Speaking of Tang Bohu, many people will think of the words "suave and suave", and try their best to "point autumn fragrance".
And he in real life is very different from him on TV.
We can even use "loneliness" to describe the second half of his life. The wonderfulness of life is just a flash in the pan, and what remains is endless tribulation.
Life is really hard, but you still have to cross yourself. No matter what happens, we still have to live positively, this is the spirit that Tang Bohu brings us, covering up the ups and downs with a smile.
As his friend Zhu Yunming commented on him: "Ziwei is a text, beautiful or light, refined or general, and there is no normality." ”
The stars are moving, and then I read Tang Bohu's poems, and I am emotional, which is very exciting.
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"When the name is not obvious, the heart is immortal, and then pick the light to read the article": the success or failure of a person, hard work is good.
When Tang Bohu was a child, his family was quite wealthy, so he had the opportunity to study.
He is talented and intelligent, and he won the first place in several consecutive small exams, and he was shocked all over the world.
The achievement of reading made him proud. When Ying Tianfu won the first place, he said: "The three strategies are not ancient endowments, how can God boast." ”
When Tang Bohu went to the capital to take the examination, because his writing was too good and he was not cautious enough, he was involved in the scientific examination fraud case. Since then, there has been no chance to participate in scientific expeditions.
All the books I have read can't support fame, and the tragedy of life has begun.
Fortunately, Tang Bohu, who can't be an official, is still on the road of literature, slowly going far, even if it is difficult.
俗话说：“谋事在人，成事在天。 ”
Whether it's reading or starting a business, as long as you work hard, it's fine, and as for the result, you really don't care too much. If you have to ask for the result of everything, you will be very tired.
Too many things, no results, but the best results. Truth is, silence is golden, and letting go is bliss.
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"Firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, all of them are in other people's homes": people's families are difficult in everything.
After the failure of the scientific expedition, the husband and wife began to quarrel, and the family chickens and dogs jumped.
Then, his parents and sister died in the same year, and his son died soon after. The world is miserable, and that's it.
When it came to the Chinese New Year, every household was lit up, but he was in mourning.
How many people, when they were young, swore and said, "I love you, I will raise you." "Raise all the people you love and live a good life.
When people reach middle age, they find that they really don't have three heads and six arms, and there is too much helplessness in life. It may take a lot of twists and turns, and even the problem of food and clothing in life cannot be solved.
Compared with other people's homes and their own lives, they are always chicken feathers.
Happy families are all similar, unhappy families are different.
The greatest success in this life is to have a decent family, and the biggest failure is to be "homeless".
Most of the meaning of life is to grit your teeth and persevere, send the next generation, manage your daily life, raise the next generation, and slowly survive in the ordinary fireworks.
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"If you are idle, you will sell it in the green mountains, and you will not make money in the world": A person's life is only possible if there is money.
The world panicked, for a few taels of silver. Tang Bohu is no exception, but no matter how poor he is, he doesn't do things that violate his conscience, but sells poetry.
One autumn, he was appreciated by Zhu Chenhao, the king of Ning, but he soon found out that the king of Ning was going to rebel, so he pretended to be crazy and stupid and left in time.
The opportunity to make a fortune is gone, but he doesn't regret it, after all, he didn't help the abuse.
People, as long as the money comes the right way, even if it is very little, they will feel happy. If the source of the money is unknown, and the waist is full of money, it will also be very painful and you can't sleep at night.
After going through a lot of twists and turns, you will understand that the important factor in a person's life is money, clean money.
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"Half-awake and half-drunk day after day, flowers fall and bloom year after year": people's mentality is rare and confused.
When his life was down, Tang Bohu lived in the Peach Blossom Nunnery, and it was during this period that his literature reached its peak.
Looking at the peach blossoms at the door, they bloomed and withered again, year after year.
People, isn't it the same, ups and downs, year after year, whether they live well or not, the key is mentality.
The best flowers are not the ones that bloom to the extreme, but the ones that are ready to bloom, and the best life is not the peak moment, but the halfway way.
The word "half" can save people a lot of trouble, and they can also let themselves have a lot of blank space.
Being a man, pretending to be confused with understanding, is the best realm. Because I was half confused, it seemed to be drunk, but in fact, I took a step back and opened the sky.
Get along with anyone, and if you are confused, you will win. Others are calculating, but you are happy alone, it doesn't matter what you gain or lose, there are gains and losses.
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"If you are born in the sun, there is an end, and if you die, what does it matter if you return to the underworld": It is good to look down on the life and death of people.
Tang Bohu in his twilight years, facing death, suddenly sighed that the world is hell, and after he died, he went to the underworld, but in another way, "returned to the world".
Mr. Jin Yong also said: "Life is to make a big fuss and then leave quietly." ”
All the joys and sorrows are "ashes" in the end. If you are too greedy for "life", you will suffer and further turn the world into "purgatory".
People who really see through life, although cherish every day of life, every day counts, do not cry, do not complain. If you are poor, you will be poor, and if you are rich, you will be rich, and you can't be sad.
Grow old naturally, be tempered in the world, go to hell to endure the test, pass through the passage of life and death, there is no sorrow and joy, there is something to conform to, and the mind of things to go.
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Suddenly, I turned around, you and I are "century-old people".
I have read thousands of books, walked thousands of miles, seen thousands of landscapes, tasted thousands of tastes, and read thousands of faces...... The geometry of life, realize it yourself.
Read the sentences written by Tang Bohu, you who have been ordinary all your life, will definitely be able to let go.
When we feel that we are doing nothing and the people at the bottom are too miserable, we can always bring a warm wind to give ourselves the courage to live a good life again.
Perhaps, Tang Bohu saw Qiu Xiang in his dream, that's fine, he lost too much in life, but he didn't lose his dream after all.
It turns out that Starlight doesn't ask passers-by, and time lives up to dreamers.
Author: Cloth Clothes Coarse Food.
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