The missed blessing The 40-year-old actress announced that she was pregnant with her fourth child, which exploded, and the media and fans watched one after another. However, this pregnancy triggered a deep struggle within her. She had made a wish to welcome a daughter, but it turned out to be her fourth son, and this time, her mood seemed to be uneasy. "The 40-year-old actress officially announced that she was pregnant with 4 children! wishing that her daughter failed and was a son again, and her 7-year-old husband was a billionaire", such a title made her feel particularly glaring. Sons are the greatest joy in her life, but the deep loss in her heart cannot be erased. Every time her friends complimented her on her sunny family and lovely sons, she always responded with a smile, but her heart was sad.
The elders always say that boys are the continuation of the family, but she also hopes to have a little more pink presence at home, a gentle and intelligent daughter. Whenever the children asked what they wanted to do in the future, she always encouraged them to pursue their interests and dreams, but she began to regret it because she had never had the opportunity to experience first-hand what it was like to grow up with a daughter as a mother. She envies the intimate emotional exchange between mother and daughter, while she can only silently play the role of an elderly mother and a young child.
By chance, she received a documentary about her daughter's relationship with her mother. The film made her fall into deep contemplation, she saw the tenderness of the mother when she combed her daughter's hair, the warm scene of the mother and daughter walking hand in hand, and the scene of the mother accompanying her daughter through the important moments in her life. She suddenly realizes that she is not alone. Each member of the family is able to experience different emotions, and she is not alone, but she has been ignoring her innermost needs.
She sat on the sofa and looked through the photos of the children at home, each of which recorded the growth of the children. The way the children came home from school talking to her, the children playing with her on the weekends, she suddenly felt as if something was missing from these images. She began to wonder if as a mother could she open up and share her true feelings with her children, letting them know that she also had her own worries and expectations, and perhaps she could find spiritual satisfaction through deeper communication.
So, she began to try to open her heart in the family and share her emotions with the children, including the confusion of life and the hope for her daughter. She began to accompany her sons to complete more family moments, making dumplings, painting, and even dancing together. She found that the children were able to understand her, and they could express their inner emotions in different situations, and this emotional connection made her feel warm and satisfied. At the age of 40, she slowly released the depression in her heart in the company of her children and rediscovered her love for life. She learns to open up her heart with the children and tell them that everyone in the family is unique and that everyone's emotions deserve to be respected and cared for. Although she does not have a daughter, she understands that the warmth of the family and the emotional connection do not lie in the difference in gender, but in the fit and communication of each member's heart.
When the children grow up and look back, she hopes that what they will remember is not only the laughter and family fun at home, but also the sincere emotional exchange and mutual understanding between family members. This may be the true meaning of the perfect family she has been pursuing. The 40-year-old actress's announcement that she was pregnant with her fourth child still shocked the outside world, but now she has become firm and calm. She understands that there will always be regrets in life, but being able to open up and sincerely share emotions with her family may be the real happiness.