Preamble:
Li Mengnan, an ordinary Henan boy, has an extraordinary life.
He has loved painting since he was a child, but the camera is firmly locked on his handsome face.
Married and had daughters, he seemed to have everything.
However, behind the sweetness of marriage, are there irreconcilable differences?
Born to stand at the center of the stage
Li Mengboy was born in Luoyang, Henan Province in 1969.
As the eldest son, he showed extraordinary talent from an early age, both in painting and acting.
Perhaps, this is the opportunity for him to stand in the spotlight.
Li Mengnan remembered for a long time, and began to paint when he was 3 years old, and all the animals and birds he painted were lifelike.
When he was 6 years old, a troupe came to the village, and the people in colorful clothes on the stage performed the Peking Opera "The Drunken Concubine".
Li Mengnan sat in the front row blankly, watching the play intently.
After the play, he excitedly said to his mother: "Mom, I want to wear such beautiful clothes and sing when I grow up!"
Mother just smiled, how could she have thought that this idiot boy would really go on stage.
Li Mengnan could have chosen secondary school art, but after all, he still chose his long-favorite Chinese opera.
Now he has long been famous in the entertainment industry, but his choice back then was controversial.
His mother wanted him to go to art school and become a painter.
Although Li Mengnan also loves painting, he has a greater desire to perform.
I still remember those difficult days and nights, Li Mengnan tossed and turned, and his mother's expectations and his dreams fought fiercely in his heart.
"Son, go to the art college, and in the future you will be able to support yourself by painting.
The road to performance is difficult, and my mother is afraid that you will suffer. The mother repeatedly persuaded her.
Li Mengnan was also very sad, he knew his mother's hardships and didn't want her to worry about it anymore.
However, the desire to chase the stage was so strong that it tortured him almost crazy.
After many persuasions from his family, Li Mengnan resolutely chose the path he loved.
He believes that the path of his dreams, although difficult, will eventually lead him to the light.
After entering the school, Li Mengnan studied Xi diligently, and did not forget to scribble.
His works have been frequently selected for school exhibitions, and painting teachers have praised him as a genius.
But Li Mengnan knows that his talent is still more inclined to acting.
Every time after school, Li Mengnan immediately rushed to the drama club.
In order to hone his acting skills, he played almost all kinds of characters in the play.
The classmates also came to see his performance, and they were all attracted by Li Mengnan's charm.
As soon as the professional class was over, he couldn't wait to run to experience different stage roles.
After graduation, Li Mengnan successfully joined the National Theatre and began his acting career.
One life, two luck and three feng shui, he is inseparable from the stage
Li Mengnan, who is in his early 20s, has a booming acting career.
The success of the drama "My Father, My Dad" was not only the peak of his acting career, but also made him emerge as a playwright and director.
In the play, he plays the role of "I", which perfectly interprets family ethics and human nature.
The entire theater world was impressed.
However, the good times did not last long, and during a drama shooting, Li Mengnan accidentally fell from his horse and was seriously injured.
Everyone in the crew nervously went to visit.
Li Mengnan forced a smile on the bed through pain, he didn't want them to worry.
"You better stop filming and get some rest. The director persuaded him to leave the crew for treatment.
Li Mengnan hesitated, he couldn't bear to give up halfway, and he couldn't bear to let everyone's efforts go to waste.
Gritting his teeth, Li Mengnan insisted on completing the filming of the last scene, and then reluctantly entered the hospital.
Lying on the hospital bed, Li Mengnan looked at the ceiling and was distracted.
He was so stubborn, like when his mother woke him up when he was a child, he always sat there in a daze and took a nap.
Li Mengnan knows that just like when he was a child, he would always wake up at the urging of his mother, and he would soon return to the stage this time.
He couldn't help but think of a moment when he was a child......
That year, Li Mengnan was 10 years old, and Henan was in the scorching heat.
Mother got up early and went to work greedily at night, and Li Mengnan and his two younger brothers could only take care of themselves.
Every day, the mother woke up the three brothers, first dressed the eldest son Li Mengnan, and then went to dress the younger brothers.
Li Mengnan, who was in a daze, got dressed and sat there and took a nap.
When his mother came back, she patted him and he came to his senses.
Years later, he's still like this – he opens his eyes and starts waking people up.
The most beautiful encounter is in the crowd
After being discharged from the hospital, Li Mengnan still has a successful career, but his heart is empty.
In fact, Li Mengnan has always had a knot, and he always thinks that it is his choice that makes his mother worry about it.
Whenever he thought of his mother's tired face, Li Mengnan blamed himself very much.
Until one day, at a party, Li Mengnan met Wang Qing.
The petite and delicate Wang Qing is an actor who graduated from Beiying, 10 years younger than Li Mengnan.
After falling in love at first sight, the two began dating.
Wang Qing was born in an artistic family, with a gentle personality, and Li Meng's male personality is very different but very compatible.
One day, the two were strolling on the street, and Li Mengnan took a fancy to a delicate teacup.
"This cup is good, do you want to buy it?" Li Mengnan was about to buy it immediately.
Wang Qing hesitated: "It's so expensive, I'll think about it again." ”
Li Mengnan was a little puzzled, since he liked it, why hesitate? Without thinking too much, he bought it directly.
It turned out that Wang Qing was naturally preoccupied, and every time she consumed, she had to compare carefully, and she didn't dare to spend money easily.
And Li Mengnan was so direct and generous, which made her a little surprised.
But after thinking about it, Li Mengnan was expressing his sincerity, and Wang Qing was also moved and learned to accept this straightforwardness.
This has also become a portrayal of the different personalities of the two.
Wang Qing has a gentle and introverted personality, and every time Li Mengnan warmly invites, she always has to think twice.
She was worried that Li Mengnan's time would be delayed, or that the two people did not agree on the same ideas, so she made a promise on the spur of the moment to hurt each other.
The anxious Li Mengnan didn't like her hesitation, but he could only wait patiently for her to figure it out.
In fact, he also understands that Wang Qing's delicate and thoughtful personality is what he appreciates.
Perhaps, it is the two people with very different personalities who are more attractive.
Contradictions arise, but also tolerance and understanding
However, the different personalities also make the two often run in.
Wang Qing likes to sleep lazily, but Li Mengnan is willing to get up early.
Every day when he opened his eyes, he went to call Wang Qing, and Wang Qing would turn over and ignore him.
Li Mengnan had no choice but to brush his teeth and wash his face, then doze off on the sofa, and wait for Wang Qing to wake up naturally.
"Why are you still asleep when you wake up?" Wang Qing couldn't help but blame him.
Li Mengnan smiled indifferently, he said that he had been like this since he was a child, and he couldn't sleep enough to make up for sleep.
Wang Qing was also amused by him when he saw that he was halfway through a pair of pants when he jumped downstairs.
She remembered that her mother used to say that he was so anxious, but she felt that Li Mengnan was more cute.
No matter how different there is a disagreement between husband and wife, it is still mutual understanding after all.
Li Mengnan doesn't like to brush his teeth, so Wang Qing squeezed toothpaste to lure him.
She worries about her husband's teeth and tries to make him fall in love with brushing his teeth.
And Li Mengnan will also listen patiently to his wife's nagging, he knows that it is all out of concern for himself.
Li Mengnan was strict with his daughter to get up early, so Wang Qing persuaded him to be more tolerant.
She was worried that her daughter would not be able to withstand too much pressure.
Although Li Mengnan didn't agree, he would also think about his daughter and try to treat her gently.
Even if there are occasional quarrels, in the face of love, the two have learned to give in.
Because they know that to love someone is to embrace all her strengths and weaknesses.
Marriage is sweet and life is happy
has been married for many years, Li Mengnan and Wang Qing's life is still sweet and happy.
The two work together in the entertainment industry, each has their own careers, and they never delay the time they stay together.
Li Mengnan took care of Wang Qing wholeheartedly, and Wang Qing also learned to be considerate of her husband's little temper.
Even if Li Mengnan goes out filming, he always misses his wife and daughter.
In between hours, I made a video call home to make my daughter happy.
Wang Qing knows the importance of work to her husband and never asks too much for companionship.
She believes that strong relationships can stand the test of time and space.
When Wang Qing was pregnant, Li Mengnan rushed home desperately to stay by her side.
Wang Qing understood her husband's difficulties and repeatedly persuaded him to film, but Li Mengnan just couldn't rest assured.
He always had to hold her hand when he walked, for fear that one of them would accidentally fall.
When shopping, he will also carefully help her choose clothes that fit, and then pay the bill.
Caring for his wife in every detail.
After the birth of their daughter, the two were even more busy and accompanied their daughter to grow up.
Li Mengnan used a children's song composed by himself to coax his daughter to sleep, and then told her a bedtime story.
The daughter was sleepy and fell asleep in her father's arms.
Li Mengnan stroked his daughter's soft hair, and his heart was full of warmth.
Today, the gray-haired Li Mengnan is over half a hundred years old.
What the years can't erase is his deep love for this home.
Even when he's busy, he tries to make time for his family.
Laughing with his wife and daughter, cooking food, every moment is the joy of life.
Looking out the window, the sun was just right, at this moment, Li Mengnan's heart was full of emotion and warmth.
There are too many unpredictable ups and downs on the road of life.
But with love in the heart, it may be enough to support everything.
The story of Li Mengnan and Wang Qing may be the best annotation.
No matter what the road ahead holds, happiness is already in the palm of your hand.
Epilogue:
The story of Li Mengnan and Wang Qing came to a successful end.
The two people who were on opposite sides of the world and had different personalities back then have turned their rivalry into jade silk and spent a good time together.
There will inevitably be stumbles on the road to marriage, but they have both learned to tolerate, understand, and compromise.
It is precisely because of the knowledge of concessions that this relationship can become more and more long-lasting and invisible.
What has been precipitated over the years is the unbreakable bond of this family of three.
The growth of her daughter also made Li Mengnan and Wang Qing more satisfied.
No matter what ups and downs the future will encounter, they will go hand in hand to witness the beauty and ugliness, light and darkness of this world.