Sichuan girl accidentally married a Dutch "playboy", and she was often jealous and blacked, but now she laughs it off
My name is Xiaoling, I am from Sichuan, a beautiful girl. Growing up in the spicy flavor of Sichuan cuisine since I was a child, I have gradually formed my personality: straightforward, enthusiastic and energetic. However, life is always full of accidents, and I never imagined that I would marry a typical "playboy" in the eyes of others - Anthony of the Netherlands.
Anthony, tall and handsome, sunny and free. In his circle of friends, every girl has a soft spot for him. He had a luxurious life and expensive jewelry in the Netherlands, and there were countless parties and balls every day. And I was the girl who was attracted by his radiant appearance.
I once asked him, "Can you really love me?" and he smiled, looked at me and said, "I just don't know how to love people." At that time, I was immersed in the love and freedom he gave, and my doubts about him gradually turned into dependence.
However, our married life was not what I imagined. Anthony would often flirt with other girls at parties and would even flirt with other people in front of me. I started to get jealous, started to block him, and even started to doubt my choices. However, every time he would come back to me and dispel my doubts with his smile and hug.
Over time, I began to understand that Anthony was not a fanciful person, he just didn't know how to express his feelings. He is just Xi to being pursued and appreciated, but he doesn't know how to love someone. I began to accept everything he had and slowly learned how to love him.
Now I don't care about him being ambiguous with others, and I'm no longer jealous of some of his little mistakes. Because I know that he loves me, he just doesn't know how to express it. And I have learned how to love him and how to understand him.
Sometimes I would smile and ask him, "Can you really love me?" and he would always smile and reply, "Of course." I'll also laugh and respond, "That's good." "The relationship between us has become more stable and deeper.
Sometimes I think of the old days, the days when I blocked him because I was jealous. But in retrospect, those are all memories of youth, traces of growth. I also began to understand Anthony's past and present, and I also valued our present and future more.
In the process, I also learned how to deal with my emotions and how to deal with my emotions. I began to understand that love is not smooth sailing, but requires giving, understanding and tolerance. I've also learned that sometimes we don't need to change others, we need to change ourselves.
This is my story, the story of a Sichuan girl who accidentally married a Dutch "playboy". There were many difficulties and doubts, but now I can laugh them off. Because I know that love needs time to precipitate and be tempered. As long as we are willing to face, understand, and tolerate, then our love will become more beautiful and precious.
Finally, I want to say: there is no fixed model and standard for love, only what suits you is the best. As long as we are willing to try, work hard, and believe, then we will definitely be able to find our own happiness. Therefore, whether you are a Sichuan girl or a girl from other regions, as long as you have a lover's heart, then you will be able to find your own happiness.