Preface
In recent years, with the rapid development of the economy and the highly developed information, people's lifestyles and values are also undergoing earth-shaking changes. In such an environment, the meaning of marriage and love seems to have become colorful, various marriage and love models emerge in an endless stream, and the traditional concept of marriage and cultural connotation seem to be gradually forgotten by people.
However, even in the context of this fast-paced era, the wisdom and power contained in traditional culture still have a unique charm, which can provide many references and inspirations for contemporary people's married life. In fact, there are still many people in the current society who can create a sincere and beautiful love story through the inheritance and application of traditional culture in their marriage.
1. The inheritance and application of traditional culture add new vitality to love and marriage
Whether in the city or in the countryside, you can find such a group of people, who have a special complex for traditional culture, and are willing to experience and inherit the connotation of these traditional cultures in their married life. In their view, the values of family and country, benevolence, righteousness, courtesy, wisdom and trustworthiness contained in traditional culture are of great significance to the way husband and wife get along, as well as the management of married life.
For example, in the wedding ceremonies of some ethnic minorities, the couple needs to perform a series of traditional ceremonies to express their commitment and blessings to marriage and family, and these ceremonies can often make the husband and wife cherish each other more, and also add a strong cultural heritage to their married life.
In the customs and traditions of some places, there are also some stories and allusions about the way husband and wife get along, such as Xu Xian and the White Lady in "The Legend of the White Snake", and Du Liniang and Liu Mengmeng in "The Peony Pavilion".
It can be said that it is precisely because of the influence and influence of these traditional cultures that many people will become more tolerant and considerate in marriage, know how to respect and understand each other, and know how to manage and maintain their marital relationships, so that love will become more and more firm and precious in the polishing of the years.
2. The solidity of love is based on mutual tolerance and understanding
In contemporary society, there are more and more people who have all kinds of beautiful fantasies about marriage and love, and they hope that they can find a wishful husband or a wishful beauty, and go through the journey of life together until they grow old together.
However, true married life is often affected and tested by various external factors, and the solidity of love does not come from natural love at first sight, but requires both husband and wife to manage and protect it with their hearts.
In married life, tolerance and understanding are very important, and both husband and wife often have some contradictions and frictions because of their personal personalities and living habits, and they can tolerate each other and think from each other's point of view, so as to resolve conflicts and enhance feelings.
For example, Ali and Li Jun are such a cross-cultural couple, they come from different nationalities and regions, and in the beginning of getting along, there will be some small conflicts due to differences in language and living habits.
However, it is precisely because of their tolerant and understanding attitude towards each other that they can slowly resolve these contradictions, make each other's love more firm and beautiful, and slowly establish their own way of getting along.
It can be said that only after experiencing all kinds of ups and downs will the relationship between husband and wife become stronger and stronger, and they will be able to go more solid and long-lasting in the palace of marriage.
3. Kindness and empathy are important factors in maintaining love
In addition, kindness and empathy are also very important in married life, so that they can make the relationship between the husband and wife more delicate and deep.
In real life, we often hear such a sentence, "marriage is the grave of love", indeed, if the husband and wife lack understanding and support in the marriage, it is easy to have conflicts because of trivial matters, and eventually break the relationship.
Kindness and empathy can make husband and wife become more tolerant and considerate in the run-in and getting along, and can also make them cherish each other more and know how to find each other's shining points in various details.
For example, in the married life of Ali and Li Jun, they once had disputes over some small things in life, but after Li Jun showed kindness and thoughtfulness, Ali slowly felt his love and knew how to be more tolerant and understanding of each other.
It can be said that it is precisely because of this kindness and empathy that their love will become better and better, and it will also make each other the best companion and dependence.
Fourth, the little life in the family becomes the emotional bond between husband and wife
In addition to the way husband and wife get along, the little life in the family can also become an emotional bond between them, grow together, and share joy and happiness together.
In the current society, more and more young people have chosen a "two-way pressure" lifestyle, whether in their careers or in their families, they need to bear a variety of responsibilities and pressures, and such a state of life can easily make the feelings of both husband and wife alienated and indifferent.
At this time, the little life in the family, such as children or pets, is particularly important, they can give their parents infinite happiness and companionship, and also allow the husband and wife, in the process of taking care of them, slowly find each other again.
Of course, in addition to the traditional concept of fertility, modern people have more diversified choices, such as choosing to adopt, or choosing to take care of pets together, no matter which way, they can become the emotional bond between husband and wife, grow together, and create their own happy life together.
Fifth, cross-cultural integration makes love more colorful
In addition to family life, the diversity of love has also been recognized and respected by more and more people, especially in contemporary society, cross-cultural marriage has become a beautiful landscape.
Whether it is because of work or the opportunity to travel, more and more people have a love experience across regions and nationalities, and this kind of love often makes their lives more colorful.
In a cross-cultural marriage, they can not only learn different languages and cultures, but also taste a variety of delicious exotic customs, and more importantly, they can establish a new way of getting along through tolerance and understanding, making each other's love more unique and interesting.
For example, in the married life of Ali and Li Jun, they fully demonstrated the charm of cross-cultural marriage, whether it is in daily life or getting along on holidays, they can have a variety of interactions, and also make each other's lives more rich and meaningful.
It can be said that it is precisely because of cross-cultural integration that their love will become so different, and more people will feel the charm between different cultures.
epilogue
Love is a silent emotion that can make people feel infinite warmth and strength in it, and marriage is the crystallization of love, which needs to be managed and guarded by both husband and wife.
Whether it is the traditional concept of marriage or the modern mode of marriage and love, every kind of love is unique, and when different loves meet, there will be different sparks.
I hope that every pair of people who love each other can be like Ali and Li Jun, take care of each other with their hearts, and face the ups and downs of life together.
