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Text: Lin Xiaoqin
Editor: Lin Xiaoqin
Preface
What kind of woman is she? dare to love and hate, dare to pursue herself, but she is also controversial.
42-year-old Song Jia has a successful acting career, but her love life is full of ups and downs.
What does her life experience want to tell us? Let's walk into this complex and real Song Jia together.
Liuqin Girl embarks on the road of acting
In 1988, eight-year-old Song Jia began to learn liuqin.
The father wanted his daughter to become a lady with outstanding temperament, so he sent her to the door of the famous Yueqin player Feng Shaoxian.
Although the process of practicing the piano is boring and boring, Song Jia is lively and active, and often sneaks away.
However, under the careful guidance of Teacher Feng, she still practiced hard and her piano skills became more and more sophisticated.
Song Jia's musical talent opened the door to her dream.
She was successfully admitted to the Shenyang Conservatory of Music, and her piano skills were outstanding during her time in school.
By chance, senior sister Fan Zhibo returned to her alma mater, she was keenly aware of Song Jia's unique temperament, and suggested that she try the road of acting.
Fan Zhibo enthusiastically introduced his alma mater, Shanghai Theater Academy, and encouraged Song Jia to apply for the exam.
Song Jia, who has the dream of being an actor, never thought of giving up this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity.
She secretly made up her mind that she must be admitted to the drama school.
At the registration site, Song Jia carefully filled out the form and carefully prepared for the exam.
With solid basic skills and outstanding expressiveness, she was finally admitted to the university of her dreams.
Campus life, the first experience of love
The life in the drama is rich and colorful, but for Song Jia, who has just entered the school, everything is a new challenge.
The daily physical training was boring and boring, and Song Jia was often bedridden and was almost expelled from school.
Thanks to the repeated guarantees of her teachers, she was able to stay in school.
Song Jia deeply felt the grace of the teacher's teachings, and secretly vowed to study hard and live up to the expectations of the teacher.
During the play, Song Jia got to know many excellent classmates, including her senior brother Chen Long.
At that time, Chen Long was already famous, and with his handsome appearance, he became a hot student on the screen.
When collaborating on "Hibiscus Out of the Water", Chen Long had a good impression of this youthful junior sister.
In order to help Song Jia better understand the role, Chen Long often practiced for her after rehearsals, and in order to take care of her diet and daily life, he often picked up Song Jia.
Song Jia also gradually developed feelings for this considerate senior brother.
As a typical Northeast girl, she has a straightforward personality and will fight for it if she likes it.
After a dinner, Song Jia took the initiative to confess to Chen Long, and the two officially established their relationship.
However, beautiful love has been tested by a career.
Wang Jinghua, a well-known agent in Beijing, extended an olive branch to Song Jia, hoping that she would come to Beijing for development.
This is undoubtedly a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for Song Jia, but Chen Long wants to stay in Shanghai.
Faced with the choice between career and love, Song Jia did not hesitate at all, she chose the former and resolutely embarked on the road to the north.
Opportunities and challenges in the career of Beipiao
Song Jia, who first arrived in Beijing, devoted herself to the pursuit of her career with great longing.
However, the reality is far harsher than imagined.
Just because you're good-looking and online doesn't mean you'll be able to gain a foothold in this metropolis.
Song Jia ran all over the crews, large and small, but she was never able to get the favor of the director.
Repeatedly hitting a wall made her begin to doubt her decision, and even wanted to give up at one point.
But the stubbornness in her bones made her grit her teeth and persevere, vowing to break out of this circle.
The hard work pays off.
Two years later, under the recommendation of her friend Tong Dawei, Song Jia got acquainted with Wang Jinghua, which opened a breakthrough in her career.
She starred in works such as "Curiosity Kills Cats" and "Once Upon a Time in China", and gradually emerged in the industry.
Especially in "Curiosity Kills the Cat", the shampoo girl played by Song Jia made the audience's eyes shine with her hot body and three-point acting skills.
partner's Hu Jun also secretly promised this sexy actress that the two fell in love because of the play and staged a crew scandal.
Zhang Li Zhang Li "Little Three" turmoil
In 2007, Song Jia took over the filming of "Once Upon a Time in China" directed by Zhang Li.
This drama not only opened a new chapter in her career, but also left a heavy mark in her emotional life.
The 27-year-old Song Jia is at a prime age and is beautiful and moving, and the 50-year-old Zhang Li is a hot gold medal director in the entertainment industry.
The two became acquainted with each other because of the drama and soon fell in love.
Zhang Li doted on Song Jia, not only adding drama to her in the script, but also pouring a lot of time and energy into life.
In this relationship, Song Jia was completely conquered by Zhang Li's talent and charm.
However, this seemingly sweet relationship was exposed under the lens of the media.
It turned out that Zhang Li was a married man, and his wife was actor Liu Bei.
As soon as the news came out, public opinion was in an uproar, and Song Jia was pushed to the forefront of the "little three".
In the face of overwhelming condemnation, she took it calmly and bluntly said, "If you love, you love, what can you do".
In the end, Zhang Li and Liu Bei divorced, and Song Jia moved into Zhang Li's mansion openly and honestly and began a five-year cohabitation life.
However, to the surprise of the outside world, when Zhang Li proposed to get married five years later, Song Jia immediately chose to break up.
Perhaps, for this rational and resolute woman, no matter how beautiful love is, it can't compete with inner independence and self-esteem.
She can't accept being Zhang Li's "sixth wife", and she is even more unwilling to settle for a mediocre marriage.
In this way, this vigorous love affair finally ended in a breakup.
Scandals continue and the future is uncertain
After the breakup, Song Jia did not stop there, but appeared in the whirlpool of scandals more frequently.
She first had an affair with the music genius Xie Tianxiao, and the two showed their affection in a variety show.
Xie Tianxiao even wrote songs and music for her to show her love.
However, Xie Tianxiao is also a married man, and his wife is even more spicy.
In the face of his wife's public attack, Song Jia did not show weakness and confronted him on the Internet.
However, at this time, she had already lost the support of the people, and netizens scolded her as a "fox spirit" and a "salted fish-flavored junior", which made Song Jia fall into verbal criticism again.
After that, Song Jia fell in love with music producer Huang Shaofeng.
Huang Shaofeng doted on her, not only wrote songs for her, but also cared for her on major occasions.
The relationship lasted for seven years, however, it did not come to fruition in the end.
Some people speculate that perhaps it was because Huang Shaofeng was unable to help Song Jia in his career that this relationship broke down.
The screen is back and reborn
After experiencing the ups and downs of her relationship, Song Jia readjusted her mentality in 2013 and returned to the screen.
However, at this time, she was already past her best years, and her career was not all smooth sailing.
In works such as "Lu Yao Zhi Ma Li" and "Master", she collided with popular flowers such as Tang Wei and Ni Ni in roles one after another, and it was inevitable that she would be compared.
Faced with the trough of her career, Song Jia was not discouraged, but began to try to transform.
She shows off her androgynous style, openly supports women, and even rumors that she is going to enter the Ji circle.
Perhaps, after experiencing emotional trauma, she was completely disappointed in men and determined to rely on the power of women to find herself again.
Just when everyone thought that Song Jia would fade out, she made a stunning appearance again in 2016's "Lu Yao Zhi Ma Li".
At the age of 42, she is no longer the ignorant girl she was back then, but an intellectual woman who is free and honest and lives her own life.
epilogue
Song Jia's life is like a legend of ups and downs.
She used the most authentic way to interpret what it means to "life is like a play, and drama is like life".
Love, career, self, she has been lost, and she has also pursued.
She dares to love and hate, she has the courage to face her heart, she is a maverick and does not follow the crowd, she has fallen to the bottom, but she can finally be reborn.
She used her own way to live a different kind of wonderful life.
She told us that there is no standard answer in life, and the important thing is to never give up and be brave enough to go out of your own way.
42-year-old Song Jia may still be waiting for the other half of her life, but she understands that love is not everything, and finding an independent and confident self is the true meaning of life.
I hope that all confused souls can draw the courage to move forward from Song Jia's experience.
If you are born as a human being, face yourself sincerely, and embrace life without shame, you will have no regrets.