and take care of her children, even the image of walking the red carpet has been ridiculed, and she is jokingly called "the soul is drained".
Perhaps, this is related to the personalities of Xi Mengyao and Guo Biting.
In contrast, Xi Mengyao knows more about what she wants and is more proactive.
The relationship between Guo Biting and Xiang Zuo was born under Xiang Tai's intervention from the beginning, and Xiang Tai actively matched.
As for the two parties in love, one is shy and introverted and cannot fight against a "hot" person like Xiang Tai, and can only be led by the nose; the other is Xi to obeying his mother's words and has almost no ability to refuse.
It took only two months from the public romance to the engagement, and it's hard to believe that both parties to the marriage have thought deeply about the relationship.
At the beginning of this marriage, Guo Biting lost the initiative.
Looking back at Xi Mengyao, at the beginning of her relationship with He Youjun, her dominance was obvious.
After He Youjun fell in love with Xi Mengyao at first sight, he took the initiative to invite his sister to become friends with her, and used this opportunity to launch a pursuit offensive.
Even if the proposal was ridiculed by the public as "earthy and vulgar", it was actually full of He Youjun's intentions and love.
His English name is Mario, he is short, and the tall Xi Mengyao is like Mario's peach princess.
So he designed a marriage proposal ceremony with the theme of Mario's Breakthrough, symbolizing that his little man has won the beauty step by step.
After marriage, in addition to having to complete the KPI of having children in a wealthy family, the fourth wife is really good to Xi Mengyao in other aspects.
The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are not required to live together, so that the young couple can enjoy a good life in a mansion in Shanghai with their two children.
does not limit Xi Mengyao's career development, she was able to go out to work only 12 days after giving birth, from fashion activities, magazine shooting to live broadcasting, her career is in full bloom.
What's even more rare is that unlike Xiang Tai's treatment of Guo Biting, the fourth wife takes the route of training and education for Xi Mengyao.
She would take her to high-class social events and gatherings of wealthy wives to make her meet more people.
Sent her to Peking University to study EMBA courses to broaden her horizons.
The media even photographed the fourth wife personally taking Xi Mengyao to inspect the hotel under her name and teach her to do business by hand.
It is rumored that this is an intention to let the daughter-in-law take over the management of the gambling king's family.
Finally, and of course the most important point, there is obviously a consensus of "community of interests" between Xi Mengyao and He Youjun.
Back in 2018, Xi Mengyao and He Youjun are at a turning point in their lives.
Xi Mengyao suffered a thrilling fall in the Victoria's Secret show, which nearly destroyed her career, while He Youjun needed to earn a place in the heir race, and the import of Tian Ding became the first priority.
Their combination creates the biggest topic, gets the highest benefits, and achieves a win-win situation.
Guo Biting and Xiang Zuo obviously lack such mental strength and performance ability.
When the two were not married, Xiang Zuo was casually racing in a variety show because Guo Biting had a problem with navigation.
Guo Biting was so frightened that she cried, but he lacked patience to comfort his wife and seemed indifferent.
As for efforts to maintain marriage, it doesn't seem to be their focus either.
After marriage, Xiang Zuo frequently became the focus of media attention, and even once needed Xiang Tai to come out many times to confirm that their marriage had not broken down.
Guo Biting chose the traditional wealthy marriage model, living in a way that teaches her husband and children and lives with peace of mind, looking forward to the awakening of her husband's conscience. And Xi Mengyao has long disdained to become a vassal of a wealthy family.
It is precisely because of this that she was able to develop the marriage relationship into an evenly matched and equal relationship, which is why she is better than Guo Biting.
Although it is impossible to predict what the future of this marriage will be, Xi Mengyao's initiative and high emotional intelligence give her enough room for error to manage her own life.