Allowing children to learn well, have activities they love, and follow lifelong interests is a precious gift from parents to their children!
There are second-grade boys in the family, and their biggest hobbies are building toys and origami.
From the age of four when I first came into contact with assembling toys, I couldn't put it down. At that time, I thought he was still young, and he couldn't understand the drawings of the assembly, but when he got his hands on it, it was really beyond our expectations, and with the simple help of his father, a small tank was successfully assembled! The child was very happy, and since then he has embarked on the road of assembly.
I bought all kinds of assembling toys at home one by one, and he put them together one by one, and I found a problem when he was interested.
When the child encounters difficulties in the assembly process, he will lose his temper, cry, and do not ask the adult to help. That's what we said, I didn't know how to face the setback, so I began to try to tell him, it doesn't matter if I can't spell well, it's really difficult, my mother can't even read the drawings, why don't you teach me, and then we study how to spell together? The child began to accept help slowly, and slowly learned how to solve difficulties, how to reconcile with himself, and lost his temper a lot less. The assembling toys have also changed from simple to complex, and the child has slowly grown up!
After he entered elementary school, he had a second hobby, which was origami. At first, I watched the video folding, and later I bought a book of origami to fold according to it. This time, he no longer has a tantrum, although he will not fold when he will be frustrated, but more of a sense of accomplishment after a successful fold!
I didn't stop him from doing these hobbies, and in the case of completing his homework, he could arrange his hobbies at will. These hobbies bring him not only small works, but also more process enjoyment and the joy of success. Children will sit there quietly and assemble and fold paper, which can be regarded as the cultivation of patience!
一定要让孩子有一个自己的爱好，这种爱好不是父母报的兴趣班，而是孩子发自内心喜欢的爱好。
如果你的孩子有那么一两个看似无关学习的爱好，请用心守护，尊重孩子。 This hobby may be a way for children to release and express their emotions, so that children can have sustenance when they are bored and strength when they are frustrated!
心中有热爱的孩子会自己奔跑！
成长不止书包和作业，还有诗和远方！