Tian Hairong's family background and the road to chasing her dreams
On a rainy night, a young woman sat on the edge of the stage with a pipa, composing her beauty and firmness with a delicate and moving voice - this is Tian Hairong, who was born in a family of opera.
Both parents are outstanding actors, and Tian Hairong has lived in an atmosphere of acting since she was a child.
At a time when folk artists were also living a small and fortunate life, her parents hoped that their daughter would inherit this ancient and fragile industry.
So Tian Hairong put down the stage of the repertoire she was good at, and fell in love with acrobatics and playing the pipa. At that time, her heart was full of the passion and dreams of a girl.
But then, fate set her another path to chase her dreams. In 1996, under the discovery of director Li Shaohong, Tian Hairong came to the screen. The heroine of "Thunderstorm" "Sifeng" became her first step into the film and television industry.
starred in the first play as the heroine, and won unanimous praise from the audience and the director, which is undoubtedly an affirmation of Tian Hairong's acting skills and charm. When she didn't eat tea and dinner, she starred in many film and television works such as "Beautiful Baiyinna" one after another, and in just a few years, she emerged in the circle with her outstanding acting skills.
However, Tian Hairong's acting career was not as smooth as she imagined. The film she wrote and directed was not a success, and she has not been able to star in more works that have made her popular and well-known since then.
The gears of fate are turning, and in 2002, Tian Hairong met the love of her life, billionaire Xu Ming.
Meet the rich man Xu Ming, hand in hand
In Shanghai in 2002, it was the middle of summer, the sky was high and the clouds were light, and the pedestrians were busy, which was a beautiful season for all things to recover. That day, Tian Hairong's friend insisted on pulling her to relax, but Tian Hairong, who didn't want to go out, couldn't extinguish the little expectation in her heart at the moment.
In front of a famous western restaurant on the street. Tian Hairong saw a handsome man standing at the door of the restaurant, looking at every pair of guests who came.
originally wanted to rush by, but she never expected that her friend stopped her and introduced her old friend Xu Ming with a smile. The eyes of the two intertwined, and in an instant, the heart stopped, and there was silence all around, only the eyes met and blended.
Xu Ming is talented and courageous, and at the age of 26, he was in charge of his company's 50,000 employees. And that encounter, Xu Ming said that he was moved at that time.
The two hearts were tied in the ethereal, and the two soon fell in love. Xu Ming's sincerity and romance melted Tian Hairong's heart. They also love music and art, and the resonance of this hobby and belief further closes the distance between the two hearts.
In 2002, they tied the knot in the presence of friends. Happiness came too suddenly, and Tian Hairong sometimes felt like she was in a dream.
After marriage, they lived very sweetly. Tian Hairong also stopped acting in dramas and devoted all her time and energy to her new family. That year, my daughter was born, and the home became more warm.
Seeing that a happy life will last for a long, long time, Tian Hairong will often fantasize like this.
The catastrophe is inevitable, behind the 13 billion inheritance
If life is never as perfect as a fairy tale, then when the gears of fate turn, it is even more unpredictable.
In 2012, a summons changed the trajectory of Tian Hairong's life. It turned out that Xu Ming was involved in an economic dispute and was sentenced to 10 years in prison. This is tantamount to a bolt from the blue for Tian Hairong.
She couldn't accept that her lover, her daughter's father, was in prison.
The hardships and loneliness of prison life are unimaginable to ordinary people. Tian Hairong barely stopped for a moment, running around, just to try to reduce her husband's sentence. Her rush even moved the judge, who eventually reduced her sentence to 4 years.
This is already the maximum leniency.
In the past 4 years, Tian Hairong has lived like a year. She endures her inner pain as she takes care of her young daughter while dealing with the intricacies of business disputes left behind by her husband.
During the day, he took his daughter to run around the world, and at night he worked overtime alone.
"It's all my fault", Xu Ming wrote a letter in prison to blame himself for not thinking through it back then, and said that he was weak and sickly, and he was afraid that he would not survive the past few years.
However, the reality is always so cruel, in 2015, Xu Ming finally died of illness at the age of 44. He left too quickly and too suddenly, and he didn't have time to leave half a last word, so he passed away silently.
Giving up the 13 billion inheritance, Tian Hairong's choice
"13 billion, I would have run away with the money if I had replaced me!"
"With so much money, what do you care about so much, just enjoy it beautifully!"
People who are familiar with Xu Ming's case are all talking sourly, just waiting to see the day when Tian Hairong will fly.
However, under everyone's side dissent, Tian Hairong made a decision that shocked everyone - she gave up the huge inheritance of 13 billion and turned away the opportunity to legally inherit half of the wealth.
After Xu Ming's death, she couldn't face the empty big house for a while, and her mind was full of bits and pieces that the two had written here. She looked at her daughter's innocent smiling face and thought to herself, she should hold on, for the sake of this family.
So she took the initiative to give up her inheritance and moved out of every house where Xu Ming lived before her death with her daughter.
"Heh, Tian Hairong was buried with righteousness. Tian Hairong heard the words of passers-by in her ears, but she didn't care. She understands that her relationship with Xu Ming is never worthy of a "buried" word, and even if there is a little interest, it is harmless.
He gave her the happiest life she had in years, which is why she never gave up. She wants to take her daughter into a new life, not be imprisoned by the wealth of the past.
The power of not giving up, the self-improvement of women after Nirvana
Tian Hairong chose to raise her daughter alone.
She gave up the opportunity to develop her career and dedicated all her time and energy to her beloved daughter. In order not to let her daughter feel the incompleteness of the family, she is willing to give and pour all her love and care into her daughter.
At first, life was walking on thin ice for her. She has a heavy burden on her shoulders and has to be on her own. But she didn't flinch at all, she worked hard all day long, her eyes were full of her daughter, and she had no time to lament the injustice of life.
Just when she was adapting to this rhythm of life, the death of Tian Hairong's mother gave her a heavy blow. The mother, who was lying on the hospital bed, took her daughter's hand and said that she was going to visit her father.
Tian Hairong burst into tears, and she suddenly realized that her only reliance was on this young daughter.
Overnight, Tian Hairong seemed to age a lot. She no longer has anything to rely on, but on herself. So she chose to move forward and face life with a positive and optimistic attitude.
She raised her daughter alone and taught her carefully. Under her care, her daughter grew up, demure and mature, and excelled in her studies. Now Xiang Chen has graduated from college, which has brought Tian Hairong a lot of joy and pride, which is the best comfort she has received in all the ups and downs of life.
Tian Hairong used her desperate maternal love and perseverance to carry this family and let it grow up safely in the wind and sunshine.
Brilliant flowers, eternal love
Tian Hairong has experienced too many life changes, and her inner world is richer and more complex than anyone else.
On the surface, the 47-year-old Tian Hairong is calm and calm, which is different from the flamboyance of the year. Savor it carefully, and you will find the loneliness and sorrow in her eyes.
She would play the erhu in the middle of the night and play the song that she had danced with Xu Ming. His warm smiling face and loving gaze seemed to appear in front of him. The night is so quiet that only thoughts remain.
She faced the blow with an optimistic attitude, as her late mother taught her: "We can't fully know a person's inner struggles, but we can judge how to look at life by her attitude."
Yes, Tian Hairong lives for herself and for her daughter. Instead of indulging her sorrow to sweep away, she was grateful for each new sunrise with a positive state of mind.
She did not refuse to recall, she always missed Xu Ming and her deceased parents. Because of this dependence on each other, you have me and I have your affection, she can be reborn after the storm.
The relationship between her and Xu Ming is like a summer flower in life that fades after blooming, beautiful and short. But sincere love is always worth remembering, which is why she chose it.
The choice of tears is worth remembering
Each of us has a different life, and when we encounter storms and difficulties, we will have different choices.
Tian Hairong gave up a huge inheritance and chose to raise her daughter alone under the pressure of public opinion, this kind of selfless love is worthy of admiration.
She uses her story to tell the world that the meaning of life is not the pursuit of financial gain, but the sincere love for others. It is with this love that we can get back on our feet in the midst of suffering and find strength and meaning.
Tian Hairong has spent an extraordinary life as an ordinary woman, and her choice is awe-inspiring. Faced with the temptation of hundreds of millions of family properties, she knew in her heart that in the end she did not become a poor person overridden by greed.
This tearful choice is worth remembering and learning from Xi. In this materialistic world, there are still people with a pure heart, which is our common hope.