"I really can't stand it, my Indian mother-in-law is simply the scariest woman in the world, I'm really going crazy. ”
Originally from China, she cried and complained to her family, but when her mother on the other end of the phone asked her to go back to China, she began to change the subject.
What happened to this Chinese woman's Indian mother-in-law? What did she go through in India? Did she go back to China?
Mother-in-law: This is India!
The Chinese woman, who calls herself Xiao Zhao and hails from Fujian, China, finally found her husband and married in September this year, at the age of 32.
The only thing that makes her family dissatisfied is that Xiao Zhao's Ruyi Langjun is an Indian, but the 32-year-old Xiao Zhao has no intention of marrying this Indian man.
Xiao Zhao didn't care whether the family was happy or not, so he happily packed himself up and followed his newlywed Indian husband Gasa back to India.
At first, Xiao Zhao was really excited and felt proud to be able to marry a high-caste man in India.
What's more, Gaza hadn't even asked her for a dowry, as long as she was willing to follow him back to India to live.
However, Xiao Zhao never expected that when she arrived in India, she was not happy at all! The biggest reason was her Indian mother-in-law......
Xiao Zhao's Indian mother-in-law, Ma Lian, is a rather domineering and domineering woman, she has 5 sons, of which Gaza is the youngest.
Xiao Zhao was quite surprised when he saw his Indian mother-in-law for the first time.
She looked at the Indian woman who didn't look very old, with light makeup and still black hair, and thought that the other party was a good person.
After all, Gasa told her several times: "My mother is a very kind woman, she is very good to me!"
However, after the first face-to-face conversation, Xiao Zhao's illusions about all this "gentle mother-in-law" were completely shattered.
This mother-in-law actually directly "set rules" for Xiao Zhao and made 3 requests, which made Xiao Zhao dumbfounded.
The Indian mother-in-law said, "First, you must get the consent of my son or me when you go out in the future. ”
"This is India and not China, and I don't care what you're like in China, but in our family, we don't want to see the women of the family go out without a man. ”
"I can tell you very clearly, you can't go out unless you have to, just stay at home. ”
"I don't want to see you go out alone, it's not allowed, I hope you can remember!"
"Second, from today onwards, you will no longer be able to wear short skirts or shorts. ”
"Look at what you're dressed now, this dress doesn't even reach the knees, I've never seen a woman wear it so badly. ”
"Thirdly, a son must be born to Gaza next year. ”
"Every woman who marries into our family has given birth to at least one son, and you are no exception, not to mention that you are in your 30s, and you must give birth to a child as soon as possible. ”
Listening to her mother-in-law's three requests, Xiao Zhao was really speechless, didn't she even have the freedom to go out?
But after all, when he first arrived, Xiao Zhao was embarrassed to attack in front of his mother-in-law, and he resisted his desire to refute, and did not agree or refuse.
But Xiao Zhao still told her husband about it, and she said to Gaza: "I really don't understand what your mother is thinking, don't you think these 3 requirements are really excessive?"
After hearing this, Gasa showed an expression that Xiao Zhao couldn't understand, which gave Xiao Zhao the illusion that her husband was approving of her mother-in-law's request.
But an illusion is an illusion after all, Gasa said to Xiao Zhao: "I will communicate well with my mother, you don't have to pay attention to these requests, just tell me if you have any problems, and I will solve them." ”
Gaza's response still made Xiao Zhao more satisfied, after all, no one would hate her husband being on her side, not her mother-in-law's side.
But the contradiction between Xiao Zhao and his mother-in-law can be said to have been buried at the beginning, and the contradiction between the two intensified in the next month.
One month later, Xiao Zhao completely broke out, and she had a big fight with her Indian mother-in-law.
It is said that freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and Xiao Zhao really can't bear this mother-in-law who picks thorns all day long.
The trigger for this quarrel came from the fact that the Indian mother-in-law did not allow Xiao Zhao to eat with her family because she was in her menstrual period.
Xiao Zhao was really angry at that time, originally because of the menstrual period, the whole person was more irritable than usual, his mood was more unstable, and his body was uncomfortable.
What's more, my sister-in-law was not treated like this by her mother-in-law during her menstrual period before, why didn't she even have the qualifications to eat together when it was her turn?
Who wouldn't be angry about this? Anyway, Xiao Zhao really couldn't bear it anymore and didn't want to endure it anymore! This mother-in-law made things so difficult for her, Xiao Zhao "flipped the table" and quarreled directly with her mother-in-law at that time.
The Indian mother-in-law did not make any concessions because Xiao Zhao suddenly "became angry", and the two quarreled directly in front of everyone.
The mother-in-law's sentence "This is India, if you are so fierce, get out of India" made Xiao Zhao calm down.
At this time, Xiao Zhao realized that she was the only outsider in this "home"!
Husband: Don't be vexatious
Xiao Zhao was so angry that she couldn't speak, she looked at her husband who was silent on the side, and suddenly she could understand why her own mother told her that "marrying far away is really hard".
Xiao Zhao didn't quarrel with his mother-in-law for a long time, because Gasa intervened halfway and left the house with Xiao Zhao, who had revealed his grievances.
Gasa drove Xiao Zhao out with the intention of taking her to a nearby park to walk calmly.
But in the car, Xiao Zhao stopped crying, her eyes were red, and she looked out the window blankly.
At this time, Xiao Zhao looked at the "scenery" outside the window, which was completely different from China, and his heart became more and more uncomfortable.
As soon as Gaza opened his mouth, he said: "You can't talk to your mother like this, she is an elder, you should listen to her, don't be unreasonable." ”
It's good that he didn't speak, but when he spoke, Xiao Zhao, who had stopped crying, cried again, crying extremely aggrieved and sad.
Gasa parked the car on the side of the road and tried to comfort Xiao Zhao, but Xiao Zhao didn't listen at all and still cried.
The couple stayed outside until late before going back, during which Gaza kept coaxing Xiao Zhao, but Xiao Zhao did not communicate with Gaza during the whole process.
The next day, Xiao Zhao called his mother in her hometown in China, and as soon as she opened her mouth, she cried: "I really can't stand it, my Indian mother-in-law is simply the most terrible woman in the world, I am really going crazy." ”
Her mother on the other end of the phone said in her native dialect: "I told you a long time ago, Indian men don't have a good thing, you have to marry." ”
"Not to mention that it is difficult to have many mothers-in-law in China, you are a foreigner and still trying to integrate into the family of Indians?
"You said before that Gaza's family is very rich, but the money is also his parents', and he must be holding his parents. ”
"Go home, come back to China, you are still young, it's really not good to marry in India, your Indian husband doesn't look like a wife who will hurt him. ”
Xiao Zhao listened to her mother's familiar voice, and tears fell from her eyes, but her mother told her to go back to China, but she was unwilling.
For Xiao Zhao, if you ignore your Indian mother-in-law, it is actually quite good to live in India.
Gaza is very good to Xiao Zhao most of the time, of course, that is also on the premise that his mother-in-law does not target her and does not act as a demon.
Xiao Zhao is reluctant to have her Indian husband and enjoy life in India, and another reason is that it will make her feel very shameless.
At the beginning, she said in a very high-profile manner that she was married to a high-caste man in India, and marrying India was enjoyment.
Now that she is about to return to China in just one month, she is not happy to say anything.
Although after arguing with her mother-in-law that day, Gasa asked Xiao Zhao to say something like "don't be unreasonable" made her very uncomfortable.
But Gaza later gave Xiao Zhao a lot of things, such as a beautiful sari wrapped in gold wire, jewelry that seemed to be worth a lot of money, and the latest model of a big-brand foreign mobile phone......
These gifts made Xiao Zhao no longer unhappy, but when he saw his mother-in-law, he was still very angry, because this arrogant Indian mother-in-law obviously looked down on her.
Xiao Zhao decided to be out of sight and out of mind, if she didn't take the initiative to provoke this Indian mother-in-law, she should not be able to see her.
But Xiao Zhao can be his mother-in-law and does not exist, but her mother-in-law has no such plans.
The two are still quarrelling, even if Gasa has emphasized to Xiao Zhao several times that he should respect his mother, let her not quarrel with her, it is useless.
Until the end of December, Gaza was probably annoyed by his daughter-in-law's quarrel with her mother for three days and a big quarrel for five days.
simply moved out of the house with Xiao Zhao and went to live in an apartment outside, instead of continuing to live with his parents, which can be said to have completely solved the problem.
Xiao Zhao, who successfully moved outside to live alone with her husband, was very happy, in fact, she couldn't stand her outrageous mother-in-law for a long time.
Xiao Zhao can be said to have no good impression of his Indian mother-in-law at all, her husband said before that she was vexatious, but in fact, the real vexatious person is not her at all!
After moving out to live, Xiao Zhao didn't wronged himself, and found 3 servants to serve at home, which didn't cost much anyway.
Before, Xiao Zhao always felt that living in India was very painful, but after not living with his mother-in-law, Xiao Zhao felt that living in India was very cool!
So when her mother asked her if she would go home for the Chinese New Year, Xiao Zhao directly refused, she said: "Don't go back, it's quite expensive to go back and forth." ”
"And the Indians are only in China, and when Gaza is free next year, we will go back to China together, which is actually quite good in India. ”
Xiao Zhao was very satisfied with her current situation, and began to feel that she had not married the wrong person, as if she was not the one who cried and said, "I really can't stand it" when she first arrived in India for one month.