On the night of Chinese New Year's Eve in 1992, Liang Sishen went to his grandfather's house with trepidation. Many years ago, because of an inheritance lawsuit, Liang Sishen and her uncles gradually drifted apart, and now she has re-entered this former safe haven, and she has mixed feelings in her heart. When Liang Sishen pushed open the door, she was greeted by her cousin's cold eyes and harsh words. For a while, Liang Sishen seemed to have returned to the situation of being left out in the cold, the fig leaf was torn off, and her self-esteem was hit hard again. In the end, Liang Sishen chose to flee and left alone on Chinese New Year's Eve, and the Chinese New Year's Eve dinner was not happy. But where will Liang Sishen's life trajectory go, and will she finally find her own place?
1. Liang Sishen's background: inside and outside the family
The Liang family has been a prominent family in Huai'an since ancient times, with a long family history and has been passed down from generation to generation. Liang Sishen's grandfather, Liang Zongzhi, was born in the 1920s and is the eldest son of the Liang family. Liang Zongzhi received an excellent education from his family since he was a child, and he was nurtured, humble, courteous, and knowledgeable. During the Anti-Japanese War, he served in the Kuomintang army, and later as the tide of the war turned, he eventually joined the revolutionary ranks of the Communist Party.
After the end of the civil war, Liang Zongzhi could have been high, mixed with decent errands, and lived a comfortable and comfortable life. But he would rather give up everything and leave his homeland just to follow the ideals and beliefs in his heart. In 1949, Liang Zongzhi and his family left for another country and finally settled in the United States. During his wandering career in a foreign country, Liang Zongzhi relied on his extraordinary wisdom and skills to slowly gain a firm foothold in the United States and eventually make a fortune.
Liang Sishen was born in this family. Her father, Liang Jinlu, is Liang Zongzhi's nephew, and her mother is the daughter of an ordinary family. According to the family concept at that time, Liang Jinlu's family business was really a bit wrong. Liang Sishen has lived in the cold eyes of his uncles since he was a child, and his position in the family has always been very embarrassing.
In the early 1980s, Liang Sishen's grandmother died, leaving behind a sizable inheritance. According to common sense, this inheritance should be inherited by Liang Zongzhi, the eldest son, alone. But Liang Sishen's father, Liang Jinlu, also wanted a piece of the pie, so he filed a lawsuit against Liang Zongzhi and others in a U.S. court. This is undoubtedly a blow to the reputation of the entire Liang family, and the ugliness of the family is publicized, making Liang Zongzhi and others lose face.
The court finally ruled in favor of Liang Jinlu, and Liang Sishen also received a large share of the inheritance. But this lawsuit undoubtedly completely tore apart the relationship between Liang Sishen and his uncles. Since then, Liang Sishen has become a complete "outsider" in the Liang family. She had to move out of her uncles' house to fend for herself.
2. Liang Sishen's independent personality: self-improvement
Regarded as an outsider by his uncles, Liang Sishen has been neglected since he was a child. In the safe haven of the Liang family, she seems to be just a passerby forever, unable to get the warmth and love she deserves. This loneliness and loss planted the seeds of self-improvement in Liang Sishen's heart.
In the early 80s of last century, Liang Sishen was admitted to a well-known university in the United States. It was a major turning point in her life. Far away from home and relatives, Liang Sishen truly experienced the hardships of independent life for the first time. In a foreign country, she had to rely on her own hands and wisdom to work hard.
During his college years, Liang Sishen relied on student loans and part-time jobs to make ends meet, and his life was very poor. She often studied alone in the library until late at night, and studying became her only sustenance. Liang Sishen knows that only through his own efforts can he change the status quo and get rid of the fate of being looked down upon.
In this way, Liang Sishen gritted his teeth and persevered, and finally obtained his degree with excellent grades. After graduation, she did not choose to live comfortably back to China, but continued to work hard in the United States. With his extraordinary wisdom and courage, Liang Sishen has worked in many companies, worked in all walks of life, and slowly accumulated valuable experience.
In 1990, Liang Sishen made up his mind and started his own company with some savings on hand. In the beginning, she was just a small workshop by herself, and the business was very difficult. But Liang Sishen is never discouraged, she knows that this is the only way to success. Sure enough, with excellent professionalism and perseverance, Liang Sishen's company soon ushered in a good opportunity for development.
By 1992, Liang Sishen's company had achieved a small success, and she had finally gained a foothold in the United States. On the night of Chinese New Year's Eve this year, Liang Sishen went to his grandfather's house with apprehension. She specially prepared a generous gift, which was a blue and white glazed red box of the third generation of the Qing Dynasty, which was very valuable. Liang Sishen hopes that through this gift, he can prove to his grandfather and uncles that he is already strong and is no longer the poor poor relative.
However, when Liang Sishen pushed open the door, she was greeted by her cousin's cold eyes and bitter words. For a while, she seemed to have returned to the situation of being left out in the cold, and her self-esteem was hit hard again. In the end, Liang Sishen chose to flee and left alone on Chinese New Year's Eve.
This experience is undoubtedly another exercise of Liang Sishen's independent personality. She realized that in order to gain the respect of others, it is not enough to rely on money, but also to have perseverance and inner cultivation. Since then, Liang Sishen has made up his mind to go to the next level in his career and use his ability to win dignity.
3. Liang Sishen's emotional world: the father-lover complex
Liang Sishen has lived with his father since he was a child, and his mother died of illness at an early age. In that era, single-parent families were rare, and Liang Sishen lacked the nourishment of maternal love since he was a child.
In 1980, Liang Sishen was admitted to a prestigious university in the United States for further study. This was a major turning point in her life and the beginning of her separation from her father, Liang Jinlu. Since then, Liang Sishen has been like a nestling that has left the nest and has begun a wandering life.
Life in a foreign country is not easy, Liang Sishen often misses his hometown and his father. In order to maintain this lonely family relationship, Liang Sishen maintained a close correspondence with his father Liang Jinlu. In those days full of hardship and loneliness, my father's letter was like a ray of warm sun, warming Liang Sishen's heart.
Liang Jinlu is a very talented entrepreneur who has made a small success in China. In his letters, he often earnestly instructed Liang Sishen to study hard and contribute to the family business after returning to China in the future. Liang Sishen was deeply influenced by his father, worked harder in a foreign country, and finally obtained a master's degree with excellent results.
After graduation, Liang Sishen did not choose to return to China, but continued to work hard in the United States. She often wrote to her father about her work and life, and his father always gave her moral support and encouragement. In this way, across the ocean, Liang Sishen's family relationship with his father has never been severed.
In 1990, Liang Sishen decided to start his own company. This is undoubtedly a difficult decision for a young girl. In the letter, Liang Sishen reported his thoughts and plans to his father in detail. Without saying a word, Liang Jinlu took out all his savings for his daughter as the start-up capital for her business.
With the support of his father, Liang Sishen has become more ambitious on the road of entrepreneurship. In the dead of night, she often opened her father's letters and read them carefully. Those words were like a beacon that illuminated the direction in which she was going.
In this way, with the spiritual support of his father, Liang Sishen's career finally got better. On the night of Chinese New Year's Eve in 1992, when she went to her grandfather's house with trepidation, she still regarded her father as her most solid support.
However, when Liang Sishen pushed open the door, she was greeted by her cousin's cold eyes and bitter words. For a while, she seemed to have returned to the situation of being left out in the cold, and her self-esteem was hit hard again. In the end, Liang Sishen chose to flee and left alone on Chinese New Year's Eve.
This experience undoubtedly made Liang Sishen miss his father even more. In the depths of her heart, her father is like an unshakable beacon that guides her in the direction of life. Since then, Liang Sishen has made up his mind to let his father see his achievements and prove his worth with the success of his career.
4. Liang Sishen's future outlet: big rivers and big rivers
The experience on Chinese New Year's Eve in 1992 was undoubtedly a major blow to Liang Sishen. At her grandfather's house, she once again experienced the taste of being left out and discriminated against, and her self-esteem was seriously hurt.
Not long after Liang Sishen left angrily, his grandfather Liang Zongzhi suddenly fell ill and died. This was undoubtedly a big change, which plunged the entire Liang family into chaos. As the eldest son, the death of Liang Zongzhi will undoubtedly trigger a power vacuum and asset distribution problems within the family.
In the face of all this, Liang Sishen's heart was actually full of confusion and hesitation. For many years, she had been regarded as an outsider by her uncles and insignificant in the Liang family. But at the same time, she is the descendant of the orthodox blood of the Liang family, and she is not completely irrelevant to the future development of the family.
Just when Liang Sishen was worried, she received a letter from her father Liang Jinlu. Liang Jinlu said in the letter that although he and the Liang family have drifted apart over the years, they are still of the same origin after all. He hopes that Liang Sishen can play an important role in the family and contribute to the future of the Liang family.
With his father's support and encouragement, Liang Sishen suddenly made a decision in his heart. She made up her mind to participate in the major affairs of the Liang family as a member of the family and take the pulse of the family's future development.
Soon, Liang Sishen took action. She first communicated with her uncles and expressed her sincerity. Although there was a gap in the past, now that the family is facing major changes, it is very necessary to distinguish between relatives and relatives.
Liang Sishen's sincere attitude finally moved his uncles. At the Liang family's family meeting, Liang Sishen was given the right to speak and put forward his unique views on the future development of the family. She believes that although the Liang family has been rooted in the United States for many years, it is a Chinese immigrant family after all, and the connection with the motherland must not be severed. She suggested that the Liang family should set up a branch in China, which can diversify risks on the one hand, and lay the foundation for the long-term development of the family on the other hand.
Liang Sishen's suggestion was unanimously approved by his uncles. Soon, the Liang family set up an investment company in China, which was run by Liang Sishen himself. With extraordinary wisdom and perseverance, Liang Sishen quickly made the company bear fruit.
In this way, Liang Sishen finally gained a firm foothold in the Liang family and gained the status and respect he deserved. She was no longer the poor relative she was, but an outstanding family elite. And the future development of the Liang family is also bright because of the addition of Liang Sishen.
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Since then, Liang Sishen has been like a rushing river, shuttling back and forth between the motherland and a foreign land, contributing to the growth of the Liang family's career. She used her ability to win dignity and find her own place.