Recently, Xu Qing has once again been on the hot search because of her figure!
Many netizens sighed and envied that Xu Qing was 54 years old and still in her early 20s.
But I didn't expect someone to catch the keywords "54-year-old woman", "single", and "what to do if you have physiological needs" to evaluate women.
However, her answer is really textbook!
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This question is not the first time Xu Qing has been asked.
I still remember that in an interview, the host asked directly:
"If you haven't been in love for so long, won't you have physiological needs?"
Her answer is really exciting:
"This question should be asked to the boys?
Women are not the same as men! Men can be with a woman for their physical needs, and the state of women is just the opposite.
Unless you meet someone you like, you will have physiological needs. ”
I don't know when it began, it will never be her achievements and career that older women will be paid attention to.
Xu Qing, born in Beijing on January 22, 1969, was admitted to the undergraduate class of the Performance Department of Beijing Film Academy in 1988.
Key Achievements:
won the Best Actress Award at the 33rd Popular Film Hundred Flowers Awards for the movie "Lao Paoer". In the same year, she won the Best Actress Award at the 12th Chinese American Film Festival
In 2017, he was elected as a judge of the main competition unit of the "Golden Goblet Award" at the 20th Shanghai International Film Festival.
In 2018, she starred in the movie "Evil Does Not Prevail Over Justice" and was nominated for Best Supporting Actress at the 55th Taiwan Golden Horse Awards.
The 18th Huading Award for Best Film Actress in China, and the 10th Huading Award for Best Female Drama Actor.
Best Supporting Actress at the Hundred Flowers Award for Popular Films, Best Supporting Actress at the Macao International Film Festival.
China Film Performing Arts Society Award, China TV Golden Eagle Award Audience's Favorite Actress......
However, every time I was interviewed, the most asked was:
"Old, single, not in love, how to solve the physiological needs?"
I have to say, it's really a bit ironic and ridiculous.
As netizens said:
"It's her right to choose her own lifestyle, and outsiders are too lenient. ”
Coincidentally.
Actor Qin Lan was also scolded on the hot search because of a sentence.
The reason is that when she was interviewing, she was asked why she didn't get married and have children at such an old age?
She chose to reply domineeringly:
"My uterus is not used, what does it matter to you?"
As soon as these words came out, the comment area immediately set off a bloody storm, denouncing unmarried and infertile women:
"There is a womb, and you don't reproduce?"
"There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great!"
"I don't know if the uterus is used, but the vagina must be used ......"
There are even people who blatantly carry out "slut shaming" on women!
Sure enough, the world is cruel, even more so to women.
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Yang Liping, the world's top artist, has not escaped being "sniped".
Originally, people were both talented and beautiful, and they lived a chic and comfortable life, but they were ridiculed by the group because they had no children under their knees, "A woman's biggest failure is that she has no children".
What's even more puzzling is that this comment received tens of thousands of likes and support in an instant.
This kind of almost harsh and unreasonable evaluation of women may be late, but it is never absent.
Earlier, a video of an interview between Yu Feihong and Feng Tang and Dou Wentao became popular on the Internet.
In response to Yu Feihong's single life, the two men not only did not show respect and understanding, but also unilaterally aggressive:
Do you think that you are mentally normal when you are old and alone?
You've always been single, do you have an understanding with your parents?
What do you think you think about sex?
We have to think of Yu Feihong's personal tragedy to thousands of tragedies in the world.
Even if they are highly educated and have a high social status, it does not prevent them from wearing tinted glasses and rightfully attacking single women.
In the eyes of them, and even many people, "right-aged" unmarried and childless women are outliers, even sinners, who need the forgiveness of their families and society.
Although Yu Feihong gave a wonderful answer in the end, the current plight of single women is far from being solved in a few words.
Not long ago, Xiang Tai exposed Guo Biting and Xiang Zuo's luxury wedding room worth 160 million, which sparked heated discussions.
In the comments, someone ridiculed Guo Biting:
"Reduced to a fertility machine, the mother is poor and the daughter is expensive, it's too miserable!"
Some people also questioned: Marrying into a wealthy family, is her life considered a success?
Before marriage, she was a strong independent woman, but after marriage, she became a vase that was "kidnapped by a wealthy family" in the mouth of others.
Although we have no right to point out, whether it is or not.
But behind this marriage, there is a more serious problem that we need to reflect on:
How hard is it for women to live their own lives?
In the TV series "Who Said I Can't Get Married", Tian Lei, an elite female lawyer played by Chen Shu, once questioned the value of women at the dinner table.
The father's answer was suffocatingly true:
Isn't it true that a woman should have children and take care of her family?
Did I give birth to you to be angry with me?
I don't know when it began, when a woman got married at the right age was to follow nature, and a woman's physiology determined that she wanted to become a fertility machine.
Traditional shackles and villains instigated these two huge mountains, almost all unmarried and unpregnant women are breathless.
Anne appealed:
It's time to change this kind of "dross" thinking!
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Never talk about marriage and childbearing as an achievement for women.
Women shouldn't be defined that way.
"I was born a mountain and not a stream, and I want to look down on the mediocre ravines from the top of the peaks.
I was born to be a man and not a mustard, and I stood among the great men and despised the lowly cowards. ”
This is the declaration of the students of Huaping Girls' High School, and it is the ambition of Principal Zhang Guimei for women in the new era.
It is also the glorious female image that Anne looks forward to and yearns for.
As an ordinary person, a woman or a man, every step we take on the road to equal rights is actually changing this society little by little.
So, be gentle with women.
Whether you are single, married or have children, it is just a choice, and no one is superior to the other.
As a parent, it is really for her to let the child choose by herself; as a partner, you should realize that the family is a joint responsibility, not a full push to the other half; as a stranger, we have no position to accuse Qin Lan, Xu Qing or even any woman of the "right to use the uterus";
Whether it is a family or a workplace, the real way to break through the predicament is never to criticize each other, but to understand and respect each other.
More kindness, less blame, so that every girl has the courage and freedom to choose her own life!
We pursue the rise of female power, not to intensify the antagonism between men and women, but to let more people know:
Only by facing up to the value of women can we better embrace equal rights. #实话实说#