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The famous Chinese host Ni Ping, a name that occupies an important role in the hearts of hundreds of millions of viewers. Her hosting style is unique, cordial and generous, and her acting skills that won the Golden Rooster Award are even more real and natural. People may not know that her childhood was not what it seems. Growing up, Ni Ping suffered from the injustice of her family. In an era of material scarcity, as the second in the family, she often felt her parents' preference for her brother. Despite her efforts to attract her family's attention, she has been marginalized and has only been able to watch her brother receive more care. Drinking water from a bottle of shabu became her daily routine, while her brother enjoyed milk, apples and cakes. Ni Ping's childhood was a neglected supporting role. This experience makes you wonder if everyone has a fair chance and treatment in childhood, and let's explore it with the steps of Mochizuki Pavilion
Ni Ping, the host who is well known to hundreds of millions of viewers, recently accepted an exclusive interview with Southern Weekly host Xiang Yang, opened her heart for the first time, and bluntly said, "I grew up with my grandmother, and I have no relationship with my mother." This frank statement is surprising, after all, in front of her camera, she is always so confident and generous.
When I was a child, Ni Ping in our eyes was in her prime, and she seemed to have grown up in a rich and warm family. But this interview revealed the knots in her growing up. She mentioned the experience of being treated coldly by her mother, which was touching. This story evokes childhood memories for many people, and it also arouses a lot of resonance and empathy.
Behind Ni Ping's growth story, there are more unknown bitterness. She did not get the warmth she deserved in the family, and the estrangement between her and her mother was a knot. This feeling may have influenced her personal life and career path, and it has become a part of her heart. This candid response may also be a reminder that the story behind it is often unsatisfactory.
The discussion in the online comment area also echoes this resonance, and the survival wisdom and tacit understanding of poor families in the era of material scarcity cannot be ignored. The background of Ni Ping's upbringing reflected in many ways the general phenomenon of society at that time. This phenomenon also makes people reflect on how the relationship between family, family affection and life is interpreted in different people in an environment of material scarcity.
Ni Ping, the gentle and firm host in front of the camera, bravely talked about the sadness of her childhood after many years of fame. As a child, she endured unfair treatment in her family. My brother enjoyed his mother's fried eggs and fresh apples, while she had to cook some cabbage herself or eat it with rotten apples. That huge gap left a deep imprint on her heart.
What's even more sad is that milk is an exclusive treatment for her brother in her home. Every time, when the milk appeared, the mother always brought it to the elder brother first, and when he finished drinking, she brought the bottle of shabu to drink the water in the bottle. She knew in her heart that it was her parents' partiality, but she was powerless to change it.
Gradually, Ni Ping began to understand her position in the family. She longs for the love of her parents, but is always put on the back burner. This grievance and anger slowly accumulated, and she tried to resist. Once, she watched her mother fry eggs for her brother, and her heart swelled with unspeakable dissatisfaction, so she started to cook herself. Although it didn't change her position in the family, the experience taught her that she was also capable of doing something.
Ni Ping's childhood is not only a beautiful image in front of the camera, but also the unfairness and struggle behind it. She used the word "yes or no" to describe the scene where the milk at home was only for her brother, a sentence that not only seemed to heal her, but also echoed the cruelty of material scarcity in that era. Perhaps, this experience made her inner tenacity and strength to struggle, which became one of her later motivations.
But childhood grievances have not gone away. Despite her professional achievements, Ni Ping deeply remembers those neglected days. Her story may be able to arouse more people's attention and reflection on childhood memories. Because everyone behind it may have their own story and unforgettable imprint.
Ni Ping learned to be self-reliant from an early age and understood that she had to rely on her own talents to win the recognition of her family. Once, when a relative visited, his parents asked his brother to play the piano, and although he was not good at it, he was praised. Ni Ping silently learned to Xi to play, but never got the opportunity to show. This apathy gradually fueled her desire to be recognized for her talent. In middle school, she showed excellent talent as a host, leading the school's literary and artistic presentations, and winning praise from teachers and classmates, which gave her great confidence.
When she was 17 years old, Shandong Art Institute came to her school to enroll, and Ni Ping was anxious to sign up. The teacher reminded her that the Central Academy of Drama and the Film Academy would also come to recruit students, but she couldn't wait. She longs to get out of the house as soon as possible and longs for freedom.
Faced with a choice that her family did not understand, Ni Ping resolutely devoted herself to the Academy of Arts and Performance. Despite initially facing opposition from her family, she continued to participate in performances and competitions, gradually showing her extraordinary talent.
In 2002, she won the "Golden Rooster Award" for Best Host for a show, which became a turning point in her career. Since then, her career has flourished and she has become a sought-after media superstar.
The Academy of Arts has become an important destination for Ni Ping. It was there that she was finally able to truly liberate herself from the shadows of her family. Her classmates admired her talent, regardless of her background, and her teachers gave her affirmation and guidance. In this warm environment, Ni Ping gradually put aside the depression in her heart and found a way to release herself.
For Ni Ping, acting is not only for fame and fortune, but also a process of self-discovery. What she loves is not the popular footage all over the country, but the opportunity to express herself on stage. The stage gave her spiritual healing and relief. With the success of her career, she continued to grow and learned to face the ups and downs of life with a more tolerant attitude.
For Ni Ping, art is not only a tool to escape from the past, but also a medicine for her self-redemption. Through her performances, she continues to explore her innermost emotions and desires, and finds her own value and meaning. In the light of her acting career, she gradually found her place and knew how to use her performance to inspire others, becoming an inspiration and role model in the hearts of many.
This upbringing gave Ni Ping the courage to persist in pursuing her dreams, and she proved herself through her own efforts and talents. The frustrations she experienced and the indifference of her family became the driving force for her to keep moving forward, and also inspired more young people who are interested in a career in the arts. Now, she is not only a superstar in the media world, but also an inspiring role model.
Many netizens have shared similar heart-wrenching experiences, lamenting that they have been neglected or treated unfairly in their families. These pains have left a deep imprint on their hearts and become knots that they cannot let go.
"The same, I hate it until now!" is a comment that represents the hearts of many people. They generally believe that parents should be fair and impartial in their treatment of their children and should not favor one over the other because of gender, age, or other reasons. This favoritism can have a huge impact on children's mental health and development, and can even have a profound impact on their future life paths.
This experience is not an isolated one. The feeling of being marginalized or ignored in the family is a childhood shadow shared by many people. This psychological damage can persist into adulthood, affecting their relationships, self-perception, and career choices. Therefore, paying attention to the needs and emotions of each child, and giving equal care and support is a crucial part of family education.
These resonances and cries are a reminder that the family environment has a profound impact on a person's growth trajectory. Treating each child with respect and equality is not only a reflection of parental responsibility, but also the cornerstone of a healthy and balanced growth.
When I was a child, it was always a little hard to understand: when I went to bed at night, my brother could sleep with my father, and my brother would share a bed with my mother, and they were all in the same room, and I had to sleep alone with my grandmother in the back room.
As I grew up, the chores at home, taking care of the livestock, boiling hot water, cooking and other heavy responsibilities always fell on my shoulders. I used to argue with them about why it was always me, but my mother said, "You're a girl, who will do it if you don't do this? What girl have you ever seen who doesn't do laundry and housework, and can still marry in the future?"
When I made mistakes, I was scolded harshly, and even called the three most vicious words: "bitch wife" - these hurtful memories still linger to this day, and every time I think about it, my mood will be gloomy. After a conflict with my younger brother, whether I was justified or not, my mother would always say, "You are the oldest, you shouldn't quarrel with the younger brother, he is still young, why did you beat him? We raised you so big for nothing, and we spoiled you."
These experiences filled me with disgust and thoughts of running away from my family. Whenever I recall these things, I can't help but feel sorry for myself back then, and sigh why I should treat a child so harshly. Now, she has become a mother and has decided not to have a second child, resolutely not to favor, and to give all her love to her child.
This unfair treatment in the family is part of many people's upbringing. What I am today is not only my own experience, but also a reflection on the past and a determination for the future. Now I know how to use my experience to educate my children that everyone should be treated with respect and treatment equally.
Modern society has moved away from the paradigm of relying solely on manual labor in the past. Rapid advances in technology, increased occupational diversity, and the spread of gender equality have brought gender equality closer to equality in social and family responsibilities.
Regrettably, patriarchal attitudes remain deeply ingrained in the minds of some people. This way of thinking is not simply right or wrong, as it involves a number of complex factors, including culture, education, and family background.
We must recognize that this bias not only harms women, but also limits men's development. It has led to tensions within the family, increased gender discrimination, and even a neglect of women's rights.
Awareness and efforts for gender equality are key to social progress. It's time to realize that everyone deserves equal opportunities and rights, whether in the workplace, at home or in society. Such changes will not only benefit women, but also bring greater development and prosperity to society as a whole.