When Ariel Lin was only 5 years old, her parents suddenly divorced, which was undoubtedly a huge harm to a child. In order to raise Ariel Lin and her younger brother, her mother had to rely on credit card cash to survive.
struggling financially to support this single-parent family, the mother has been physically and mentally burdened with the burden of two children.
One day, 10 years later, my mother was so tired that she decided to go to a masseuse to relax. She wanted to save some money, so she found a cheap informal masseur.
Who knew that a simple massage actually caused the mother's blood vessels to burst, causing her to fall into a coma after a stroke.
When Ariel received a call from the hospital, her heart tightened and tears welled up in her eyes. At the age of 16, she immediately took on the responsibility of the family and became the guardian of her younger brother.
Every day after class, Ariel Lin has to rush to the hospital to take care of her mother, and then go home to cook and take care of her younger brother.
This sudden change made Ariel Lin, who was still a child, take on the responsibility of an adult prematurely. The difficult environment honed her tenacious and independent character. Despite the helplessness and pain in her heart, she still did not choose to give up.
Because her family needs her, she must carry this burden forward.
In order to share the family and pay for tuition, Ariel Lin chose to be an actor. When she first entered the entertainment industry, Ariel Lin felt that everything was so fresh, and it was her childhood dream to be able to become a cool actor.
But soon, the pressure of desperate work overwhelmed her.
The filming cycle of each drama is about three or four months, during which Ariel Lin needs to devote herself wholeheartedly and often stays up all night. The staff on the set looked at Ariel Lin, who was still a child, and silently admired her perseverance and focus.
In order not to fall behind in his studies, Ariel Lin can only use all the time to study Xi. In the car and while waiting on the set, she stared nervously at her textbook, for fear that she would miss any knowledge points.
In the past 6 years, Ariel Lin has participated in the filming of 13 film and television works. She exchanged all her energy for income, as if she wanted to squeeze out her entire youth.
When receiving the movie payment, Ariel Lin will immediately think of her mother's medical expenses and her brother's living expenses, and she can finally breathe a sigh of relief for a while. It is this sense of responsibility to his family that supports Ariel Lin's continuous struggle on the road of acting.
In 2008, Ariel Lin's acting career reached its first peak, and she won the TV Golden Bell Award for the TV series "Afterlife". This is undoubtedly a great compliment and encouragement for a newcomer.
However, at this moment of joy and tears, a piece of news that made Ariel Lin panic suddenly came.
During a routine physical examination, Ariel was diagnosed with a two-centimeter-large cyst in her brain and multiple complications. The terrible word "brain tumor" made Ariel Lin's heart unable to calm down for a long time.
She understands that in the entertainment industry, any physical problem may make her collapse.
Despite the anxiety about the future, Ariel Lin mustered all the courage to undergo the surgery. She told herself that she must not give up and that she must continue to move forward.
After the surgery, Ariel Lin only rested for a few days before returning to work. Everyone was impressed by her perseverance and dedication.
This incident has become a big hurdle on Ariel Lin's acting career, but she still hasn't flinched. Because of her love and dedication to acting, she overcame all difficulties and continued to pursue forward.
This also fully shows the strong heart of this young actor.
In 2014, Ariel Lin chose to get married, and starting a family is another important stage in her life. At the beginning of their marriage, Ariel Lin and her husband lived sweetly.
It's a pity that the good times didn't last long, and her husband was very busy with work, and gradually the two became separated for a long time.
Ariel Lin has always been full of fantasies about love, and she is looking forward to growing old with her other half. In order to conceive love, she took the initiative to choose to start a complete shutdown in 2019 and devote herself to preparing for pregnancy.
But her husband still rarely comes home to see her, and the marriage in a long-distance state makes Ariel Lin suffer.
Finally, in October 2022, she gave birth to her baby. The moment he held the child in his arms, Ariel Lin was so excited that she burst into tears. But at this moment of happiness within reach, her husband only stayed with her for two days before leaving.
Newborns also need their mother's round-the-clock care, and Ariel Lin once again experienced the hard work of being a wife and mother.
A few days later, Ariel Lin happened to see the news mentioning that her husband had a third party. This is undoubtedly a huge blow to this marriage. Ariel Lin dialed her mother with red eyes, confiding in her unsatisfactory married life.
The troubled marriage made Ariel Lin taste the indescribable bitterness behind the happiness.
Ariel Lin has had to take on heavy responsibilities since she was a child, which has allowed her to develop a self-discipline and perfectionist character. She always demands that she perform at her best and do everything to perfection.
But this really made her physically and mentally exhausted, and she couldn't get real happiness.
At different stages of her life, Ariel Lin was diligently seeking a perfect result. But time and time again, reality gave her difficulties and setbacks. She began to reflect on whether she had done something wrong, but there were many things that were out of her control.
Gradually, Ariel realized that perfectionism could not make her happy. She began to learn to let go of the high demands and stop demanding everything to the extreme.
Ariel allowed herself to make mistakes and mistakes, and began to learn to tolerate the imperfections of others.
When Ariel Lin no longer demanded himself to a perfect standard, the whole person was much more relaxed. She began to enjoy the little things in life, rather than just carrying heavy responsibilities.
This time, Ariel Lin can finally be reborn without burden, without any worries, and live her true life.
Letting go of perfection and embracing life is a valuable insight that Ariel Lin has gained after years of struggle. This peace of mind will help her get out of the difficulties of life and find inner peace.
Looking back on his own experience, Ariel Lin understands that all encounters are just small fragments of life, and they are all bits and pieces of life. Each of us will encounter difficulties to a greater or lesser extent, and this is exactly what it takes to grow.
Ariel Lin once wishfully wanted to play a perfect role, but the reality of life is often more colorful than imagined. We can't predict all the variables, so we can only give our all in every moment.
Letting go of excessive anxiety and self-blame, and learning to tolerate oneself and others, this is the true meaning of life that Ariel Lin has realized from her experience. We're all just human beings.
Life will not be smooth sailing, but as long as you remain optimistic and hopeful, and stick to your original intention, you will definitely be able to find your own sunshine. This is also Ariel Lin's best blessing to herself.
After experiencing this, Ariel Lin can finally stop dwelling on the past, but live in the present. She is ready to continue to play out the next scene of her life with her new self.