At the age of 19, Yuan Li was admitted to the Beijing Film Academy to study Xi acting and began the first stage of his life to leave home. Although she has not Xi systematically learned to act, her natural conditions and keen sensibility have made her teacher see her potential to become an actress.
During his time at school, Yuan Li gradually adapted to the rhythm of group life and became friends with his roommates.
Although Yuan Li was a little overwhelmed by the teacher's request when she first entered the school, she told herself not to be discouraged and hold back. Yuan Li began to study and practice basic acting courses diligently, and also actively participated in various performance activities to gain experience from them.
With the help of her teachers and classmates, her acting abilities have improved unconsciously.
What Yuan Li will never forget the most is the enlightenment lover Xu Wei he met in college. Xu Wei is 11 years older than her, is her senior, and he is steady and well-informed.
They start by learning Xi exchange and develop a harmonious friendship. Later, the two met backstage at a campus party, prompting them to meet openly and confirm their love for each other.
Xu Wei gave Yuan Li guidance and encouragement on the road to growth. The two began an ambiguous relationship that lasted for more than ten years, and even if they separated, Yuan Li regarded Xu Wei as a lover who had a profound impact on him.
The bits and pieces of those years have become bright and moving colors in the course of her life.
At the age of 33, Yuan Li met 31-year-old young actor Zhao Ling in the TV series "The Colonel's Daughter". Although the two are only two years apart, Zhao Ling is inferior in terms of acting qualifications.
But his excellent appearance and sunny and cheerful personality quickly impressed Yuan Li.
In the crew, they often get together to study the performance for rehearsals and plays. Under the high intensity of working pressure, the attraction to each other heats up like a chemical reaction.
Yuan Li found that Zhao Ling had an irresistible charm on him.
As a result, a crew romance began. In the process of falling in love, the two of them are immersed in a sweet atmosphere. In September of the same year, they hastily decided to get married in a flash and tied the knot with the blessings of their friends.
However, the good times did not last long, and the reality of married life broke the beautiful vision of the two. It turned out that Yuan Li, who was Xi to a free and casual life, had difficulty adapting to the constraints of marriage.
And Zhao Ling also found that it was difficult for his wife to fully pay her sincerity. So in 2007, cracks appeared, and Zhao Ling also criticized Yuan Li's inaction on the Internet. Although they tried to fix it, it ended in divorce in 2008.
This marriage was as gorgeous as fireworks but fleeting, and it cost Yuan Li emotionally. But it has also become a valuable asset in her life's journey.
In 2009, Yuan Li's college predecessor and enlightenment lover Xu Wei married the popular table tennis player Zhang Yining and became husband and wife. As soon as this news came out, many people still remembered the ambiguous relationship between Xu Wei and Yuan Li for more than ten years, and they shook out the past of the two and spread it.
Faced with such a situation, the 33-year-old Yuan Li showed a mature and enlightened side. She did not avoid this topic, but took the initiative to express her blessings on Weibo.
Yuan Li sincerely wished Xu Wei and the bride happiness, and also lamented that the end of one relationship means the beginning of another.
Such a blessing is not a deliberate statement. Instead, Yuan Li was sincerely happy for Xu Wei. Although the two were not together in the end, Yuan Li never forgot the company of those years.
She also sincerely hopes that he who was once important can find true love and happiness.
This blessing shows Yuan Li's mature side. She is able to look at the past relationship objectively and also face its end in peace. This became a sign that she was gradually becoming stable on the emotional path.
In 2011, 39-year-old Yuan Li met Lin Bowen, a Chinese lawyer from Canada, in China. The two fell in love at first sight, quickly established a relationship, and registered their marriage in less than a year.
After marriage, Yuan Li decided to follow Lin Bowen to live in Canada.
When he first arrived in Canada, Yuan Li was still immersed in the sweetness brought by love. Life with Lin Bowen in a foreign country is full of freshness and expectation. However, when the enthusiasm faded, the two had differences in life Xi and values, and began to be estranged.
Lin Bowen believes that Yuan Li should be independent and not rely on him. But Yuan Li was looking forward to receiving love and understanding from her husband, and the expectations of the two were misaligned.
Another time, Yuan reminded Lin Bowen to add clothes, but he thought he was restricting his freedom.
All kinds of disharmony and the trauma of miscarriage made Yuan Li's physical and mental state plummet. In 2015, Lin Bowen took the initiative to divorce Yuan Li, ending a 4-year transnational marriage.
This marriage hit Yuan Li very hard, and it also made her grow into a stronger and more independent woman.
Yuan Li, who experienced two failed marriages, met the poet Liang Taiping, who was 11 years younger than him, at the age of 47. Liang Taiping has fashionable long hair, a literary temperament, and Yuan Li is familiar at first sight.
Both are soul mates of literary and artistic models, and although the age gap is larger, they are highly compatible in terms of emotional concepts.
A sibling relationship begins. Liang Taiping's thoughtful and careful thinking often moved Yuan Li, and he also gave Yuan Li equal and open space. In 2019, after two years of ambiguity, the two officially tied the knot.
After marriage, Liang Taiping often took Yuan Li to experience various new literary and artistic things, so that she could continue to feel the energy of youth.
In the face of the outside world's discussion of sister and brother love, Yuan Li no longer minds. She said that only by saying goodbye to past mistakes can you meet the right people. Now she is very involved in this later love, feels Liang Taiping's understanding and support, and lives a happy life.
Now 50-year-old Yuan Li has quit the entertainment industry, she is no longer as keen on appearing as before, but devotes her time and energy to public welfare. She painstakingly created her own public welfare foundation, actively engaged in social welfare, and fulfilled the social responsibility of a successful woman.
Yuan Li often meets with the beneficiaries of the foundation in person, providing them with financial assistance and spiritual encouragement and support. Every time she talks to a recipient, she is able to pass on her positive energy.
Yuan Li will also use his influence to call on more people to pay attention to public welfare.
In terms of family, Yuan Li is also very satisfied. She lives with her husband, Liang Taiping, but is often reunited via video, phone or plane. Yuan Li expressed his desire to have children, and for this purpose he stored healthy eggs.
She looks forward to fulfilling her wish to become a mother when the time comes.
Yuan Li's emotional journey has been full of ups and downs, from the ambiguity of her youth on campus, to the failure of two marriages, and then to the love between sisters and brothers, which can be described as a life story full of ups and downs.
But her heart has always been full of hope. Because of the emergence of every relationship, no matter what the result is, Yuan Li has accumulated life experience and grown into the person she is today.
Especially after meeting Liang Taiping, Yuan Li experienced the feeling of being respected and understood, which meant a lot to her.
Now Yuan Li is no longer a girl with a soft spot, but a loving and tolerant woman. She is very grateful to everyone who appears in her life, because they have left a mark on their life coordinates.
It is human nature to have unhappiness, and Yuan Li chooses tolerance and blessing.
She used her life experience to warn everyone not to doubt love because of a few failures. The important thing is to maintain a positive attitude and manage the relationship in front of you.
She believes that there is a lot of beautiful love waiting for us in the world, and to go through the wind and rain is to see the final rainbow.