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In today's society, many people have their ideal objects in mind.
For girls, many people think that finding a boy with better conditions than themselves is the best choice, because they can enjoy a better life and more preferential treatment. However, there are also some girls who choose boys who are worse than them. Why is that?
First of all, we need to make it clear that the criteria for girls to find a boyfriend are varied, and not necessarily material conditions are the main consideration.
Some girls value the inner qualities and character traits of a boy more than his economic strength.
For example, a girl friend of mine, she often chats with me and says that her favorite boy is an ordinary working-class boy.
Although his financial situation is not very good, he has a kind heart, is hospitable to people, and is very responsible, which makes her admire him very much. Therefore, for such girls, the economic conditions of the boys are not the most important consideration.
Secondly, some girls choose boys with worse conditions than themselves because they cherish their feelings for each other more.
There is a girl next to her, she and her boyfriend were classmates in college, and the two met on campus and started a sweet relationship.
But after graduation, the boy's economic conditions are not very good, while the girl's family conditions are better than his. Faced with this situation, many girls will choose to give up this relationship and find a better partner. But the girl chose to stay because she felt that her boyfriend was very responsible and very good to her.
Although the living conditions are a little tight, the two work together, support each other, and get through many difficult moments together. Now, they have been married for many years and their relationship is very stable and happy. Therefore, some girls choose boys with worse conditions than themselves, not because they do not pursue a better life, but because they cherish each other's feelings more and are willing to face the challenges of life together.
Finally, some girls choose boys who are worse qualified than themselves because they are more self-motivated.
One of my classmates, her boyfriend's family was not good since he was a child, but he was very self-motivated, worked hard to study Xi, and through his own efforts, he was successfully admitted to a good university.
Although his family conditions did not improve because of this, he did not give up and continued to work hard to study Xi and work hard to create a better life for himself and his girlfriend. Such a boy made his girlfriend deeply admired and in awe. Therefore, some girls choose boys with worse conditions than themselves, not because they are not self-motivated, but because they are more self-motivated and enterprising.
Above, why girls choose boys with worse conditions than themselves is a complex issue, and it is not just purely material factors at work.
The standards and considerations are different for each girl, some girls value the inner qualities and character traits of boys more, some girls cherish each other's feelings more, and some girls appreciate boys' self-motivation and enterprising spirit more.
In either case, we need to work together to create a better life with each other's efforts and support.