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Text: Lin Xiaoqin
Editor: Lin Xiaoqin
Preface
Do you remember the goddess who once shone and shone on the screen?
Her beauty led to countless reveries back then, and her love history was passed down by word of mouth and opinions.
Now, that enigmatic woman is over half a hundred years old, where will her life trajectory lead?
Let's look at her past, and we may be able to get a glimpse of a woman's persistent pursuit of freedom and love.
Love hurts naturally in the depths
In the face of a bizarre world, Xu Qing in her teenage years is destined to be extraordinary.
Ancestral family in the military and diplomatic family, she was born decent, and she played the role of Taishang Laojun's little Taoist child, she has been in and out of the film and television crew since she was a child, and has also become a light behind the scenes.
However, this light was soon ignited by the flame of her first love, opening a chapter in her love path.
Xu Qing, who fell in love, is full of beautiful yearning for the future, but she doesn't know that this unrequited love is destined to be a beginning, and bitterness is the main theme.
In 1988, 17-year-old Xu Qing applied for the Beiying exam without hesitation for a belated beauty, regardless of the opposition of her family.
She thought that through the new direction of her studies, she would be able to get along with the ordinary employee in the crew day and night, hand in hand, and heart-to-heart.
But under the ruthless blow of reality, the immature love ended without a problem, looking back, the days and nights of wishful thinking were like a handful of dog blood that had been splashed, miserable and ridiculous.
The original intention has passed away, and the red dust is the companion
As everyone knows, this youthful love was covered up by the peachy news of the predecessors.
In his sophomore year, Chen Kaige was born, and the director fell in love with this pure and beautiful girl at first sight, and the two fell in love with each other during the filming of "Singing While Walking".
This is a happy thing, but who would have expected that Chen Kaige would be so unkind and unkind, and he didn't even pay attention to his wife Hong Huang?
Chen Kaige's infatuation with Xu Qing was very warm, but the ruthless reality soon poured cold water on the "love" of the two.
Soon, Chen left Hong Huang behind and became entangled with Xu Qing.
However, just when Xu Qing thought that he was embracing happiness again, Chen Kaige went to live with Ni Ping again! Poor Xu Qing was abandoned in the abyss of love with her own hands, lonely and desolate, like a ridiculous burden.
The red dust is disturbed, and the love is thousands
In this way, Xu Qing, who has been dubbed by the world as "chaotic love history", is destined to fall deeper and deeper in the red dust.
Soon after leaving Chen Kaige, she became entangled with the peach-colored scandals of You Yong and Wang Zhiwen, which made her love path more and more confusing, making it difficult for people to see the true appearance of her heart.
Do you treat every relationship with sincerity, or do you just want to seek comfort and solace?
The red dust is rolling, people are mixed, and only she knows the corner of Xu Qing's heart.
In those difficult years, love was both redemption and torture for Xu Qing, but in the end, she still couldn't escape from the troubles and fetters of this world.
It wasn't until she was 29 years old that she met the man she once regarded as her "lifelong partner" - the rich Liu Bo.
Everything seems to be a comedy at the beginning, and this pair of lovers who are in love with each other are bound to work together to reach the pinnacle of life, but who would have expected that this vigorous love would come to an abrupt end in 2003?
Fate is ruthless, and Xu Qing has become the "third party" in Liu Bo's marriage.
For the sake of the "true love" of the two, Liu Bo's wife had to quit willingly.
But just when Xu Qing thought that she was finally waiting for the opportunity to grow old together, reality hit her ruthlessly again.
At that time, Liu Bo's business failed and he had to abscond after owing hundreds of millions of dollars, Xu Qing not only failed to achieve happiness, but endured the criticism and ridicule of others alone.
What made her even more heartbroken was the news that Liu Bo was wandering and finally died alone.
This person she thought would be the most important person in her life, but at the last moment, she had no chance to give her a home and children, which was undoubtedly the heaviest blow to this woman.
Youthful youth, thousands of postures
After the injury, Xu Qing did not linger for too long, she devoted all her energy to her career, from Ren Yingying to Song Qingling, she controlled a variety of different roles.
Whether she is a lively girl or a majestic woman, she can always be at her fingertips, and she has won countless praises.
This period of thousands of years is like a gorgeous dressage ball, which makes Xu Qing taste the sweetness of glory.
When she was in her prime, she was sexy and charming in Feng Xiaogang's "Lao Paoer", and fascinated Liao Fan, Peng Yuyan and others.
In "Evil Defeats Justice", she even deduced the image of a charming and sultry woman, which made the audience full of praise for her charm.
It's a pity that she was at the peak of her career at that time, but no one can really go into her heart and share the joy of life.
The world still judges whether she is "coquettish" and "debauched", but she never responds, just silently beautiful and elegant.
This silence, I don't know whether it is a kind of arrogance or a reserve, or a declaration of pride and self-esteem, only she knows best.
But in any case, every woman should pay for her own lifestyle, and I believe Xu Qing has her own reasons.
When people reach middle age, they still cherish it
Over the years, the "little wild horse" that has led to countless reveries has gradually moved towards the last part of its life.
Now 54 years old, she is still single, and she doesn't seem to have found her real "him".
However, at this stage, Xu Qing seems to be very calm about her lifestyle choice.
But just when everyone thought that she had completely moved away from emotional turmoil and lived a quiet and peaceful life, the recording of a reality show made her peaceful life make waves again.
No one knows, is this just an unintentional game, or her last struggle and stubborn cry for love? In any case, this drama has indeed caused a lot of uproar at the moment.
Genuinely ambiguous and suspicious
On that stage, Xu Qing was not only intimate with the popular singer Hua Chenyu, but the interaction between the two was like a pair of real lovers.
For example, the crew arranged for her to live in the same room with Hua Chenyu, and Hua Chenyu ran directly into her bedroom after getting drunk, and once lay on her bed.
In the face of this intimate picture, anyone will have reverie and suspicion about the relationship between the two.
Moreover, just being like this with Hua Chenyu is already eye-catching enough, unexpectedly, Xu Qing also staged a drama of "sister and brother love" with Zhang Han and Jing Boran.
During the recording of the show, she affectionately called Zhang Han the word "Han", and Zhang Han also looked at her sweetly, and the two seemed to be a pair of enviable lovers.
What's even more staggering is the scene where she is close to and cares for Jing Boran in the show, if someone else is present, she will definitely regard this as a provocative behavior.
This beautiful scene made the outside world have countless suspicions about whether the relationship between her and these little fresh meat has crossed the line.
However, regardless of whether there is a feeling in her heart that goes beyond friendship, as a woman, Xu Qing obviously knows how to cherish her freedom.
This was evident in her youth.
Independent and free, life at ease
Now, 54-year-old Xu Qing has passed the peak of her prime.
But she still lives the life she wants to live, not trapped by reality, nor bound by marriage.
She can be elegant and independent, but she can also be very pretentious.
For this hard-won freedom, she obviously cherishes it more than anyone else.
I have to say, what kind of ups and downs has this woman who has been haunted by countless peach-colored scandals experience?
How did she get through those difficult years?
Perhaps, it is precisely because she has experienced too many pains and twists and turns that she is so obsessed with gaining the last freedom.
After all, in many cases, independence is far more likely to bring happiness and joy than being attached.
So no matter what the outside world says, Xu Qing can still live a calm and comfortable life, and this confidence and calmness come from her independent control of life.
epilogue
Some people say that a woman always has to go through several relationships in her life, and a few men can be considered complete.
For Xu Qing, she has indeed no regrets.
What if she is single now? She still lives a nourishing and free life.
On the road of life, everyone will encounter some forks in the road, and how to choose often determines the direction.
If Xu Qing's choice back then made her current life a little duller, but the price of freedom and independence, how could she regret it?
This is probably a portrayal of a woman born for love, but ultimately lives for freedom.