Guo Biting and Xiang Zuo, a husband and wife, have recently been separating variety shows, one is in Sister Lang and the other is in "Infinite Transcendence Class", all of which belong to the traffic passwords of their respective shows.
I watched both sides of the show, and I think it's very interesting when I look at it together, these two people are quite compatible, not the kind of match that is made in heaven and earth.
But in a secular sense, they seem to live a life of mutual affection, and through each other, they have obtained self-liberation and can live the life they want to live.
Let's talk about Xiang Zuo first, it is very wise for him to go to this variety show, because as long as you stay in the entertainment industry for a long time, according to the exposure effect, there will always be someone who will project you, like you, and discover your shining point.
His reputation has improved visibly. In the first issue, he was also ridiculed for bringing "intimidation" to join the group, and netizens used the mentors to watch him perform a distorted face and make emojis:
Personally, I think it is smarter not to avoid it in the show, and even take the initiative to break the protection of parents, and to use the second-generation identity outside the show to entertain the public.
Later, Wu Zhenyu's son Wu Feiman ridiculed "Infinite Transcendence Class" on Weibo as an "infinite evil class", pointing directly at Zuo, Xiang Zuo was not angry, and went to comment on Rio Dinner:
entertained the identity of the second generation, and when everyone looks at him again, they will go from watching a "waste second generation" to a "stupid son of the landlord's family", and the emotional nature is completely different.
With such an emotional foundation, in the later issues, Xiang Zuo was gradually discovered to be stupid and sincere, and I watched the barrage become friendly.
In the information age, the Internet has redistributed social and cultural rights, and the public has fair cultural capital.
Zhou Xun and "The Legend of Ruyi" were dug up and criticized fiercely, and the more they extinguished the fire, the bigger it became, which is an excellent case. And Yang Mi and Huang Xiaoming, through self-blackening, their word-of-mouth bottomed out and rebounded, which is a positive model.
So Xiang Zuo's step is very right. In fact, through several variety shows, it can be seen that Xiang Zuokong has a fierce and vicious face, which is actually very simple, even weak and flattering.
You can find in this show that he has a kind of obsession with kung fu that no one else is, and he will cry and thank Guo Biting when he mentions it. It's quite humorous: in the selection process, he fooled four actresses with a set of "Let Kung Fu Movies Stand on the International Stage".
Why? He relaxed, he was happy in this brief environment away from his parents and wife.
As I said last time Yao Anna, I have always adhered to the view that the rich second generation also has objective suffering, they do not have any material need to pursue, and they can only resort to spiritual pursuit to construct a sense of meaning.
But their lifelong spiritual quest is almost unattainable—killing father and mother, proving and transcending, because their parents were too successful.
What's more, most of the time, successful parents are very strong, and they have a set of success paths that they want to replicate to their children.
You look at Xiang Tai is, Tranquility gave an example in the show, Xiang Zuo is in his twenties, he wants to go out to play at 90 o'clock in the evening, and he was scolded by Xiang Tai in public, and he went upstairs without saying a word.
Interestingly, this kind of male with a strong mother usually chooses a mate because of the Oedipus complex and the symbiotic relationship that has not been severed, and the mate selection aesthetic will be close to the same style as the mother.
Xiang Zuo's first rumored girlfriend is Ying Caier, who is bright and spicy, and the next few married young wives and single mothers are all powerful characters who can choke with Xiang Tai.
In the end, according to Xiang Tai's meaning, he found Guo Biting.
Guo Biting's top-notch appearance, no matter how tricky your aesthetics are, it is impossible not to be tempted by a man. Xiang Zuo and Guo Biting must have also had a fresh sweet period.
Generally, traditional parents, after their children get married and have children according to their wishes, will loosen their bonds, and default to the fact that since they are fathers and husbands, they can gradually become a mature man (I don't know why they think so).
So after experiencing the newlywed Yan'er period, Xiang Zuo began to be on the verge of being cheap in a loose environment.
So later we met, the suspected cheating partner in his marriage, is it still a strong and glamorous type?
Of course, Xiang Tai was flat, and Guo Biting didn't squeak.
So I can understand Xiang Zuo's crying when he mentioned Guo Biting, saying "She is great". I can imagine how much Xiang Zuo scolded Xiang Zuo after the East Window incident.
And Guo Biting's failure to pursue it, the so-called knowledge of the general situation gave him a glimmer of life, so that he could continue to live this kind of parental monitoring, but with a moderately free life.
Guo Biting is his fireproof layer, his life-saving straw, he has changed from pleasing two people to pleasing one person, and he also has a reason to "start a family and start a business" to make some breakthroughs that were originally impossible to achieve.
Guo Biting, judging from the current public materials, she shouldn't be too disciplined with Xiang Zuo, and she doesn't even care too much.
You see that she is in Sister Lang, in a hexagonal warrior involution program, the falling flowers are speechless, and the people are as light as chrysanthemums, such a large-scale social Shura field, insisting on not greeting everyone.
accidentally became the captain, and it didn't arouse her desire to win, comforting her crying teammates, and getting two sympathy votes was very satisfying.
I feel that she mainly plays a styling role in Sister Lang.
After Sister Lang was broadcast, I saw that the mainstream opinion of public opinion on her was a pity - when she was a child, she learned to draw and was stopped by her father, and she liked to play football and was stifled.
Under the coercion of the patriarchal structure, she made a vase, and her career was mediocre, and the biggest memory point was still Nanxiang, as well as Xiang Tai's copy.
Of course, structural criticism must be criticized, but from an individual point of view, I think her current life is really good, and people always have to look forward.
Whatever she's been through, she's been sharpened to be a light person, someone with low emotional needs, and someone who prefers to work with small animals.
The family has 20 dogs, 10 cats, and 40 birds.
Other sisters, Sister Shanglang, show short films of daily life, how to prepare and practice enthusiastically, and her clips are playing with flowers and plants.
Her indisputable nature meets Xiang Tai's criteria for choosing a wife, and at the same time, Xiang Tai can also meet the material conditions she needs for such indifference.
Veblen said a long time ago that leisure is also a kind of show-off, and only people who have no financial pressure at all have time to do those "useless things" and things that have nothing to do with survival.
She is not afraid that her husband will be a moth, someone will make a move, more fierce than her.
You must know that the cultural script of an extremely traditional family like Xiang Tai is extremely fond of the main house, Gangchang, and lintel, and is more afraid of Xiang Zuo's loss of morality and shame on the family than Guo Biting. And it will urge him to be motivated, and it is also a traditional concept for men to support their families.
And she only needs to pretend to be a good person who separates the fire when her husband makes a mistake, so that she can get the gratitude of the stupid son of the landlord's family, and the compensatory overtures of her in-laws.
So to be honest, I don't think it's a mistake for her to choose Xiang Zuo, I even think that with her heart, she could have not gotten married, so it's almost the same to find anyone.
I don't think she forgives Xiang Zuo for any heartbroken pain, she doesn't care that much.
There is a Xiang Tai who is a spokesperson for her and cuts off the fire of public opinion for her, which saves time and effort, even if it affects her, it is nothing more than a sentence of "beauty is a pity".
She went to participate in the show, I think it is also the thrust of the family, of course she has no pressure, other sisters in order to become popular, she in order to satisfy her in-laws, go to "scatter her heart and have fun".
So, really, in marriage, it's more important than love to be suitable. Love is fluid, wandering, illusory, and it is dangerous to use it as the foundation of marriage, and maybe one day love will be taken away and the building will collapse.
But the right is different, after all, after getting married, everyone will gradually become a light person of love, and what is most needed in the process of living a life is suitability.
From this point of view, it is indeed correct to say that Guo Biting is actually married to Xiang Tai. Because Xiang Tai gave her the life she wanted. When someone else marries and meets a mother, it is very painful, Guo Biting marries a mother, and she is spiritually rich.