Sun Tao, a child born in an ordinary family. His father was an ordinary well-known performing artist, and there were not many ups and downs in his life. Sun Tao has a lively personality since he was a child, often disobeys discipline, and his grades are always countdown, which makes his father have a headache.
I remember one time, my grandfather took Sun Tao, who was still in elementary school, to participate in a performance event, and the audience was full of hundreds of people. This was too much pressure for a child, and he was so nervous that he stood on the spot, so that all the audience could not stand it and cheered.
This became a pimple in Sun Tao's heart, and he had an inexplicable fear of the stage.
In order to cure his truancy and character defects, after graduating from high school, Sun Tao was sent to the army by his father. At the beginning, he couldn't adapt to the high-intensity training in the barracks, and he couldn't stand the criticism and discipline of the squad leader.
Every night he would secretly hide under the covers and cry, missing his family.
During his two years in the army, Sun Tao slowly grew up. He realized that what he had come would be safe, and he began to adjust his mentality and stop complaining. He also often used his spare time to perform for his comrades-in-arms.
In this way, the long-dormant acting talent in his body was gradually discovered.
It was a cold winter day in 1995. The People's Liberation Army Academy of Arts organized a cleaning, and Sun Tao was arranged to wipe the glass windows outside. The bitter north wind blew his hands red, and the thick frost on the window slowed his progress.
At this moment, a crisp and beautiful voice sounded behind him: "Classmate, let me help you." Sun Tao turned around and saw that his classmate Li Li had already picked up a rag and smiled like a sunny smile at him.
It turned out that Sun Tao didn't know that Li Li had been secretly paying attention to him, a shy and introverted boy, for a long time. Seeing him working hard outside, Li Li had already made up her mind to come over to help.
While the two were cleaning the glass, they chatted without saying a word. Sun Tao found that Li Li was not only beautiful and generous, but also warm-hearted and understanding. Li Li also appreciates Sun Tao's optimistic and persevering qualities.
After wiping and chatting, the distance between the two hearts is secretly closer.
There was a loud bang, and it turned out that the ladder in Sun Tao's hand accidentally fell, causing him to fall to the ground.
Perhaps, this is providence. This window-cleaning encounter has achieved their fate for half a lifetime together.
After graduating from university, Sun Tao joined the People's Liberation Army Song and Dance Troupe as he wished and began his difficult acting career. And Li Li gave up her job and became Sun Tao's most solid backing.
When he first entered the song and dance troupe, Sun Tao was always arranged in the corners of many performances, and he didn't even have a decent chance. In an interview, the host inadvertently said Sun Tao's name, and the other stars were confused, and no one knew who he was.
This made Sun Tao shake for the umpteenth time, whether he really has no talent for acting.
"Don't be discouraged, believe in yourself, the opportunity will come sooner or later. Li Li dispelled his confusion with a gentle tone and a hug. Every time Sun Tao faced the trough and setbacks, it was Li Li's unconditional encouragement and support that made him regain his strength.
Three years have passed, and Sun Tao finally waited for the first opportunity to perform on the same stage with senior stars at a large-scale gala. He was excited and nervous, afraid that a small mistake would ruin everything.
That day, he rehearsed repeatedly until late at night, grinding every detail to perfection. On stage, he played to his heart's content and seized a rare opportunity.
"Sun Tao, you are awesome!" In the audience, Li Li applauded him heartily, and her eyes were full of tears of pride. At this moment, Sun Tao deeply realized that without Li Li's selfless dedication, he would not be where he is today.
Appearing on the stage of the Spring Festival Gala 17 times is the lifelong dream of many artists, but Sun Tao has done it. In the face of those criticisms of "relying on his wife to take the position", it is necessary for us to explore the truth.
First of all, Sun Tao's own efforts are the cornerstone of his standing on the stage. Being applauded by the audience as a toddler did not break his self-confidence; Over the years, I have been in the industry and have fallen again and again...... This kind of perseverance and perseverance is the source of motivation for success.
Secondly, we cannot ignore Li Li's huge positive influence on Sun Tao. Her encouragement is like a beacon that illuminates Sun Tao's way forward; Her understanding dissolves the confusion in his heart; She supported him through countless low points...... It can be said that without Li Li's appearance, there would be no Sun Tao today.
In the end, their success should be seen as the result of two people supporting each other. Li Li may not be able to shine on the stage, but the spiritual support she gave to Sun Tao is precious to him.
This tacit understanding and mutual assistance is the core of their relationship.
Therefore, we should not mind the words "rely on the wife to get on top". Because on the way to pursue your dreams, having someone with you is one of the meanings of life.
Perhaps, we often ignore the hidden truths in life.
Sun Tao's family is not wealthy, but Li Li never cares about this. She often prepares delicious meals for her family by herself, and Sun Tao's old father and mother also love this daughter-in-law very much.
Even if the family just sits in front of the TV and counts, they can have fun until late at night.
Li Li also often used her spare time to iron Sun Tao's performance clothes, repairing broken zippers or patching up fallen buttons again and again. While doing these meticulous manual work, she hummed a song softly, and her face was full of gentle smiles.
Maybe these little things are nothing, but it is the bits and pieces of ordinary life that converge into their undying love. This steadfastness is more valuable than money, glory, fame, and status.
Therefore, when we hear the words "rely on the wife to get on top" again, we might as well calm down and think about those heartwarming moments in life. Perhaps, the truth is hidden in it.
"If you hold an umbrella, I will enjoy the shade", this proverb expresses what many people think in their hearts. When a person is successful, there are always people who question that he is relying on others.
However, we ignore that everyone has the right to pursue their dreams. Li Li gave up her job to support her husband, which is of course traditional thinking at work. But she also did it by her own choice, not by force.
In the same way, Sun Tao wants to shine on the stage, this is his freedom; Li Li wants to support her lover wholeheartedly, which is also her right. No one persecuted anyone, everything came from the heart.
When we no longer look at other people's life choices through colored glasses, we may be able to find deep meanings. Among these choices, there are more of the willing giving, the cherishing of the other party as life.
We don't have to be confined to the old thinking of "you hold an umbrella, I will enjoy the shade". Everyone should have the ability to chase their dreams and achieve happiness, even if the process is not perfect, and no one has the right to judge.