On December 26, rumors of Lu Yu & Ayunga relationship were exposed.
In the paparazzi video, the two were photographed riding in the same car and entering the same unit in the same community.
Later, the two were also stripped of the same leather jacket, belt, bag, and T-shirt...... Even with the same staff, the credibility skyrocketed.
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In fact, this rumor was rumored as early as four years ago, but the person concerned chose to deny and clarify it at that time.
This scandal is quite magical to talk about in detail.
In terms of setting, the 19-year-old age difference between the two and the status gap in the circle are completely the public's favorite "sister dog flavor".
But in fact, it doesn't seem to be that good.
——The reason is in Luyu.
In the public's long-term cognition, she does not have such a strong sense of elite womanhood, but has long carried labels such as "head circumference is inversely proportional to double business".
A female star who was regarded as a "stupid dog" fell in love with a sister dog, which was unexpected by the public.
And it was this accident that aroused my curiosity about Lu Yu even more.
Why is she so dumbfounded in the eyes of the public, but she has become a faulty woman in your circle?
Many people actually don't realize Lu Yu's status and influence in the entertainment industry.
In 1992, Chen Luyu, who had not yet graduated from university, had already entered CCTV, two years later than Ni Ping and ten years earlier than Dong Qing. Judging from her qualifications, she can be regarded as a senior in the hosting industry.
She hosted the first program "Art Garden Landscape" on CCTV
What creates the status of the host is not only the length of the career line, but also the resume and connections.
Since joining Phoenix Satellite TV in 1996, Chen Luyu has handled a series of world-class news events in the 90s, from the return of Hong Kong, the US presidential election to the death of Princess Diana, she has participated in the reporting as a "pillar".
These resumes have allowed her to reach considerable heights in the first few years of her career, and they are enough to leave a mark in the history of television.
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As for the network, naturally I have to mention "Luyu Appointment", which was launched in the millennium.
After expanding the focus of his career from social events to the entertainment industry, Chen Luyu slowly became one of the most influential hosts in China.
Many people have the impression that she has offended many people.
But U1S1, the characters she can offend, many hosts may not have had the opportunity to visit in their lives, and they are often the top in the industry.
Even outside the entertainment industry, from business tycoons such as Wang Jianlin and Xiang Huaqiang, to giants from all walks of life such as Yuan Longping and Xu Yuanchong, they have all been invited to her show.
To a certain extent, whether Chen Luyu has been offended has become a symbol of the status of this circle.
Moreover, these celebrities are not just selling face to an ace show and a well-known host.
Dong Mingzhu hugged and held hands with her, like a best friend.
Liang Anqi, the fourth wife of the gambling king, led her into the mansion to make dumplings with her family, and she didn't treat her as an outsider at all.
Xiang Huaqiang's side is even more exaggerated.
When Xiang Tai brought Chen Luyu into the bedroom to visit, he saw a whole box of finely numbered CDs in front of the TV.
These are all copies of previous episodes of "A Date with Luyu".
Chen Luyu is almost a mystery in this world.
Those embarrassing scenes of interviews that are still circulating in the market today almost confirm her image of being both low in business.
But in Vanity Fair, which is the most test of humanity and wisdom, not only did she not show any discomfort, but she was more comfortable than most people.
There are two possible causes for this phenomenon.
One is that Chen Luyu may really not have a bright brain, but based on her influence, she has become a natural mouthpiece that is easy to use, so the whole circle has wooed her.
It's just that this can't explain the respect that some high-ranking people have for her, because just using a person doesn't need to play so hard.
On the other hand, she may have some kind of wisdom that is not known to the public.
In fact, looking back, in the first half of his career, Lu Yu has always taken the route of high-quality talents.
Her parents were both minor language hosts of China Radio International, and growing up in this kind of family, her starting point was naturally much higher than many people.
In the short film of Beijing's bid for the Olympic Games in 93, there are also pictures of her speech in fluent English.
Here I have to mention the predecessors who had a huge impact on Lu Yu's life-
Zhao Zhongxiang.
When CCTV boss Zhang Xiaohai was still a student of Lu Yu, he asked Zhao Zhongxiang to help with his palm.
At that time, Zhao Zhongxiang saw that she lacked the temperament to control a program, but fortunately, she didn't say it to death, and Lu Yu was able to get involved.
And by the time he appeared on "Lu Yu Have an Appointment" more than 20 years later, he had completely regarded Lu Yu as a respectable peer.
He repeatedly expressed how much he liked this show, and every time he gave a lecture, he would use "Luyu Appointment" as a case study.
What flattered Lu Yu the most was such a sentence-
I think you really are
Born for this show
Dare to love the giants all regard Lu Yu as the light of the industry?
Therefore, I have never believed in the saying "stupid people are stupid".
All the people who can fly first must be in some unknown place.
If we also have Zhao Zhongxiang's perspective and the experience of participating in the entire history of Chinese TV, perhaps his appreciation is not so difficult to understand.
As we all know, the birth of "Luyu Appointment" is closely related to "Oprah Show".
In 1995, Lu Yu, who studied in the United States, had great respect for this show and hoped to create a similar variety show in China.
You know, this was a pretty groundbreaking idea in the TV industry at the time, and it was also a major innovation.
From the very beginning, Chen Luyu had a market-leading vision and an extremely clear orientation.
That is, "variety".
And this orientation is also destined for her to take a different path from most of the hosts of the same period.
In a conversation with Yang Lan, Lu Yu once mentioned that during the interview, not only the interviewees will have joys, sorrows, and sorrows, but also the interviewees.
And Yang Lan gave a very classic view of news practitioners: we should try to restrain this emotion and start from a rational point of view.
Because of his refusal to intervene, Yang Lan's show looks much more professional and serious.
And "The Oprah Show" is not the same as the news.
In essence, she is playing a talk show and a variety show.
She needs to be emotional, but also fully involved in the narrative, so that the story becomes Oprah's version.
And Lu Yu may never be able to reach Oprah in terms of strength, but she has long understood that the essence of variety shows is storytelling.
While realizing this, a conspiracy theory repeatedly rose in my mind -
Did Lu Yu really not know that she was messing with others, or did she do it on purpose?
Because after putting on the vest of "stupid dog", Lu Yu seems to be able to ask more things than others with a cheeky face.
For example, many people have complained about the interview with Leung Jiahui.
Even though the other party has repeatedly stated that in the face of her daughter's early love, she will not stop it but respect, she still seems to have not understood.
One question: Boy, if you really don't like it, will you say it?
Again: No, I mean he's a human being.
Under pressure step by step, Leung Jiahui's answer was no longer decent, but in order to explain clearly to the stubborn "old-fashioned" in front of him, he had to give more of the previous situation-
Because when he and his wife got married, my father-in-law didn't stop him.
And men will grow up, in the face of a woman's unreserved delivery and trust, he who was not good at the beginning, has also grown into an actor.
In the end, the audience was able to learn more, and Leung Ka-fai's story was a little more exciting.
There may be a suspicion of over-interpretation here, but it is really difficult for me not to doubt Ms. Chen Luyu's heart and mind to be able to make a show live so long by myself.
And the one that most exposed her true strength was the famous special program with Oprah.
In just four minutes, Chen Luyu faced the indiscriminate bombardment of the world's top 1 host queen, and he didn't suffer a single problem.
At the beginning, Oprah went straight to the point and directly tried "Lu Yu has an appointment", the layout was very similar to "Oprah Show", so as to ask Lu Yu if he was playing copy, and he didn't save face for young fans at all.
And Lu Yu was not in a hurry, first led the audience to the Oprah question mark, expressed his respect for her, and first relaxed the other party's vigilance.
then elaborated on the arduous process of starting the show, avoided Oprah's question, and only gave objective results-
so here I am today.
So I'm in front of you today.
This sentence can be interpreted in two ways.
First, this is a difficult struggle for fans to meet their idols at the top, so please raise your hand.
Second, since we're on each other's shows, we don't have anything to say about it, so don't be aggressive.
Ms. Chen Luyu's fluent English made her stunned for a moment, which obviously made her have more respect for this foreign "imitator".
And the next round completely explains why Lu Yu can be called Oprah's "big disciple" -
Aren't Oprah's questions and Chen Luyu the same way?
Sharp, sudden, stereotypical, rude.
Notice that almost every word of Oprah has a dark pit in it-
The comparison between "24 years" and "7 years" once again emphasizes his originality, suppressing Lu Yu and elevating himself at the same time.
"Topics that really affect people's lives" means that her show cares more about people's livelihood, while China may not.
"What we hear in the United States" widens the geographical distance, takes the offense of the problem first, and at the same time forms a kind of "civilized world looks at the backward world" perspective.
It is no exaggeration to say that this string of questions has changed from a dialogue between two variety shows to a provocation with strong political implications, and ordinary people may have jumped into the trap.
But Ms. Chen Luyu still did not hesitate and continued to tell the story.
Are the topics you're talking about so poignant? They're just the stories of ordinary people. The implication in the words is that the other party regards these issues as abnormal, but it is a disguised discrimination.
And being able to hear so many stories also proves that she has an outstanding character, which is Sister Lu Yu's boasting by being humble.
The reason why Lu Yu has obtained some of Oprah's true biography is that these two women are actually well versed in pretending to be stupid.
How is it impossible for Oprah herself, as a minority, to know the offensiveness of stereotypes?
And if you really want to know how China discusses sensitive topics, just look for a few episodes of the show, why use such a large list of words to set up a routine?
Let's look at her next question: Are there any gossip tabloids in China?
Lu Yu's white eyes almost didn't roll out on the spot.
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From Oprah's triumphant laughter when she saw Lu Yu's expression, it can be seen that she is not unaware, but deliberately pretending to provoke the other party to give the effect.
But she probably didn't expect that the little fan who was so respectful and smooth in the first half would be so spicy in the next sentence-
Luckily
Chinese tabloids
Not as bad as the United States
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I don't dare to say a word about death.
But at least Chen Luyu didn't drop the chain at all in this fierce battle.
Do the math, from entering CCTV without graduating to having your own program.
What others may not be able to do in a lifetime, Chen Luyu is here, but it is only 8 years.
Later, she not only founded her own company, but also transferred the production rights of "A Date with Luyu" to her hands and became her own boss.
It can be seen that the production company is still "Beijing Energy"
I often think that she has an unpredictable city, playing the most advanced domestic entertainment of pretending to be a pig and eating a tiger.
If you think about it carefully, her news concept may be a little like Sister Man-
There are many ways to expose the truth, but she is Xi to choosing the most eye-catching one, even if she is embarrassed by it.
As a result, Lu Yu kept using all kinds of aggressive and offensive questions, just to make the story fuller.
For example, the most controversial interview.
She asked the left-behind children, "Why don't you eat meat? Is it easy for meat to spoil?"
If you think about it more, it is not difficult to understand that her original intention was to let the children themselves say the dilemma behind "not eating meat", because these words must be the most impactful for the protagonist himself.
It's just that she didn't realize that stories are means after all, and the root of the objects it serves is still people.
When she was still trying to write a story from the perspective of a superior, the Internet put us in the position of the interviewee long ago.
empathy made her question redundant, and it was also these four words that contributed to the main reason why she was scolded for "why not eat minced meat".
When she prefers the latter between humanistic care and variety show effects, it becomes inevitable to be criticized and condemned.
Of course, that's an afterthought.
I don't have to prove that Lu Yu is a smart person who calculates the whole world.
But I think that Lu Yu, who has been a high-achieving student since he was a child, must also have the common problems of smart people-
I see myself too much as a superior.
In fact, it is difficult to simply judge whether this posture is good or bad.
However, it can answer the question at the beginning: Lu Yu's spiritual power is worthy of a decisive woman.
In "Super Speaker", Lu Yu once talked about the topic of love in a rare way with the title of "This Hellish Love".
In the beginning, she was vaccinated: the "I" in the speech was not necessarily herself.
But the whole story behind always reminds people of her two marriages.
In story one, "I" is an extremely strong and decisive woman.
On her first date with her husband, she began:
I don't have time for love
I want to get married
Then the two met their parents within two weeks, got engaged, and got married quickly.
In 1995, when Lu Yu was studying in the United States, he had a flash marriage with an American. The following year, she returned to China with her husband to join Phoenix Satellite TV and started the peak of her career.
Now the so-called "career" script of the big heroine, in fact, she has already played it.
In the second story, she mentioned that "I" have an old friend who has known each other for many years, but I have never met the right moment.
It wasn't until they were truly mature and accomplished with each other that they came together naturally.
This again alludes to the story of her and her second husband Zhu Lei.
The other party is a friend who Lu Yu has known since he was 13 years old, and it took many years to get back together, which is quite fatalistic.
What these two relationships have in common is that Lu Yu actually knows very well what he wants.
She's playing with a very new kind of "love brain".
In the embarrassing collection of "A Date with Luyu", one of the things that impressed me deeply was that she had a public fight with the female writer Huang Tongtong.
What Huang Tongtong has been talking about is the theory of self-examination and mental maturity in love.
But Chen Luyu still asked the same set of questions that were almost nonsense-
What if people were willing?
Again, she became the only fool in the audience who was not clear-headed, did not understand things, and was the only fool in the audience.
But in fact, in the next question, Lu Yu revealed a little cunning of himself -
You experts are always able to answer other people's questions sensibly, but what about yourselves?
Perhaps just like her hosting style, Lu Yu doesn't think that it is more noble to boast of being sober and rational in love.
She prefers to pretend to be stupid like this, to maintain the experience and immersion.
In fact, Lu Yu has never hidden that she herself is a person who longs for love and believes in love.
But why is she said to be a "big woman"?
Because she believes in love, but she is not superstitious about love.
More precisely, she will not believe in a specific man, a specific marriage.
She once peddled this point of view to Ruby Lin and Huo Jianhua (laughing to death, so that she would make trouble).
It was also used to ask Zhang Liangying, who was embarrassed by the "concert proposal incident".
On this topic, Lu Yu is not as stupid and dull as usual, but rather a wise man who moves flexibly by the river of love.
In fact, the big woman is never on the surface, but in the clarity of the value orientation.
No matter how rational and calm a person is, he will be able to speak big truths, but he has no judgment on his own life and does not know how to choose, after all, he is a paper tiger.
And Chen Luyu may seem to lack heart, but he does not lack heart.
She is very clear about what she wants in her career and love, and she is willing to make concessions and sacrifices for it.
This choice may not be correct or advanced, but it is definitely decisive.
A big woman must be an elite recognized by the whole society?
I want to say: Really? You don't believe it.
The first thing that a truly independent woman has to do is to recognize herself.
Like Chen Luyu, while being treated as a fool by the whole world, he lives his life vividly, which is not a realm.
She knew that she would not miss any pits, so she didn't take the scolding of the outside world seriously at all.
This woman is not simple.
You can look down on her, but don't underestimate her.