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Six years ago, I married my husband and became part of the family. At first, I had a lot of respect for my mother-in-law and sister-in-law, and I was willing to do something for them. However, since the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner that year, my emotions have changed dramatically.
"Daughter-in-law, you can help make a dish. My mother-in-law said to me while she was busy chopping vegetables.
"Okay, I'll help. "I obediently took the ingredients and prepared to start cooking. However, since I am not very good at cooking, I ended up smashing every dish I made. "I'm sorry, I did something bad. "I carefully brought the smashed dish to the table.
"Oh, why do you mess up the dishes every time?" said my sister with some dissatisfaction as she looked at the table full of failed dishes.
"yes, you haven't been able to cook well for six years in a row, it's a real headache. The mother-in-law also sighed.
I was stunned, and I had an indescribable feeling in my heart. For five years, every Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, I spent it in constant apologies and frustration. They didn't seem to see my hard work, just resentment and blame for the failed dishes. I didn't know what to do, so I walked out of the kitchen with a heavy heart.
That night, I lay in bed and couldn't fall asleep for a long time. The reproaches of my mother-in-law and sister rang in my ears again and again, and I couldn't let go. Feeling their dissatisfaction with me, I also began to feel alienated from them. I really feel embarrassed when I want to do something for them, but I always make them more dissatisfied.
"Well, I think I need to learn some cooking skills Xi and hope to cook a good meal for you next time. "I tried to convince them, even though my mother-in-law and sister were not very happy.
I stayed up late every day to learn Xi and try to make a variety of dishes, hoping to make a breakthrough. However, when I once again showed my cooking skills at the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, the result remained the same. "You're such a waste, you haven't grown at all after so long!" said my sister with some anger as she looked at the failed dish.
"Alas, it seems that your efforts have been in vain. The mother-in-law was also helpless.
I was very depressed, I had worked hard for so long, why was the result still the same? They couldn't see my efforts and dedication, they just blindly blamed and dissatisfied. My heart gradually became cold, and my feelings for them became less and less.
Years have passed, and every Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, I still have to face those reproaches and dissatisfactions. This repetitive blow made me gradually tired of the kitchen, and I also had deep doubts about the expectations of my mother-in-law and sister-in-law. In front of them, I felt less and less able to satisfy them, and I felt more and more lonely and helpless.
Gradually, I became indifferent to their expectations and blame. Every time I had a Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, I just coped with it, without effort or expectation. The relationship between me and my mother-in-law and sister has become more and more estranged, as if there is no longer the intimacy and respect that I had at the beginning.
I began to wonder why my efforts and dedication had been exchanged for more resentment and blame from them. I began to feel confused and began to doubt my own worth. Eventually, I realized that for them, my cooking skills were just an appearance, and what they really valued was not my cooking skills, but their respect and dedication to them.
I decided to change my mindset and stop worrying about their blame and dissatisfaction, but try to do my best and treat it with my heart. At the next Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, I no longer feel anxious, but devote myself to cooking and pour all my thoughts into the dishes.
"Wow, these dishes are delicious!" the mother-in-law and sister praised again and again after eating.
"Yes, what you did this time was amazing!" my sister looked at me and smiled with satisfaction.
I looked at their satisfied expressions, and my heart also swelled with indescribable joy and satisfaction. Perhaps, what they really want to see is not the perfect dish, but the attitude I have towards them.
Since then, I have never felt the pressure of cooking skills, nor have I taken any blame and resentment from them. I began to understand that the most important thing in dealing with my family is not superficial achievements, but treating them with heart and giving sincerely. My mother-in-law and aunt gradually began to become more caring and understanding of me, and our relationship became more harmonious at the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner.
Perhaps, I am not a good chef, but I am willing to treat them with heart and touch their hearts with sincerity and love. Between family members, the most important thing is not the perfection of skills, but the sincere dedication and understanding. This experience also made me know more about cherishing the emotions between my family members and treating every detail with my heart in order to truly gain mutual recognition and respect.
"Daughter-in-law, this dish is delicious!" I heard my mother-in-law's praise, and my heart was also full of happiness.
"Thank you for the compliment, I really did it this time. I replied with emotion.
"Yes, you take your time, there will always be progress. "My sister also comforted me.
At this Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, I felt different from the past, and gradually felt the love and understanding of my family. I saw their encouragement and affirmation for me, and I was very grateful in my heart.
Gradually, I began to treat my family more attentively, no longer caring about the frustrations of the past, but feeling the care of my family with my heart. I found that when I changed the way I treated my family, the atmosphere between them became more warm and harmonious.
"Mother-in-law, sister, I will work harder in the future to make more delicious dishes for you. I said to them sincerely.
"Well, you take your time, we will always support you. "My mother-in-law and sister were also smiling, which made me feel extremely warm.
Since then, I have learned to treat my family with kindness, and I have gradually understood that my value lies in emotional communication and dedication. Through this experience, I have cherished the emotions between my family members more and learned to be more attentive to every detail in my life. No matter what kind of cooking skills you have, the key is to put your heart into it, and what touches my family is my sincerity and dedication to them. This experience has become a valuable asset in my life, and it has also given me a deeper understanding of the emotional communication between my family.
"Mother-in-law, sister-in-law, you have won the prize. I said modestly, but my heart was full of happiness.
"Daughter-in-law, I have caused you so much trouble, but you have always been so attentive. Thank you. The mother-in-law said with emotion.
"Yes, we don't mean to blame you, we just hope you can treat us more attentively. My sister stroked my hand, and her tone was full of love.
Hearing their affirmation and understanding, my eyes were a little hot. Over the years, I have been obsessed with being the perfect daughter-in-law, but I have neglected that what my family really craves is emotional communication and understanding. I have learned that treating my family with heart is not to please them, but out of genuine love for my family.
"Mother-in-law, sister, thank you for your continued care and tolerance. I will continue to work hard and hope to make more delicious dishes for you. "I solemnly promise.
"Well, you and we don't have to be stressed, paying more attention to your body is the most important thing. "My mother-in-law cared for me tenderly.
I looked at their kind smiles and felt a sense of happiness and satisfaction in my heart. I have learned to treat with my heart, no longer to pursue perfect outward performance, but to get along with my family with my heart and convey true feelings and love.
This experience not only allowed me to grow, but also allowed me to gain more understanding and care from my family. I learned that family members are not demanding perfection, but treating them with heart and heart. This sincerity and warmth will accompany me and become the most precious treasure in my life. Thanks to this experience, I have a better understanding of the emotional communication between family members, and our relationship has become more intimate and harmonious.
Treat each other with heart and care, this is the truest appearance of the family. Let us move forward hand in hand and build a warmer and happier family with love and tolerance.
After this Chinese New Year's Eve dinner, I was in a particularly happy mood. I think that maybe from now on, I will treat my family more attentively and feel their love and warmth.
As the days went by, my cooking skills gradually improved. My family no longer focuses on the success or failure of my dishes, but cares more about my dedication and dedication.
"Mother-in-law, I recently learned a new dish, how about you try it?" I walked into the living room with a plate of dishes, expecting her to react.
"Wow, it's delicious to look at, hurry up and taste it!" said the mother-in-law as she picked up her chopsticks and tasted it.
"Ah, this tastes so good!" the mother-in-law nodded with satisfaction.
"Daughter-in-law, you are becoming more and more proficient at cooking, and we will have your skills displayed in the future Chinese New Year's Eve dinner." The mother-in-law praised.
When I heard her praise, my heart was filled with satisfaction and happiness. This is not only an affirmation of my cooking skills, but also a recognition of my dedication and hard work.
"Thank you for your understanding and tolerance, it is you who have given me more motivation. I said gratefully.
"Daughter-in-law, we have always supported you, as long as you put your heart into it, it is the best. "My mother-in-law and aunt looked at me expectantly, which made me feel the warmth and tolerance of the family.
With the support and encouragement of my family, I became more and more courageous to try different dishes, always with a heartfelt attitude. Failure after failure no longer held me back, but inspired me to be more courageous and creative. In the process, I learned that treating my family with heart is not for the sake of pursuing perfect results, but out of genuine love and respect for them.
I run the family with my heart, no longer caring about success and failure, but enjoying the emotional exchange between my family members to the fullest. This kind of attentive and sincere attitude has made our relationship more harmonious, and it has also made me gain more happiness and satisfaction.
This experience has taught me to treat every detail with my heart, no longer lost for superficial efforts, but more attention to the sincere care for my family in my heart. I understand that life doesn't need to be too complicated, just with heart and love, it is enough to warm everyone around you. This is a true expression of feelings, but also a true attitude towards life.
I treat it with my heart, feel the love and support of my family, and look forward to warming this home with more sincerity and love in the future. May our lives be full of true affection, and may our families always be warm and happy.
Gradually, treating me with heart became a part of my life. I put sincerity and love into every dish, and I also found more recognition and appreciation in the eyes of my family.
"Daughter-in-law, your fish-flavored shredded pork is simply amazing!" the mother-in-law complimented.
"yes, it's a really memorable taste. My sister also praised her again and again.
I looked at their happy and contented smiles, and I felt extremely happy. This is not only an affirmation of my cooking skills, but also a recognition of my dedication and dedication.
"Thank you for your continued tolerance and support, it is your recognition that makes me even more motivated. I said gratefully.
"It's you who treat it with your heart, and we will naturally feel it. You are the best. "My mother-in-law and sister looked at me with encouragement and appreciation.
In the process of treating my family with heart, the family atmosphere has become more warm and harmonious. Our relationship has also become stronger and more open because of more understanding and love.
This experience has not only allowed me to grow as a person, but also made our family more harmonious and happy. Treating it with heart is a deep emotional exchange, and it is also a true care for the family.
In the days to come, I will continue to treat my family with more heart and love and warm this family. May our lives be full of true affection, and may our families always be happy and happy.
This family experience made me deeply realize the importance of treating my family with heart, and the emotional exchange and understanding make our family more warm and happy. I am determined that no matter what the future holds, I will treat my family with more heart and love, and sincerely convey my emotions to fill our lives with truth and warmth.
"Daughter-in-law, the food you cooked for us is really getting better and better!" said the mother-in-law happily.
"Yes, we have enjoyed your heart and love every time!" added my sister with a smile.
I looked at their satisfied smiles, and my heart was extremely happy. This positive change not only allowed me to gain more recognition and love from my family, but more importantly, I understood the true meaning of treating my family with heart, and this kind of emotional exchange infiltrated the warmth and harmony of our family.
"Thank you for your continued support and understanding, it is your love that inspires me to keep improving. I said gratefully.
"You're right, whether it's cooking or living, it's the most important thing. The mother-in-law nodded and said in agreement.
"Yes, the happiness of our family comes from everyone's dedication and dedication. My sister added, her tone full of emotion.
I silently sighed in my heart the power of this emotion, and treating it with heart is not only an attitude, but also an expression of sincere care for my family. For me, the love and tolerance of my family is the most important thing, and treating it with heart is my truest emotion and attitude.
I know that being attentive in every detail is the most sincere care for my family. I hope that in the days to come, our family will be full of love and warmth, and treat it with heart, which is the truest appearance of the family. May our moments of happiness last forever, and our love will always be with us.