Why can't Wang Xiaofei pick up the child? Three reasons make Da S increase the conditions! Zhang Lan thinks about it wrong! During this time, the marriage problem between Wang Xiaofei and Da S has aroused widespread concern in society, and the most concerned issue is the issue of children between them. Recently, it was reported that Da S has put forward the condition of remarriage again: Wang Xiaofei must take back their two children. However, why can't Wang Xiaofei pick up the child? There are three reasons for Big S to increase the conditions, and Zhang Lan also considered making a mistake because of this.
First, Wang Xiaofei thinks that Big S's education method for children is not suitable. In the marriage of Da S and Wang Xiaofei, Da S has always played the role of the main caregiver of the child. However, Wang Xiaofei thinks that Big S's education method is too strict and lacks warmth. He believes that children need not only discipline and rules, but also love and care. Therefore, he is worried that if he brings his children back, their growth will be affected. Second, Wang Xiaofei felt that she was not capable of taking care of the child. Although Wang Xiaofei is a successful businessman, he also knows that he is lacking in taking care of his children. He travels a lot for business and work and is unable to take care of his children wholeheartedly. As a result, he fears that if he brings his children back, their health and well-being will suffer.
Third, Wang Xiaofei is afraid that the child will become a victim of the struggle for power. In the marriage of Da S and Wang Xiaofei, children have become a means of fighting for power. Both want to be able to take care of their children in order to be in a more advantageous position during the divorce process. Therefore, Wang Xiaofei is afraid that the child will become a victim of this kind of competition, and he does not want the child to be harmed. The above are the three reasons why Wang Xiaofei can't pick up the child. However, these reasons do not explain why Big S requires him to have to pick up his children before he can remarry. In fact, there are also profound reasons behind Big S's requirements.
Big S's request is because she thinks that children should be with their parents. She believes that children should have the right to be with their parents, and in her opinion, Wang Xiaofei has no legitimate reason to refuse to take the child back. Therefore, she asked Wang Xiaofei to pick up the child on this condition, so that the child could grow up with his parents. However, Big S's approach is also problematic. She didn't take into account Wang Xiaofei's worries and difficulties, and didn't respect his wishes. She thought that her request was correct, and ignored Wang Xiaofei's feelings and needs. Therefore, her approach has also become the reason for Zhang Lan's misconsideration. Zhang Lan, as Da S's mother, should help Da S and Wang Xiaofei solve the problems between them. However, she did not respect Wang Xiaofei's wishes, but supported Big S's request. Doing so not only does not solve the problem, but instead exacerbates the contradiction and makes things more complicated. Everyone has their own position and ideas on this issue. However, we must understand that every child should have the right to grow up with their parents, and parents should do their best to provide the best environment for their children to grow up. Therefore, in the process of solving problems, we need to respect the wishes of the other party and understand the difficulties of the other party in order to reach a mutually acceptable solution. In real life, similar problems often occur. Disputes between couples and conflicts between parents and children are often due to a lack of communication and understanding. Only when we respect each other's wishes and understand each other's needs can we find the best solutions that can be met for everyone.